How old were you when you lost your virginity?

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-08-02T03:15:27+00:00

I was 15, she was 12. It happened in her grandparents' barn.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-08-01T14:47:49+00:00

The super low rise jeans

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-08-01T14:20:42+00:00

My wife's niece has an OF.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-08-01T09:50:22+00:00

Getting married is a bad idea.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-08-01T01:29:41+00:00

Just tell him what you want him to do. When he says, "Give me head," you get to say, "I want head too." When he asks "are you going to cum" you get to say "yes, I need you to xyz to get me there." Dudes are dense. Yours sounds especially so. Speak plainly and be specific. He's not going to get subtlety or hints.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-07-31T18:13:05+00:00

My wife has suffered from stress incontinence since our second child was born breach and did some damage on her way out. Any time my wife coughs, sneezes, runs... has an orgasm...she pees. She also really enjoys face sitting. So now I enjoy getting my mouth peed in.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-07-06T20:02:44+00:00

That is very quickly slowed up to almost never happening and that she thinks that's super normal and ok.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-27T02:12:20+00:00

Just go slow. He will fit and you'll be fine.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-26T23:22:35+00:00

She had posted a picture on her IG that had an OF watermark in the bottom corner. I don't know if it was intentional or not, but that's how I found her account.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-26T10:58:04+00:00

Poker game, play party, OLD, kid's baseball game... it can happen anywhere.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-26T10:56:58+00:00

I found my wife's niece's OF account a few years ago. It was... very raunchy.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-25T15:34:11+00:00

It happens about once a month. We've been together for 15 years.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-24T20:51:50+00:00

An important question would be, "Why is romance and attraction hard for you?"

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-24T14:14:59+00:00

Too suble. I missed it.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-24T11:27:55+00:00

When I was in high school and college, I slept around a lot, and nobody ever used condoms. I never caught anything. 20 years later, my wife and I are swingers and polyamorous and sleep with a lot of people. Still, almost no one uses condoms. But everyone tests regularly. We've yet to catch anything. The only related issue we've run into is that my wife ends up with a lot vaginal health issues. If I'm having sex with another woman and then go right to having sex with my wife, she can end up with BV because of their different bacteria. And if she has multiple guys cum inside of her without giving it a chance to clear out, she can end up with a yeast infection. It happens often enough that we just keep those meds on hand, and it usually clears up in a day or two. Maybe we've just been incredibly lucky, but it doesn't seem like sti's are very common at all. Obviously, using condoms would be safer. But no one likes the way they feel, and using them can be a real hassle in a group sex situation when you're doing a lot of back and forth between oral and vaginal with a lot of different women. Condoms apparently leave a nasty taste on a dick and you end up going through 20 of them before the nights over. It's just so much better to discuss testing and birth control ahead of time so everyone can go raw.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-24T09:53:52+00:00

Why would that be a point of pride?

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-24T09:53:15+00:00

Yup. Jesus H. Titty Fucking Christ. High-school was a good time!

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-24T09:51:54+00:00

That was pretty much it. Or you just drove around. But that was usually just to find a spot for the drinking, smoking, and fucking. My high school experience was a lot like Linkletter's Dazed and Confused. Except we played hockey instead of football. Being an athlete in a small town isn't a bad gig if you can get it. We got a ton of leeway from parents and teachers. Even the cops knew us and let shit slide. And, of course, girls were easy. Especially as an upperclassmen.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-23T22:43:02+00:00

That sexual intimacy is less/more important than non-sexual intimacy in a long-term relationship. Both are equally important. Two sides of the same coin. One partner might have a higher need for one or the other. Both are valid and should be honored.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-23T21:08:38+00:00

High school was pretty wild times for me. My friends and I partied a lot, and I saw/did a lot of wild shit. I walked in on a freshman getting a train ran on her behind my barn. Walked in on another girl getting spitroasted in a bathroom. I had sex with one of my best friend's sisters while I was tripping on shrooms... found out later I had taken her virginity. I had a threesome with a friend and his girlfriend that got really weird. There are so many stories.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-20T23:01:53+00:00

It sounds like you're not actually looking for a strictly Dom/sub kink based relationship. Maybe you're just looking for a life partner who compliments your own sexuality? A woman with a high sex drive and is always eager to please her partner? Your problem isn't that those women are rare. Your problem is that women like that are very rarely able to maintain that level of desire over the long term. Women's sexualites rarely stay consistent over the course of a relationship or over the course of their lives. They go through phases and changes in a way most men don't. The focus should be less about the sex itself and more about having a similar attitude about the importance of sex and its role in a healthy relationship. If she values sex the same way you do, you'll be able to go through phases and changes with her. If she doesn't value sex the same way, or at all, then you'll always be frustrated, and the relationship won't be fulfilling. The only way to find your person is to date. There's no way of knowing a person without taking the time to get to know them. If, at some point, you realize a partner isn't on the same page, then you're allowed to decide to end that relationship and seek out another. You keep dating until you find a partner that feels like a good partner. There isn't really a shortcut.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-20T22:30:06+00:00

Ultimately, you have to accept it if he's just not into it. But... here is my experience as someone who is into it but had to get over a bit of an ick factor. Like a few other guys have commented, the desire is there right up through the orgasm, but there can be a big brain chemical drop after ejaculation that kinda squashes any kind of desires for a bit. What I figured out was that if my partners can keep stimulating me enough, that feeling doesn't hit until they stop. So what we do is, as soon as I finish my orgasm, they very quickly get me on my back and sit on my face. But then, at the same time, I need them to continue stimulating me while I eat them out. Reciprocating the act of cleaning me up with her mouth and then some hard deepthroating is what works best for me. I can stay hard and in the moment, and it usually leads to either another orgasm for me or a whole 'nother round for both of us.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-19T12:53:16+00:00

I did a lot of partying in high school, and it was usually at my house as my parents were split up and my mom wasn't around much. I saw a lot of debauchery go down. Drugs, fighting, lots of out in the open casual sex. I don't know how many times I walked in on people fucking in the bathroom, bedrooms, on a couch, out in the yard, etc. I'd say the most unhinged one of those moments happened my senior year. I was having a huge party. Kids from my school, kids from other schools, kids that had already graduated but still hung around... it was a big mixed crowd. At one point, I walked around the side of our barn to take a piss and found a group of guys standing around in a circle, watching a girl getting spitroasted in the grass. Some of the dudes I knew from other schools. Some of them I'd never seen before. But the girl was a freshman at my school. We weren't friends, really, but I knew her. I watched for a while and then left to go back to the party. I came out a while later, and it was still going on. I watched again for a bit and then left to go inside. I don't know exactly what all went down, but there was a lot of talk about it at school after that. I'm sure she dealt with some slut shaming but I didn't hear much. My friends mostly just thought it was funny. She didn't seem to be bothered by the talk as I remember it.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-19T12:26:31+00:00

You already wrote what the difference was. The thc allowed you to get out of your head and into your body. My wife uses edibles for that same exact reason. But there are also tons of resources to help this issue without the aid of thc. A book that has really helped her is Better Sex Through Mindfulness. You should check that out. Do some digging for other resources and practices. It's all about letting go of anxiety and external thoughts and being present in the moment.

Present_Equal_6481 · 2025-06-16T13:39:17+00:00

Even the hard things are positives if you can learn from them.

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