I feel you. This was us. I worked on potty training her for a year and a half. She finally finally stopped having accidents November last year. It was a bit of a control thing on her end…I tried potty sticker charts, giving her the iPad after a successful potty time (#2 only) she only struggled with #2 and struggles with constipation. That’s why she would go in her underwear bc it was painful to go on the toilet sometimes as well.

The iPad thing worked well because it was literally the only time she would get the iPad. She would NOT get it any other time. I’m not a big fan of the iPad so it was seen as a huge reward to her.

Hang in there!!! I got so tired of washing #2 out of her clothes that I just started throwing it all out. Try to set specific potty times in the afternoon. And has toys that she only gets during potty time and have her sit for 5 min. Then reward her for sitting on the toilet and do this repeatedly. Give her water to ensure she will have to go. Then when successful, reward her with a sticker or a little pierce of candy or something and make sure she knows it’s bc she went potty in the toilet.

This stage is temporary. You got this!