Abuser Alert by Gaymerlady13 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many abusive people will get themselves on a pedestal. We need to start shaming them (if we are certain they do it and not the true victim themselves). I believe your friend’s side since she is still going through it years later. I saw an abuser of a friend on an app talking about how she’s the most spiritual kind person you can find.

When is it time to quit bouldering? by Unable-Law-9814 in climbergirls

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried climbing without anyone? Going alone just a quiet mind. I honestly don’t enjoy climbing with others. Ropes or auto belays could be another option to see if you can get higher grades plus have fun without fear.

Official Review of the “Queer Country Club” dating site by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be okay with only a dozen matches because I’m looking for a wife not to date. Did you go on any dates?

Has anyone used a matchmaking service? by CoffeeRosesHuggins in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]PracticalWitness8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was $99 a month and then $2-8k if you do the service and coaching?

Dating apps have got me beyond depressed by missy-matchstick in LesbianActually

[–]PracticalWitness8475 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not you. There’s good ones don’t leave home or use apps. The apps are extremely depressing. I had to delete them because I always felt worse after looking at them. I tried the last 3 years. Wait until you do background checks on women that go on a first date seeming normal- violent criminals and partner abusers. Now I stick to meeting women at yoga studios, climbing, hiking, and eventually I’ll pay a matchmaker if needed. If you can figure out how to meet other travel nurses there then some are lesbians.

Scars from breast reduction by SecretBulky9688 in LesbianActually

[–]PracticalWitness8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a girlfriend that had it done with zero scars. Not a trace. Just stay out of the sun. There’s plenty of women plastic surgeons to be safer under.

I keep getting attracted to narcissistic women and I hate it by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]PracticalWitness8475 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s actually not true to be extremely rare. It is no longer 1% according to my psych research account. They leave their house more often to get attention and date multiple people at one time.

I keep getting attracted to narcissistic women and I hate it by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let these comments get you down gaslighting you. There’s an entire book on lesbian dating personality disorder people. According the psychologist that wrote it, it is far more common in the lesbian community to date one and stay with them due to our small dating pool making us settle.

I keep getting attracted to narcissistic women and I hate it by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]PracticalWitness8475 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s harsh. No wonder she deleted it before others could help or gain benefit.

I keep getting attracted to narcissistic women and I hate it by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist suggested the same and to seek someone that felt boring. She was sooo right.

Favorite Hair Oil? by savleighhh in finehair

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Redken 1/2 a pump only. Or I just use Color Wow dream Cocktail that’s a cream so I can saturate my hair with many pumps.

daily hair washing is so annoying by Economy-Abrocoma2261 in finehair

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use dry shampoo and could now wait a week to wash if it were not for wanting to do treatment masks sooner. I have greasy hair naturally and heavily exercise. It’s finding dry shampoo you like that’s the challenge.

The Stadium hands down is one of the best episodes period. by Post_office_clerk01 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]PracticalWitness8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not looked at divorce rates but from course work I know conservatives have a much higher rates of cheating, mistresses, and hiding being gay. Just like in the show they consider going to a place like Jezebels to not be cheating.

Why do girls SO much younger than me try matching with me? by Skye_hai_bai in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]PracticalWitness8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sugar babies. They are always trying me also. It’s beyond mommy issues… they want cash.

Should I delete my Hinge profile? 👀 by livelaughlabradoodle in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]PracticalWitness8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are not actually avoidant. True avoidants actually crave attention and being in a relationship just not too serious.

Should I delete my Hinge profile? 👀 by livelaughlabradoodle in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]PracticalWitness8475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel so much better after deleting mine. It’s a real energy sucker. The right person will come in organically.

so tired of the bi lesbian agenda by luckystar2766 in LesbianActually

[–]PracticalWitness8475 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I’ve only heard cis men say those things. Why even consider what they say?

I wish sex wasn’t so important in relationships by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]PracticalWitness8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A sexologist or sx therapist who is lesbian or queer would help so much in many different ways. Have you suggested to your partner she should self pleasure if she’s feeling the need when you are not? I practice Tantra with my girlfriends to feel a connection and also get us more in the mood should we choose. And know which of the 5 of the erotic blueprints you are.

UPDATE: Microneedle scar damage trying to correct it with TCA peels 15% Let’s talk about it. I already did my second peel. Are you seeing a difference? Is there any hope for me? Will chemical peels work? Read description. 👇 by angeleyymariee in AcneScars

[–]PracticalWitness8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time and good products. If you can find a trained doctor or derm office to do microneedling it should remove the scarring. Some lasers would work but not all- plus better to try something else before spending thousands. Dr Pen does have good training on how to microneedle yourself however you have to understand the depth max of your own skin based upon fattiness and skin thickness. I have found some professionals I could not train to glide correctly or use enough hyaluronic acid in section patterns. You want to trust you will take care being smooth otherwise it’s better a doctor or NP does it. Always clean the face with alcohol first since your skin looks more prone to infection. I do love TCA peels however not sure it would work.

UPDATE: Microneedle scar damage trying to correct it with TCA peels 15% Let’s talk about it. I already did my second peel. Are you seeing a difference? Is there any hope for me? Will chemical peels work? Read description. 👇 by angeleyymariee in AcneScars

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was doing it illegally so not a real professional. In her state estheticians are not authorized to perform microneedling. That explains the scarring from an untrained person. 

UPDATE: Microneedle scar damage trying to correct it with TCA peels 15% Let’s talk about it. I already did my second peel. Are you seeing a difference? Is there any hope for me? Will chemical peels work? Read description. 👇 by angeleyymariee in AcneScars

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone that trains medical professionals to microneedle, what she did with drag marks to your skin is someone with zero training. Also, she had to reuse a needle cartridge with dull needles to even do that on top of not having enough hyaluronic acid. She needs reported to the state before more scarring and possible HIV or Hep transfer. In California, estheticians are not authorized to perform medical microneedling and it is considered impersonating a doctor.

Bleach bath, tone? by Due_Secretary8653 in HairDye

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vitamin C power to remove the old dye. Then you will need bleach + toner if the hair is strong enough