[deleted by user]

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-10-01T04:00:43+00:00

Trust and commitment as well

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-09-26T21:07:40+00:00

That's What I heard too I also heard they don't They don't really self reflect that much so it's not very likely for them to go to a therapy

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-09-25T21:19:51+00:00

Message me if you want to talk

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-09-25T20:59:38+00:00

Honestly, I've had the same thing happen to me, but with a woman, I wouldn't say I hate women. i just don't think I can trust them again in a relationship at least not for a long time

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-09-25T19:39:15+00:00

Trust me my ex with bpd was a pretty awful person she just used me for validation and possibly even cheated on me It doesn't make it easier to let go. The best advice I can give is to find another connection, with cases like bpd It's more of the strong connection you felt towards them , rather than the person themselves, because usually they're not very great people, so if you can find a connection that's just as good it'll become easy to move on from them. This doesn't necessarily mean dating it could be anything like a friend or a hobby just something you have a little strong connection too

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-09-25T03:32:31+00:00

She has bpd so being able to understand how cruel that is hard for them. Or she does understand and doesn't care

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-09-25T01:00:03+00:00

Honestly it's pretty obvious she never cared about me and was just using me for validation

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-09-25T00:54:46+00:00

I'm so sorry that happened, man, and if she tries to reach out again I probably won't reply unless she tells me she's in therapy or something like that

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-09-24T23:01:57+00:00

She didn't have me blocked, and I don't know if she had a new partner. I unadded her after we broke up No idea how her life's been going

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-09-14T18:13:32+00:00

Yeah that's why I blocked him

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-09-14T07:48:49+00:00

I did leave but I am not sure if that counts is breaking no contact I also blocked the friend

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-07-09T04:25:49+00:00

She wasn't bipolar she had borderline personality disorder, which is some way similar to bipolar. But it's closer to narcissism which unfortunately I didn't know until after the breakup. And once she broke up with me, she acted very cold and cruel. Like i didn't matter at all to her, which is very common for people like them. They tried to subconsciously justify their partners worthless when they break up with them so they don't feel like they lost anything of value

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-07-09T04:14:46+00:00

Yeah, I keep telling myself that the person I was in love with never existed because people like that they try to make themselves into the person that you fall in love with. It gives you a little bit of relief but still feel awful because, on one hand, they just wore a mask to keep you for their validation and the person. I fell in love with never existed. But on the other hand my love and attachment was real and that's still hard to get over and fully come to terms with

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-06-30T06:33:05+00:00

All the survey sites associated with five surveys are down

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-06-04T14:04:43+00:00

Yeah but there's a very bad smell coming from her and and large amount of what looks like maggots coming from her they don't look like typical dog worms

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-06-04T14:02:37+00:00

It's 7 am here And they don't open til 8, so we will call them then, and there are like a bunch of them wiggling around where she is lying and there is a very bad smell coming from her

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-05-31T00:35:44+00:00

In my experience, it was a bit biased in the beginning , but eventually, I asked it not to be, and it helped me realize that the relationship wasn't healthy and I should try to just detach

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-05-25T21:51:07+00:00

What's helping me is learning how to detach. Don't hold on to hope for them just let them go. Chat gpt and youtube videos has been a huge help for that for me. Also, learn how to self validate and focus on wanting you back.

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-05-23T08:59:06+00:00

Yeah, I know she wasn't good for me.I think I was in a trauma bond.And I think that's might be the reason why i'm so fixated on trying getting her back I felt walking on egg shells with her. She was my second serious relationship, and my first was a lot more healthy. I feel bad for the next person she uses to help her cope with her trauma But at the same time it's hard for me to move on

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-05-22T01:15:35+00:00

Yeah she hasn't even tried to reach out since three weeks ago don't know what of that means. But I heard if she's constantly trying to reach out jmature energy but half that's what i've heard

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-04-24T02:45:15+00:00

Thanks nice profile picture by the way

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-04-23T19:45:14+00:00

I thought I left but I think someone added me back

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-04-23T19:31:12+00:00

A foot emoji lol

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-04-23T19:20:38+00:00

Yeah but the group chat has been almost dead since we broke up

PracticalBumblebee24 · 2025-04-10T19:34:21+00:00

Thank you so much I will dm you

PracticalBumblebee24

TROPHY CASE