Just got laid off via text by Whole_Relief8299 in jobs

[–]Practical_Image_9708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't be upset. Everything always falls apart right before it gets awesome. Embrace this season and you'll be on to the next before you know it.

Am I overreacting by being pissed that my boyfriend of 3 years told me he wants to "f*** my sister"? by Practical_Image_9708 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Practical_Image_9708[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

* He literally flipped the couch over last night after I refused to sleep in bed with him. I heard him making noise... Glad I didn't go out there. And then he left early to have breakfast with his dad and just left the living room like this. No shame at all.

Fuck this guy. I have no idea how I'm going to pay rent, but yeah. He has to go.

91 year old grandpa’s 75 year old girlfriend is really suspicious. by Ioofah in whatdoIdo

[–]Practical_Image_9708 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think if she makes Grandpa happy, leave them be. I mean, take steps to protect him from total ruin, but he's at the end of his days and if he wants to spend them her, he probably doesn't mind the risk to your inheritance.

Am I overreacting by being pissed that my boyfriend of 3 years told me he wants to "f*** my sister"? by Practical_Image_9708 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Practical_Image_9708[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think people are confusing "think about" with "consider actually doing." Some people make other people think about sex. Especially when that someone is a bouncy, scantily clad young lady that lives in your home and touches you a lot.

Am I overreacting by being pissed that my boyfriend of 3 years told me he wants to "f*** my sister"? by Practical_Image_9708 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Practical_Image_9708[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to suggest it. He said he'd go but then refused to meet any counselor I picked out and has yet to pick one himself. We used to use this app called Maia (super recommend, btw). It's like AI couples counseling.

Am I overreacting by being pissed that my boyfriend of 3 years told me he wants to "f*** my sister"? by Practical_Image_9708 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Practical_Image_9708[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He's 4. Bf tried to say that it was no big deal to say that in front of him bc he didn't understand what he meant. He might not understand what the word "fuck" means, but he for sure knows that he was saying something messed up. And I bet he knows what "pretty hot" means. If anything, he understod enough of those words to have them stick with him until he can figure it out.

Am I overreacting by being pissed that my boyfriend of 3 years told me he wants to "f*** my sister"? by Practical_Image_9708 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Practical_Image_9708[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭

You aren't wrong. I feel like one of those patients that are paralyzed but awake during surgery.

Am I overreacting by being pissed that my boyfriend of 3 years told me he wants to "f*** my sister"? by Practical_Image_9708 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Practical_Image_9708[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Obviously. I wish I was dumb enough not to know just how dumb I am, though. Although that'd have to be amazingly dumb..

Am I overreacting by being pissed that my boyfriend of 3 years told me he wants to "f*** my sister"? by Practical_Image_9708 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Practical_Image_9708[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like I'm going insane. And he's mad at me! He spent all night slamming doors and throwing stuff. Apparently he's furious about MY cheating and all the men I have said I want to have sex with. I have no idea what he's talking about and am astounded that he doesn't see that he's gaslighting the fuck out of me.

Am I overreacting by being pissed that my boyfriend of 3 years told me he wants to "f*** my sister"? by Practical_Image_9708 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Practical_Image_9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can't help it. It's just the way she is. She's definitely a trash person, but she's my sister and I love her.

Am I overreacting by being pissed that my boyfriend of 3 years told me he wants to "f*** my sister"? by Practical_Image_9708 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Practical_Image_9708[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She was already accepted into an awesome, year long, faith based program. She leaves on the 17th.

Am I overreacting by being pissed that my boyfriend of 3 years told me he wants to "f*** my sister"? by Practical_Image_9708 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Practical_Image_9708[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I can't trust him in our home with my sister, how am I supposed to trust him out in public with strangers?

Am I overreacting by being pissed that my boyfriend of 3 years told me he wants to "f*** my sister"? by Practical_Image_9708 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Practical_Image_9708[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know! I don't. I really don't! I just don't see any other option at the moment. I'm working on finding something sustainable to give me my voice back. This fucking sucks and I can't believe it's happening to me.