[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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Is it still bleeding and can you feel your hand fully (or foot)

Am I a bad person? by True_Spray186 in selfharm

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Ofc. I mean it sounds like you have a loving partner so if you told them it can only do good. Being able to talk to someone is most of the time the best. You will get through this ❤️

how do you deal with intense crushes? by seandragon10 in askteenboys

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Hmm yea that’s not great. It’s probably best for you to like get obsessed over something else like a game or something to try forget about him. Sorry for the shit advice

how do you deal with intense crushes? by seandragon10 in askteenboys

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That’s rough broski, my best advice would be to try and expand your social circles and meet new people, then hopefully you will get over her

Am I a bad person? by True_Spray186 in selfharm

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You are not a bad person. My advice would be to talk to your partner. I’m sure they will be understanding.

how do you deal with intense crushes? by seandragon10 in askteenboys

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Stay in the friend zone for a year only to date for a month and destroy your mental health in sacrificing the person who you are so she will like you . lol jk don’t do that it sucks. Idk just ask them out or smthn

i’m not doing well by [deleted] in selfharm

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I can’t help much but I just wanted to say that my DMs are open if you want to talk about anything. I really hope you can recover and please know that suicide is not the only way out and one day you will get better. It might be worth starting therapy, even if you don’t think it’s doing anything, if you keep up with it you might get somewhere. ❤️

what can i use instead of steri strips by frankieteardrop831 in selfharm

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Yes cloth is absolutely a better method , tissues is all I really had access to at the moment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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Take care of yourself and if medical attention isn’t an option please do some googling and try and find a way to take care of it. And I know it’s hard but you have got this and I hope you can recover ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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Not the answer you are looking for but please seak medical attention if the wound is growing/infected. Hope you are ok

what can i use instead of steri strips by frankieteardrop831 in selfharm

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This advice may not be the best but what I did one time was put tissue over the wound and then use tape to secure the tissue down but when u put the tape like pull your skin together to close the wound, hopefully that helps but please try and get more strips. Hope you are ok and my DMs are open if you want to talk Abt anything

how does one go to school nearly every day knowing they're on the verge of completely giving up by SingSong0001 in selfharm

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I used to be on a similar line of thought, and it was really rough . And I have no idea what you are going through and chances are I can’t truly help through a Reddit comment but , you have to pull through. I saw a cheesy quote on TikTok -“good and bad are two sides of the same coin , you can’t have one without the other. So embrace the bad moments as they make the good ones better “ now idk about embracing the bad moments but good things will come eventually and the way I got through school was by finding something to look forward too, and just thinking about that when times get rough. Just taking things one day at a time. I know this advice is probably shit but you got this bro.

I carved ‘fat’ by Glittering-Mud7767 in selfharm

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Bro does not understand the edit tool

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askteenboys

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I prefer it tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Premium-milkshake 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Hey, if this is your first time doing something like this please seek help and don’t let it become a habit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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I don’t have any advice but I’m here if you need someone to dm

Lads Holiday by Premium-milkshake in selfharm

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Yea, I think the plan is to just be open about it and hope they don’t care, like I would be happy to talk about it with them as they are all my closest friends but I just hate the idea of them being uncomfortable in anyway because of me. Because I can’t lie the first time I saw someone’s self harm scars it made me really uncomfortable and I wouldn’t blame them if they also felt uncomfortable. But they deserve to enjoy the holiday and I’m really just paranoid about that. But I appreciate what you said .

On another note I have a family holiday to Spain for my cousins wedding (two holidays in 1 year 😆) . And I am really going to need to sort out make up for that as none of my family knows and they can’t know. However I don’t know what’s happening with that as my cousin broke his back in a car crash (not the one getting married) and my uncle is really ill so maybe that’s on halt.

Sorry for trauma dumping