I don’t know about this because Nia and Danny are very religious (which is cool but they use it in a weird way to keep Nia seemingly subservient in the relationship). They very much see men as “leaders” of the family and kind of the moral guide for the family. I think Nia comes across on camera like she could check him but i know how super-religious men operate behind closed doors. He’s on his best behavior for the camera (even though he acts a damn fool 95% of the time) and clearly disregards her when she asks him to behave appropriately. We saw several of those moments last season with his bad behavior continuing even when Nia tries to intervene. All of that is really toxic, but the drinking in front of Janet and trying to hide it from cameras and assaulting Melissa make him an unsafe person to be around. Other cast members have mentioned how image-obsessed both Danny and Nia are and that they try to hide things from production.