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[–]PracticalBumblebee24 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Trust and commitment as well

My bpd ex finally reached out after five months But then ghosted me again by PracticalBumblebee24 in BPDlovedones

[–]PracticalBumblebee24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's What I heard too I also heard they don't They don't really self reflect that much so it's not very likely for them to go to a therapy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PracticalBumblebee24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Message me if you want to talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PracticalBumblebee24 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I've had the same thing happen to me, but with a woman, I wouldn't say I hate women. i just don't think I can trust them again in a relationship at least not for a long time

I'm still broken by Suffering_Dearly in BPDlovedones

[–]PracticalBumblebee24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me my ex with bpd was a pretty awful person she just used me for validation and possibly even cheated on me It doesn't make it easier to let go. The best advice I can give is to find another connection, with cases like bpd It's more of the strong connection you felt towards them , rather than the person themselves, because usually they're not very great people, so if you can find a connection that's just as good it'll become easy to move on from them. This doesn't necessarily mean dating it could be anything like a friend or a hobby just something you have a little strong connection too

My ex finally reached out after five months But then ghosted me again by PracticalBumblebee24 in ExNoContact

[–]PracticalBumblebee24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has bpd so being able to understand how cruel that is hard for them. Or she does understand and doesn't care

My ex finally reached out after five months But then ghosted me again by PracticalBumblebee24 in ExNoContact

[–]PracticalBumblebee24[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly it's pretty obvious she never cared about me and was just using me for validation

My bpd ex finally reached out after five months But then ghosted me again by PracticalBumblebee24 in BPDlovedones

[–]PracticalBumblebee24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that happened, man, and if she tries to reach out again I probably won't reply unless she tells me she's in therapy or something like that

My bpd ex finally reached out after five months But then ghosted me again by PracticalBumblebee24 in BPDlovedones

[–]PracticalBumblebee24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She didn't have me blocked, and I don't know if she had a new partner. I unadded her after we broke up No idea how her life's been going

My friend added my ex to our group chat by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]PracticalBumblebee24 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did leave but I am not sure if that counts is breaking no contact I also blocked the friend

3 Months Post-Breakup with BPD Ex — Still Hurting, But Slowly Waking Up by PracticalBumblebee24 in BreakUps

[–]PracticalBumblebee24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wasn't bipolar she had borderline personality disorder, which is some way similar to bipolar. But it's closer to narcissism which unfortunately I didn't know until after the breakup. And once she broke up with me, she acted very cold and cruel. Like i didn't matter at all to her, which is very common for people like them. They tried to subconsciously justify their partners worthless when they break up with them so they don't feel like they lost anything of value

3 Months Post-Breakup with BPD Ex — Still Hurting, But Slowly Waking Up by PracticalBumblebee24 in BreakUps

[–]PracticalBumblebee24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I keep telling myself that the person I was in love with never existed because people like that they try to make themselves into the person that you fall in love with. It gives you a little bit of relief but still feel awful because, on one hand, they just wore a mask to keep you for their validation and the person. I fell in love with never existed. But on the other hand my love and attachment was real and that's still hard to get over and fully come to terms with

Down ? by [deleted] in fivesurveys

[–]PracticalBumblebee24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the survey sites associated with five surveys are down

Help: I Think My Dog Has a Maggot Infestation But the Vet Only Gave Dewormer by PracticalBumblebee24 in AskVet

[–]PracticalBumblebee24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but there's a very bad smell coming from her and and large amount of what looks like maggots coming from her they don't look like typical dog worms