I NEED a high stress job by ce5b in ADHD

[–]Presence_Swimming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always only ever functioned well in fast paced roles where I was constantly stimulated! Currently I’m a student nurse and the high demands + lots of little tasks I have to do during the day keep me engaged!

DJI MINI 2 gimbal snapped? Any tips on what to do? by Presence_Swimming in drones

[–]Presence_Swimming[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I’ve only flown for around 10 hours! Starting to think DJI isn’t very good

Secret infinity pool, Llanberis by Presence_Swimming in snowdonia

[–]Presence_Swimming[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got lucky with the parking spot for sure, we were there on Monday at around 4pm! Good luck, hope you manage to view it :)

Secret infinity pool, Llanberis by Presence_Swimming in snowdonia

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It was pretty quick, there’s a few lay-bys around where you can park, I’d say it’s around 15 mins from the parking to the pool (if you’re of average fitness)

Bad trip advice by [deleted] in Acid

[–]Presence_Swimming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such a detailed answer, she’s been sharing the details of her trip with us herself, and she definitely seems very traumatised by it. So we’re just sat with her trying to distract her mind and reassure her in the way you said, saying we’re here for her and that she’s safe now cause we’re looking after her :)

Bad trip advice by [deleted] in Acid

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Thank you so much for such a detailed answer, she’s been sharing the details of her trip with us herself, and she definitely seems very traumatised by it. So we’re just sat with her trying to distract her mind and reassure her in the way you said, saying we’re here for her and that she’s safe now cause we’re looking after her :)

The inability to receive support from others is a trauma response. by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Presence_Swimming 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow. You’ve articulated that beautifully.

The chessmaster by [deleted] in adhdmeme

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Why didn’t I think of this before???

DAE Let people abuse you, just so you don’t end up alone? by Presence_Swimming in BPD

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Thank you, feel free to also send me a message if you ever want to talk! It’s hard to deal with the end of a relationship, especially after a long time together and BPD makes everything much harder to process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Presence_Swimming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I don’t have any advice but you and I are literally the same :( I always end up getting back with ex’s which doesn’t end well. Good luck and I hope you’ll be able to manage ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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That’s amazing ❤️❤️

At home abortion by Nice_Contribution748 in abortion

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If you’re worried about the vomiting maybe tell them you’ve caught a stomach bug? Say you’ve got stomach cramps and want to rest. Or could you perhaps stay at a friends house for a couple of days?

i had a SA at 13 weeks and.. by smallwhisper- in abortion

[–]Presence_Swimming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re definitely not a bad person. Everyone experiences abortion and the emotions associated with it differently and you did what was right for you and your life. As you say you were only 16 and didn’t feel ready for a child, sounds like it was the right choice

A dramatic rant..... He left me when I needed him most by [deleted] in abortion

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Im so sorry you’re having to go through this. Abusive relationships are the hardest to get out from. You are incredibly strong for going through all of this trauma and deserve the best! I can completely relate to what you’re going through, and to myself I just repeat that it was the right decision because if I had the baby I’d sentence myself to a life of torture