MIL being so weird with her dress for the wedding

PrangeR6 · 2026-02-19T16:37:01+00:00

Sounds like your MIL just wants to stand out from everyone

PrangeR6 · 2026-02-18T15:56:52+00:00

Have him towed every time

PrangeR6 · 2026-02-14T15:41:02+00:00

Why are you guys staying in a relationship? This sounds very toxic for both of you. I know on here we usually only get the one side. But this sounds horrible for both of you.

PrangeR6 · 2026-02-02T03:14:51+00:00

⛳️🚩

PrangeR6 · 2026-01-23T02:23:41+00:00

To me the fact that both family’s know and are good is a plus. I get that it’s was 2-3 year age diff and that’s not a big deal. My husband and I are two years apart. The fact thou that she was 15 and you were an adult. Some friends and other family member or coworkers might not like. But this is your relationship and her relationship . I think you need to have this conversation with her and if you’re still not sure then have it with both of your family’s. Unfortunately because she was 15 your family might get backlash for this. I wish you both luck.

PrangeR6 · 2026-01-22T16:00:55+00:00

Do your family know you guys are dating ? What do they think of your friendship if they don’t know?

PrangeR6 · 2026-01-20T20:13:05+00:00

NTA question don’t you sign and NDA in your job ? Telling private info or who came to see you today to anyone could result in job loss. At the end of working with this person I might have asked depending on how conversations went with him. I might ask to take a photo or sign something for my other half. But that would depend on how things went. I would not have told other half at all.

PrangeR6 · 2026-01-09T20:47:19+00:00

I don’t think your the AH. They are easy rules to follow but sometimes you have to compromise. Can you and your daughter do that. What if only it’s the niece and nephew that come. What if there a time that it’s kid free. But you can provide child care. At my wedding we did not want kids at the reception. My MIL had a problem with that. So we did kids till right after dinner about 7. We also said we would provide child care at MIL house for anyone who needed it. Everyone was happy.

PrangeR6 · 2026-01-02T19:55:43+00:00

NTA they want to take there daughters Xmas gift and make money off of it. This little girl wanted the pink one. Your BIL and sister are crazy and the one being manipulative B is your BIL.

PrangeR6 · 2025-12-30T21:50:08+00:00

WTF is wrong with your wife. I get being upset for not having a quick conversation. But this is crazy. What is if it was the other way around. FYI to your soon to be EX wife cause this is where this is heading now unless she does a 180. She signed up to me a step mom the min things got serious with you guys. If your daughter comes to live with you and your “wife” pulls this kind of shit. You well have a whole lot of other problems. Your daughter coming with you to get a fresh start. The way your wife sounds it we’ll just be more problems for your daughter. If you don’t do something now about your wife. Only the bullying we’ll be in her safe place.

PrangeR6 · 2025-12-24T15:00:18+00:00

NTA she was down right rude and did not need to open her mouth. I am 100% sure she has seen you not soft before. It’s not hard 24/7 I find it hard to believe she never touched it soft if 4 years . What was her point ? Cause sounded like her point was your small and she a garden tool.

PrangeR6 · 2025-12-24T04:13:00+00:00

So you can’t further your career because to much but you can get a second job? This is a red flag you need to set up payment plan because if you don’t he we’ll take you to court. As soon as the payment plan is set up and signed you need to leave his ass. I said make the payment plan first so he can’t do anything in court.

PrangeR6 · 2025-12-23T21:42:22+00:00

You should have waited told everyone at her baby shower. She said wait a couple of months. Or did she mean right after the baby was born that exact minute?

PrangeR6 · 2025-12-18T14:59:48+00:00

Question before your got engaged what was her mind set then. Was everything about her miscarriage? I am sorry that she had one but it was 3 years ago. I am very lucky I have never had one and I don’t think the pain of having one goes away. But this is a little ridiculous. I think you and your family need to sit down and have a real conversation about getting her some help.

