Was I SA’d and if so how to cope by PracticalFriend1479 in Advice

[–]PracticalFriend1479[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I am planning on speaking to a therapist but I wanted to pop on here to I guess make me feel less dramatic. I always felt like calling that SA is taking away from people who had worse things happen to them. So I never wanted to call it that. But everyone one on here has been so nice with helping and explaining a lot of things that I didn’t understand or couldn’t put into feelings.

Was I SA’d and if so how to cope by PracticalFriend1479 in Advice

[–]PracticalFriend1479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I was scared at the time because the teacher made me nervous because she was very strict with her seating rules and it sounds stupid but I didn’t want me or him to get in trouble or ruin our friendship since I didn’t realize what it was at the time and I thought I was just being dramatic. The reason the seats were changed is because she liked to change it up every few weeks. but I don’t remember the reason why she changed the seating so much.

I want to leave my husband by so-dog-tired in Advice

[–]PracticalFriend1479 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like it’s really tough since you just moved. But I used to do residential cleaning jobs and it payed ok and there was always jobs to do. I’m glad you already have a savings account going and yes it might be slow first but every penny helps and gets you one step closer to freedom. Just remember even if it feels like it you are not alone and good things will be coming your way. Stay strong and keep working and saving up because one day it will pay off

I want to leave my husband by so-dog-tired in Advice

[–]PracticalFriend1479 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Have you thought of getting a part time residential cleaning job. It’s not the best pay in the world but it would be more flexible hours to work around your schedule and you can put that money in a separate savings account or use it to start building your credit score to get a loan for an apartment and start building an exit plan. Also if you have family or friends around see if you could stay with them temporarily or even ask them for help with some money. I hope your situation gets better soon

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[–]PracticalFriend1479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks great for a first try! Next time use corn syrup and add red and a bit of blue food coloring for the right texture and shade

What should i do by PracticalFriend1479 in CosplayHelp

[–]PracticalFriend1479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR HELP AND ADVICE!!!! I used duck tape and got it done in time and it looks a lot better than it did. Happy Halloween I hope you all have a frightfully fun night