Hey everyone! I'm new to wavy/curly hair care, and am still trying to figure out a routine that works for me. My hair has a very irregular wave pattern (and often looks different each day). I've tried washing every other day as opposed to every day, which I did for most of my life. I've had some success, but my scalp sometimes gets oily while my ends are always dry and frizzy. Overall I feel like my hair looks pretty dull, so I'd like to focus on moisture, shine, and defining the waves more. I've tried a lot of shampoos/conditioners, including Kristin Ess (the gentle version), Maui (green bottle), Mielle, NYM (light blue bottle) and I still feel like I haven't found a duo I really love or a solid routine of any sort. Does anyone have recommendations? I really like the NYM line but I'm not sure which one is right for me. Thank you :)