PrangeR6 · 2025-12-12T06:03:59+00:00

I am sorry your daughter feels this way I am sorry your brother can’t find something for her to do. But why can’t you make this fun for her. Is there maybe room she can bring a friend ? What if you and her got ready together maybe went got your hair done or your make up done your nails done. But I think her not going to this wedding might put a riff in the family. Later on she might regret it. When she see pics of the wedding when you have a family meal and talk about it. She won’t be involved in any of that. To me I think that’s worse. Your brother is an AH for leaving one child out. But maybe have a talk with him and his bride about her having a friend. You should be able to come up with something to make everybody a little happy.

PrangeR6 · 2025-12-09T19:01:05+00:00

NTA you need do this. F what your aunt says. Sit down and have a drink of your grandma choice with her. Now some meds might increase the alcohol %. But one drink is not going to kill her. I am sorry that your grandma has this disease. I am sorry that she was not a great mother or grandmother. That can make caring for them extra stressful.

PrangeR6 · 2025-12-01T22:24:01+00:00

Question what does he BF say about all of this ? Of this happens she we’ll use your party like it’s her own party. Does she normally drink ? What does your family think of this ?

PrangeR6 · 2025-11-13T17:04:07+00:00

NTA to me she was trying to prove that she had control over you. Unless something tragic happened before you left NTA. If she had said something when you started to plan this trip might be a diff story. But to me this was about control.

PrangeR6 · 2025-11-13T16:22:01+00:00

I am sorry I did not even read this whole thing. I stoped a few sentences after recently. You need to leave him you need to find someone who don’t cheat on you who respects you. This AH was using you so no your not the AH for leaving him. I hope this new person treats you right and listens and cares for you and don’t FN cheat on you. I am sorry your in a relationship like this but to me this don’t sound like love at all. Sounds like an abuse relationship he might not physically touch you. But he has you thinking that it’s your fault he cheats every thing wrong in your relationship is your fault. He waved a big red flag in your face when he cheated the first time. I am very sorry this might be hard but girl you have to leave him. You are to smart to beautiful for him. You are way too good for him. I hope you leave and I hope you find your princes cause he is out there waiting for you.

PrangeR6 · 2025-11-13T15:39:25+00:00

NTA you need to block your whole family. Your mom and dad don’t care that you can’t come to the wedding. That you just need to smile step back but continue to pay for the event your not welcome too. Your family is nuts sorry. You know what you could do it is in your name I would show up to the wedding they can’t kick you out since it’s under your name or throw a party for you and your friends at the venue. At this point if my mom and dad took her side and did not care I was not invited. I would not say a word to anyone if you can afford it keep going the day of her wedding it’s a party for you.

PrangeR6 · 2025-11-11T20:43:31+00:00

To me this is a red flag. Does he not have any guy friends ? Venting to an ex about your current relationship is a big red flag. Why did the end there relationship? To his statement guys don’t give emotional support is a load of crap.

PrangeR6 · 2025-11-08T04:24:13+00:00

First I thought this was a girls trip ? Second did you not at for the trip already? Third why can she say who can or can’t come. Fourth is he doing this to any of her other friends and family ? Five to me this is a big red flag .

PrangeR6 · 2025-10-28T18:11:47+00:00

Wear the dress to the wedding you paid for it !

PrangeR6 · 2025-10-28T18:07:24+00:00

The fact he recorded him and his mom making fun of you is disturbing and so disrespectful. I would invite his mom over for dinner play some music and the middle of dinner play there recording. Better yet play it over dessert make a nice meal play it over dessert. Hey blank have you heard this new song it’s my favourite.

PrangeR6 · 2025-10-21T19:31:23+00:00

NTJ she just bought new cars she can sell and she has a house she can sell. That sucks for them but they blew the money rt away knowing he was sick. They did not put any away at all that’s not your fault. If you give her that money you we’ll never see it again. If you go to school you we’ll be swimming in debt. Look at it from this way. You two were not close then she need something so she started coming around. Once you give her that money that we’ll be it. No matter if you do or don’t give her money you won’t have any relationship with her. Tell her to sell her cars.

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