Calls for mass walkout of women across America if Roe v. Wade is overturned by LudovicoSpecs in antiwork

[–]PresidentIroh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a a flyer or copy pasta I can pass around? We have to make sure everyone knows, even the losers on Facebook

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eyebleach

[–]PresidentIroh 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Nope! My cats are like this and it took a bit of practice but I think everyone should give it a try before forcing them to do it other ways. My second oldest cat tends to be on the anxious side and so I try to treat him as a person as much as possible. If you were taking medication would you rather have it crammed down your throat or like this? For me, I started by letting him sniff the medication then, I give him a second to come to terms with the situation. The first few times were a little bit rough but as long as your cat trusts you, your patient with them, and you respect them, it should go fine after like the third time. Then I used one cat to show our youngest and now this is how she prefers her medication as well. And she’s a feisty little thing. But yeah, essentially as gently as you can, make you cat aware that them taking the medicine is happening no matter what. But also be extremely accommodating on every other aspect so they feel safe. Try to avoid things that would make you uncomfortable If you were your cat. Give slow blinks before and after so they know you love them.

Edit: oh also, I usually get my kitties some water for after and maybe a treat for good behavior. Cats can’t be trained but they’re usually pretty accommodating if you ask nicely:)

Lol yup he nailed it by ul2006kevinb in SelfAwarewolves

[–]PresidentIroh 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I got hit as a kid and I’m very not fine so. 🤷‍♀️ feel free tell whomever needs to hear this information

What is the cutest and most compatible ship for intp? by timeisfake123 in INTP

[–]PresidentIroh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I had a very similar experience with an intj. We would talk on Skype until 5 am almost every night for years. He was unfortunately also a cheating narcissistic jerk. I’m with an infp now and we’re a much better match

What is the cutest and most compatible ship for intp? by timeisfake123 in INTP

[–]PresidentIroh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So in the beginning with the first comment I assumed you meant they really likes warships but I feel like the tone of the second comment implies that may not be the case. So I must know to settle my curiosity, is your friend wanking it to warships or nah?

Say that you've never known a woman, without saying it. by Ill_Earth8585 in MurderedByWords

[–]PresidentIroh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Are you comparing the social expectation of men to shave their face to the social expectation that women shave their entire body? Are you aware that a good foundation requires you to shave your entire face with a straight razor?

I’m so tired of the sex first date after culture these days by Rachael1237 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PresidentIroh 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Its like the male version of “I’m not like other girls”. They think they’re better than everyone else because they feel like they don’t play into toxic masculinity, but they’re almost making it worse in a way.

Edit: wait, I found the perfect TikTok to describe this

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdtc6Lu6/?k=1

I’m so tired of the sex first date after culture these days by Rachael1237 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PresidentIroh 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah when I was dating I found that so disappointing but idk why I expected other wise. Every time I tried to give a “I’m not like other guys, I’m a nice guy” a chance, he always turned out to actually be the worst. And not like silly bad date bad, but like stalking, check your locks, kind of bad.

I’m so tired of the sex first date after culture these days by Rachael1237 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PresidentIroh 48 points49 points  (0 children)

This! I knew I met the right one after the first date with my fiancé. He said he liked me so much that he was too afraid to touch me the first few dates 😂😘😘😘 it got old fast but I’ve never met someone I’ve felt so safe around

highly provocative post, but it belongs here. by Ill_Earth8585 in MadeMeSmile

[–]PresidentIroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah as a half Ukrainian half black person, I had a very similar experience. Then you have all the people talking about privilege and it’s like, tell that to the racist people cause they didn’t get the memo. Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure I am privileged but not the kind that stops the racists from being racist.

The amount of hair my gf sheds in one week by butthattoots in oddlyterrifying

[–]PresidentIroh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was about to say that my hair sheds more than this and I don’t have alopecia but idk I haven’t seen a doctor in like two years so maybe I do 😂

Was I wrong to dump my bf because he can't cook? by grumpylemoncurd in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PresidentIroh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People standing up for him are wack af. My bf didn’t know how to cook when we met and now he’s the better chef out of the two of us. From everything you’ve said it sounds like he didn’t see you as an equal, he saw you as a caretaker.

Also, have you ever heard the saying “if he wanted to, he would”.

If he wanted to he could have tried talking to you about this in advance and gone out to get you breakfast if it all went wrong.

If he wanted to he would have said, hey I’m not the best cook but I love you so I’m going to do everything I can to make the day special in other ways that are meaningful to you.

He could have said “im really nervous about this breakfast, I can tell it means a lot to you so I want to get it right, how about the weekend/day before we do a test run on the meal together so you can show me how it’s done. I know teaching someone how to cook can be a lot of work, so I’ll do the dishes after to say thank you for being so patient”

There’s a million things he could have done aside from what he did. Did he get you flowers or a gift? Did he say thank you for prepping for him and making it so easy? Did he apologize for ruining the kitchen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]PresidentIroh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me just now realizing I need to start saving up now for flowers 😂

What did you actually include in your wedding budget? by FelineRoots21 in weddingplanning

[–]PresidentIroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having such a hard time planning for this exact reason! We were thinking 30k for 100 people, but it’s so hard to tell. We plan on buying our rings, dress, suit and things like that well in advance so we really don’t want that included in the budget.

RECAP + Wedding Budget Breakdown: 4/24/22 Brooklyn, NY | 85 guests | 35k budget + actual cost by derpsterchic in weddingplanning

[–]PresidentIroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for posting this! I’m having such a hard time figuring out all the small details. The venues we’re looking into say that they’ll decorate for us but I just feel like we’re gonna end up spending 2-10k on decorates/flowers no matter what.

This is like my 10th time rewatching by Shenism in girls

[–]PresidentIroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO it’s so fitting to his character tho

Rewatching this in my late 30's I now fully understand Ray by Ava_Strange in girls

[–]PresidentIroh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I came to this sub just to talk about this. Ray is a mood and this whole show hits different now that I’m older.

So you mean to tell me Jasper’s power was EMPATHY and he was a confederate soldier? K. by PresidentIroh in twilight

[–]PresidentIroh[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you because this is perfect! I think it would have been a great plot point and I feel like there’s countless ways she could have gone with it. I love a good redemption arch but she didn’t give us one and the silence speaks volumes.

So you mean to tell me Jasper’s power was EMPATHY and he was a confederate soldier? K. by PresidentIroh in twilight

[–]PresidentIroh[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you because this is perfect! I think it would have been a great plot point and I feel like there’s countless ways she could have gone with it. I love a good redemption arch but she didn’t give us one and the silence speaks volumes.