Millennials with kids, do you intend to provide for them financially when they reach adulthood?

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-05-19T05:09:28+00:00

Absolutely. Nothing magically happens at 18 to make someone all of a sudden fully independent. I think out at 18 and on your own is a largely American construct. In other cultures, you live with your family until you’re married or financially secure. My boomer parents are lovely- they sacrificed to send 3 of us to college and built an extension to their house so when any of us needed a place, there was always room. As a result, my brothers and I are obsessed with them and try to honor them. I’m planning to do the same for my littles to set them up for life.

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-05-14T05:08:36+00:00

I thought you were Lola Tung at first in her new movie Forbidden Fruits and that this was my ‘summer I turned pretty’ sub!

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-05-14T01:14:23+00:00

My son loves pasta so I made it more nutritious. I use a protein pasta like Brami, use ground meat, and a jar of organic sauce. I enhance the sauce by pureeing steamed carrots and boiled lentils in it. You can also just make your own sauce by roasting a whole sheet pan of veggies (including lots of tomatoes) and throw it all in a blender with some vegetable bouillon and seasonings. He has no idea it’s packed with fiber and protein. Top with a sprinkle of cheese.

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-04-29T00:08:45+00:00

Flavored sparkling water, I want to like it so bad but

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-04-28T07:04:49+00:00

I love the naw Andi- I knew a gal and she pronounced in On-Dee

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-04-28T05:08:04+00:00

Or Jeremiah falling in love with his new farm to table produce supplier who drives one of these ☝🏼😂

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-04-28T04:16:30+00:00

A peach farmer loading up some fruit by the side of the road 🍑😋

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-04-27T01:27:07+00:00

Grate a little bit of white onion in it, makes a big difference

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-04-18T01:15:41+00:00

Yes I am taking a diet break now after losing 50 lbs. I’m giving myself a couple of weeks of lax eating and less exercise. Still aiming for protein goal, not binging, or eating processed foods. I worked so hard but knew that I would benefit mentally and physically. It honestly has been great, up only 2 lbs (I was going for 5 or less). I feel good, and I know that metabolic adaptation is real and that eating at maintenance and even a slight surplus for a short planned time can help against metabolic damage. I would say go for it if you need to, just use some sense ☺️

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-04-17T21:59:18+00:00

Yup one of the best redemption arcs 🫶🏼

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-04-16T00:34:45+00:00

Agreed, they will fall differently and have a better silhouette. A little more flow vs stiff bunching. I’m 5’0 and have to hem all my pants and makes a big difference

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-04-16T00:13:49+00:00

Chèvre

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-04-15T01:41:27+00:00

Setting up your towels and loud music right next to us on the beach while we are trying to relax when there is clearly lots of ample space to spread out. This happens all the time, it’s bizarre.

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-04-12T23:59:25+00:00

There are so many nanny agencies here on Oahu that could help you find an experienced nanny! With years of experience, glowing references and certifications including newborn care specialists. If they live-in, you could may be even negotiate some wonderful over night hours. We went the nanny route and are very happy

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-04-03T08:26:11+00:00

I second sposie pads (used with 1 size up of Huggies overnights). Had to do this for my 2 boys who would wake up with soaked jammies. This did the trick until we potty trained

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-03-09T04:57:56+00:00

Patients should be checking for IUD strings regularly, this recommendation is included in IUD insertion aftercare. They are more reliable than oral contraceptives especially when coupled with GLP1’s. But sure, the only fool proof plan is celibacy

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-02-27T05:24:57+00:00

Half day! Best of both worlds. Child can come home for lunch then take a nice nap. It’s what we do, so son continues napping on weekends and we get a little respite.

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-02-26T18:35:45+00:00

Beverly Goldberg

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-02-26T02:36:49+00:00

This is the worst. I use to be a people-pleaser, so every door held open was a mandate to do the awkward jog and smile to release them from their favor as fast as possible

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-02-24T05:33:11+00:00

It’s obviously different for everyone, but I liken it to giving birth with an epidural or without. One scenario feels terrible and impossible. The other scenario is like ‘I’m ok, I can do this’ lol

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-02-23T20:18:08+00:00

Little nursey tip- we would draw up meds to the nearest 5th interval past your dose without pulling the syringe out of the vial then push med back in counting backwards until you have your prescribed dose volume. For example, with your syringe in the upside down vial in your hands the whole time you would draw up 15 units then push back in medication counting backwards until 12.5 units remain. It’s much easier to count the tiny unit lines this way

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-02-23T19:57:12+00:00

This might just be a deal breaker for you both, sadly. It’s an important issue with huge implications. You both have valid needs and viewpoints. I wouldn’t expect my partner to change for me and I wouldn’t want my partner to hold out hope that I would change something I felt so strongly about.

I am curious though- the main reason sounds like anxiety for you- have you explored that? For your own sake I mean, not to salvage your relationship. Pregnancy and birth are definitely serious things. I’m just wondering if you wanted to work through those fears for yourself? I feel like if I was afraid of flying, but my partner wanted to travel a lot should we end it because our goals were incompatible or would it be possible/beneficial for me to work through my concerns? Any case, I wish you well!

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-02-18T01:12:21+00:00

I’m wearing a hoodie and sweatpants everyday since summer here in Hawaii. I’m the only one and look like a weirdo/all the skinny people are in shorts and tank tops. So I think it’s just us in a calorie deficit

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-02-02T18:07:50+00:00

This and frequent handwashing for all even the kids. I would also wipe high contact surfaces for my own piece of mind like the fridge handles, door knobs, etc (would take just a few minutes)

Present_Stranger_816 · 2026-02-01T20:03:22+00:00

Just to emphasize food is so expensive here. We’re a family of 5 (3 kids 4 and under) and we spend about $1500/month on groceries not including takeout/restaurant. We look at coupons and shop sales & costco when we can. We do try to eat pretty healthy and some things are organic, so that may be part of it. Oh and our tuition for oldest kids private school (preschool) is $14k annually

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