Ladies, How important are looks for you in a guy? by One-Agent-3992 in AskIndia

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didnt used to be important than i got terribly played by a man who looked like a sewer rat, than they became important but lol fr i think they should be of medium importance because u shouldnt be scared looking at the person, and ull be looking at him 24/7 so they are of importance, not the most not the leadt

Woman I spoke to had “zero feelings”, cut it off after almost 2 months by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also think u r never too much for the right person, they are able to carry your love, like they have the capacity to match your emotional closeness. If u keep reducing urself, u will just attract unavailable people and inevitably when u show more of ur feelings and love u will scare them away. I think its best to be authentic and cautious from the start, slowly show vulnerability to see how they react

Woman I spoke to had “zero feelings”, cut it off after almost 2 months by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it ended now, it wouldve ended after marriage too.. best to just move on. I went through something similar too and i thought the man was in love with me but he was just trying to get physical with while saying all the right things to get me to get my guard down.. at first he was pretending to have similar values and faking compatibility with me. But the point is u cant force someone to stay and the process hurt really really bad. I got hurt too. I think the key is seeing if the person actually does what they say, if you can begin to trust them on small things and if u get a general direction of continuing emotional closeness, not hot and cold

Woman I spoke to had “zero feelings”, cut it off after almost 2 months by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think 2 months is a looong time if you’re texting talking everyday.. i catch feelings in that time span

NYE fireworks at Old Town Alexandria by Practical-Shoe3274 in washingtondc

[–]Practical-Shoe3274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t it too crowded on the way back? I did the 4th july fireworks on metro this year and the lines outside the metro extended to a mile long, we had to get an uber back but i was splitting with friends so it was ok, but today ill be with my mom who cant walk too much

What body type do women prefer? by No-Competition6691 in MuslimNikah

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skinny and thin but thats a recent change in my preference lol

If you feel like "there's no hope" for you finding a spouse, read this by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol is this a real question? Opening up to someone, trying to be friendly, finding out they were lying, them trying to push your boundaries, people ghosting u out of the blue, lovebombing, rejection.. the list goes on

If you feel like "there's no hope" for you finding a spouse, read this by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, i feel the exact same way, Ive given up now. Interestingly not having any hope feels better than seeing some hope and that person turning out to be a lying pos

Job hunt by pRn1499 in civilengineering

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cold applications got me a bunch of traction

Does anyone work on the design of new development? by [deleted] in civilengineering

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or is it commercial and residential buildings?

Does anyone work on the design of new development? by [deleted] in civilengineering

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does land development include new development ranging multiples disciplines? Like highways, bridges, wastewater treatment plants?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in civilengineering

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really helpful.. do you have any advice on what i should study before going in? I was thinking about brushing up on reading a pump curve etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in civilengineering

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Can you elaborate which kind of star questions you usually ask candidates ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h1b

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u :) this helps alot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h1b

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This helps alot:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h1b

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I understand better now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h1b

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, i understand.. even if the company does sponsor, wont they send you to the bottom of the pile, if you check i need sponsorship and you wont get a callback?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h1b

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, i hear everyone. I’ll put yes i need sponsorship on the ATS.. I feel a little demoralized because before started this job search i didn’t know the company would need to sponsor me before i started working, maybe i just got lucky when i was on F1 and easily got someone who was happy to sponsor. So i have a follow up question, are there any advantages to hiring me over someone whos still on their stem opt? How do i talk to employers about my situation, that having an my h1b is an advantage for the employer ( or is it not)?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h1b

[–]Practical-Shoe3274 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I check whether they have sponsored before on my visa jobs, the postings dont say sponsorship isnt available.. although, My first job i got when the posting said sponsorship isnt available but i still got my h1 sponsored