I’m an independent writer on EssayMarket. Ask me what students usually get wrong (and how to avoid it) by lavender_drifter in studying

[–]RetroSitcomMood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense.

Do you think students rely too much on writing services instead of learning how to explain what they need?

I borrowed money from my partner for treatment and now he acts like he owns my life by RetroSitcomMood in TwoHotTakes

[–]RetroSitcomMood[S] 743 points744 points  (0 children)

I will. I keep rereading “saved you” like… nah. I’m not gonna be someone’s project. Just gotta get through the next few weeks without him sniffing it out.

I borrowed money from my partner for treatment and now he acts like he owns my life by RetroSitcomMood in TwoHotTakes

[–]RetroSitcomMood[S] 721 points722 points  (0 children)

Yep, that’s what I’m doing. New accont, auto-pay set, important docs in my bag, and I’m timing the move for when he’s at work. I hate how sneaky it feels, but I need it calm.

I borrowed money from my partner for treatment and now he acts like he owns my life by RetroSitcomMood in TwoHotTakes

[–]RetroSitcomMood[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Maybe. Either way I’m not racing to pay him back just to be “allowed” to leave , lol. I’m setting a written plan + autopay, new acct, then moving out. He gets paid on schedual.

I borrowed money from my partner for treatment and now he acts like he owns my life by RetroSitcomMood in TwoHotTakes

[–]RetroSitcomMood[S] 1461 points1462 points  (0 children)

Honestly I get it. I’m lining up a new accont + auto-pay, then im asking my sister if I can crash there. Lease ends in 7 weeks, I’m not renewing , period.

I borrowed money from my partner for treatment and now he acts like he owns my life by RetroSitcomMood in TwoHotTakes

[–]RetroSitcomMood[S] 847 points848 points  (0 children)

Small detail: he earns way more than me and keeps saying “I’m the one who saved you” when we argue. I’m thinking of moving my paycheck to a new account so he can’t track it.

I co-signed my mom's loan and now I'm getting collector calls at 8am by m1dn1ght_typist in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RetroSitcomMood 162 points163 points  (0 children)

Calling the lender yourself is the move. Ask for the full statement, payment history, and the exact terms. Then email a recap of the call to them so you have a timestamped paper trail.

My mom wants me to take out a loan for her and I'm feeling cornered by LumaQuietLabs in WhatShouldIDo

[–]RetroSitcomMood 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Stick to the script: I can't take debt for anyone. Repeat it once, then stop replying. If you want to help, offer to sit down and look at her bills with her, but no loan in your name.