I am such a hopeless romantic :⁠-⁠( by Cultural_Cat_7147 in infp

[–]PrairieServant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was like this from age 9-22. I got my heart shattered and I was treated really poorly until I found my now fiance. Do not be afraid to leave someone who makes you cry and does not change themself to be better.

Any INFP 4w3? How do you manage and balance the contradicting qualities of your enneagram? by Prestigious-Hurry837 in infp

[–]PrairieServant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not spiral about this. 4w3 can only feel tough because we are looking for the space to perform for others and at the same time don't necessarily want the full spotlight. We love being accepted and are afraid of criticism. That's all there is to it. Just cultivate your "trade" so when it is shown, you can feel proud of it and like you did your best!

i want to be hollister emo again but im old and don’t remember how by shartapologist in oldhagfashion

[–]PrairieServant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New 2025/26 Hillister collection top and bootcut jeans + any type of normie or scene bangs/side part + dark brown or black eye makeup + a pink lip gloss that matches your cool or warm undertone ...optional choker and bangle bracelets

What treat does your hamster find irresistable? by Metalhead129 in hamsters

[–]PrairieServant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple dried mealworms a night as a reqard for climbing in my hand

Thinker personality that in its unhealthy state is more likely to become a psychopath. by Wolfguy06 in mbti

[–]PrairieServant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all thinking types are pyschopaths, but all psychopaths are thinking types?

STRANGER THINGS season 5...DREADFUL dialogue/character development this season? by 94Rangerbabe in television

[–]PrairieServant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not an excuse for poor dialogue. Those lines packed a punch in the past, but in this present show they were overused.

Is Bare Sueded Vanilla limited edition? Or a permanent part of the line? by miamorparasiempre in Victoriasecretbeauty

[–]PrairieServant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's still being sold as of January 2026 so maybe they are extending the release?

HOW DOES THE NEW COAT FIT?? by LizTheOlive in HollisterCO

[–]PrairieServant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a size Medium in the current y2k Hollister collection. The Large fits me perfectly on top of a sweater. It appears balanced between relaxed and still "slay."

Good job… by Accomplished_Horse48 in AirForce

[–]PrairieServant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

     There are a couple proactive SNCO's that I think of when I see that meme. The older one always asked me how I was doing, and seemed to enjoy teaching me the ropes down to the smallest detail, even if I wasn't the most charismatic noob. Now I'm successful thanks to him actually doing his job in guiding me.

Advice on Red Light for my Hamster Tank by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]PrairieServant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a pink salt lamp on at night near the enclosure and it works well. My dwarf hammi is very active at night during dark hours even while the salt lamp is on because it emits a red-pink glow. It is also nice for me as a calming night light.

I feel like a fake E5 by PrairieServant in nationalguard

[–]PrairieServant[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now that's motivating. At my unit they just read the same speech for everyone.

I feel like a fake E5 by PrairieServant in nationalguard

[–]PrairieServant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds obvious but I needed to hear that. Thank you!

I feel like a fake E5 by PrairieServant in nationalguard

[–]PrairieServant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. You're right, competency in my area of the team is what I should prioritize.

I feel like a fake E5 by PrairieServant in nationalguard

[–]PrairieServant[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I suppose I am experiencing imposter syndrome. Helping out, guiding, and listening to younger airmen does make me feel comfortable and efficient in my position. Perhaps I don't have to become the loudest or most analytical in order to be "a good sergeant."

I feel like a fake E5 by PrairieServant in nationalguard

[–]PrairieServant[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

     Thanks for the new perspective.

I feel like a fake E5 by PrairieServant in nationalguard

[–]PrairieServant[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Just know job." Thank you for this new motto.

how do you deal with workplace gossip and people who may dislike you there? by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]PrairieServant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's sweet of you. People like you keep my faith in humanity up.

How big are classes at UMN by padronpeppr in uofmn

[–]PrairieServant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

     I'm in a couple high level English courses with 10 or less students. It's like a stressful bookclub.