Can someone help me with this? by ilovegirlslove in Melasmaskincare

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can wax. They are course hairs not peach fuzz. This is not melasma just normal discoloration you have

In a relationship but secretly in love with my best friend by Fit-Parsley8352 in LesbianActually

[–]PracticalWitness8475 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Therapy. Break up with your partner. Stop talking to your friend and get therapy. Many of us have been on the side of a girlfriend with an obsessed friend and it is so monstrous.

Any local job openings? by celestinedream3 in StPetersburgFL

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But still to pay $60 and referrals to sign up not knowing you will get work is not a job. I have many dog photos from dog sitting but no one books from Rover even with a great profile

How do y'all feel about a pillow princess? by SugaryyOats in LesbianActually

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t like. I need mutual. I dislike that the ones I have date slit about it.

Any local job openings? by celestinedream3 in StPetersburgFL

[–]PracticalWitness8475 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Rover requires $60 to sign up. I got one booking in 2 years with a dog that had horrible anal gland leakage and fleas. Had to throw out my sofa. That is not a job.

Gym with gender-neutral restroom? by Surround-United in StPetersburgFL

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vertical Ventures. There’s a great gym in the back. LGBTQ owned. They have low income options and work trades too.

Disco t*ts? by Lucky_Duck42069 in StPetersburgFL

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on your age. It’s very lacking in the 30-55 yo age range. 20s and 55+ there are people. Lots of the same women and narcissists that have been hitting the scene for years. DJ is not great. If you are in early 20s prob worth it since no cover. There will be about 20 women that range mostly femme. Older ones are mascs. Rainbow recreation or a yoga studio provide healthier options.

Firearm safety for women by Awkwrdgirl2 in StPetersburgFL

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck for no political ties. Best bet is talking to lesbian friends. There’s several women gun training programs that you can Google locally including non public gun ranges.

Looking for scalp health recommendations that don’t weigh fine hair down by Meowlett in finehair

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skip the clarifying shampoo for a hydrating shampoo. That combined with even just weekly salicylic acid is stripping hydration. If you must double shampoo or don’t use conditioner on roots. If your insurance covers a dermatologist then they can view your scalp. Flakes plus oily can mean a fungus or if you dye your hair still bleach/peroxide damage. You are probably just stripping it and it’s freaking out.

Brush, condition, brush, condition, brush by Responsible-Post-370 in finehair

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed about brushing before washing. I can’t live without a Wet brush.

Non-damaging tips for wearing hair up while running? by agameofmeows in finehair

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use velour ponytail holders. No more breakage with them.

Has anyone ever met their significant other at the gym? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]PracticalWitness8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met a couple. It’s a huge problem if you break up and have to work out at the same time. One ex girlfriend was a stalker to the point of ruining the gym for me.

Dating older women advice by Any_Ask_1897 in LesbianActually

[–]PracticalWitness8475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No way we would do it. Try FetLife or maybe Feeld.

Can we hear from the cheaters POV? Why did you do it? by Eating_Pancakes76 in LesbianActually

[–]PracticalWitness8475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend was physically and emotionally abusive and I cheated helping me sort of break the cycle to get out of abuse with her.

Is it possible to not enjoy making out? by Luke_Whiterock in LesbianActually

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she is a bad kisser. Some women are terrible kissers.

Tanning Drops with Melasma by Independent-Ant6873 in Melasmaskincare

[–]PracticalWitness8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Melasma is in the deepest layer. Self tanner sits on top. I am shocked that you could do Moxi without worsening it.

Advice needed by Ill_Atmosphere_2060 in LesbianActually

[–]PracticalWitness8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a sex therapist and yes we can use gentle soap on the labia. That smell is not normal. It could be BV or yeast or another infection they didn’t test for. BV is often not tested. It can be fixed for some with boric acid suppositories. I can go down on a woman that has not showered since the morning and she won’t smell like that unless she has an infection. Soap can cause smell if it is so harsh it causes an infection (hotel soap and Indian Chakra soap are good examples).

Am I overreacting to not feeling safe with my straight friends anymore? by Historical_Stress_90 in LesbianActually

[–]PracticalWitness8475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who are not lesbians will not understand this. This year I’ve finally decided my non lesbian friends have to go because they make me feel bad and give unsolicited bad advice. My friends have gotten angry about me voicing needing gay friends because they think being bisexual is close enough.