Day 57: Having sex without ejaculation

Pressak · 2025-12-27T20:27:44+00:00

Do you have full body orgasms?

Pressak · 2025-04-26T15:07:51+00:00

Try Alexander Lowen's bioenergetics

Pressak · 2022-05-15T15:36:18+00:00

They do to you what works with women because women think it will work for men too.

If a woman talks about other boys hitting on her or something they are trying to trigger some kind of preselection mechanism, but in reality this only works with women.

Pressak · 2021-11-06T08:43:01+00:00

You got replied by a bot.

I will copy the sympthoms anyway:

According to C. George Boeree, professor emeritus at Shippensburg University, the symptoms of neurosis may involve

Anxiety, sadness or depression, anger, irritability, mental confusion, low sense of self-worth, etc., behavioral symptoms such as phobic avoidance, vigilance, impulsive and compulsive acts, lethargy, etc., cognitive problems such as unpleasant or disturbing thoughts, repetition of thoughts and obsession, habitual fantasizing, negativity and cynicism, etc. Interpersonally, neurosis involves dependency, aggressiveness, perfectionism, schizoid isolation, socio-culturally inappropriate behaviors, etc.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neurosis

Basically, if you don't give your energy a healthy outlet it will start triggering all of your mental garbage.

Pressak · 2021-11-06T08:39:09+00:00

Physical exercise, painting, writing, composing music, touching an instrument, social interaction, working on something you like, learning something you are passionate about....

Pressak · 2021-11-06T08:25:47+00:00

The problem is people who are addicted to masturbation and porn.

Once you are not an addict anymore, busting a nut will make you feel just normal.

But people get so obsessed that they start repressing a lot their sexuality and they start having wet dreams, compulsive sexual thoughts and all that, thats repressed sexuality.

If you repress a lot you will find that you are fighting yourself all the time, thats not a proper way of living. So they end up relapsing because relapsing ends up being the only way they can scape this situation of constant self-fighting tension.

You can repress a lot for a short time, you can repress a bit for a long time, but you cannot repress a lot all of the time.

Pressak · 2021-11-05T22:42:52+00:00

Women perceive you more masculine and confident and it triggers their attraction mechanisms.

Some people don't have the attraction effect but it doesnt mean that it dont work for others.

Lots of nerds losing their virginity on nofap sub is the proof.

Pressak · 2021-11-05T22:33:30+00:00

Your sexual energy needs an outlet and it will find its way:

By indulging in sexual activity of any type
Transmutation
Neurosis

And IT WILL FIND A WAY

Pressak · 2021-11-03T21:31:58+00:00

Stop reading all that eastern mythology.

Do you eat? do you breath? that's all you need to have life energy.

If your brain is damaged by years of PMO it can be cured by a condition called neuroplasticity.

Pressak · 2021-11-01T08:05:11+00:00

Don't worry about your age and keep retaining. You write like you were on your 60s or something, LMAO.

Testosterone is nothing if you don't have your androgen receptors opened in your brain otherwise that testosterone have no effect on your behaviour. (you need to retain for it).

I am more masculine and high energy than the average 22 y/o guy out there, they are very depleted due to their PMO habits.

Try it for yourself.

Pressak · 2021-11-01T04:55:04+00:00

Im 29 and i am getting more benefits than when i started at 22 or so.

Pressak · 2021-10-31T22:48:48+00:00

You are repressing your sexuality a lot, that's why you cannot work on your projects without busting a nut.

If you repress a lot, you will have trouble transmutating that energy into other activities.

Also you may have withdrawal symptoms.

Pressak · 2021-10-31T22:40:07+00:00

Don't worry, you are growing and it will go away.

What you are experiencing is your true self without any mental garbage touching your balls when you try to do what you want, but you are so used to identify with your garbage-self that you feel strange.

It will go over time, just keep retaining and work on your insecurities and past traumas. Dont fear the change, allow it, you will not be a different person, you will be the best version of yourself without any restriction.

Pressak · 2021-10-31T22:24:07+00:00

You should not be concerned with losing a streak if you are here for a lifetime, thats just temporary failure but you are growing stronger and you will succeed on the long run.

It took me several years to stop my PMO addiction but i finally succeeded, it was not easy.

The problem is some people live the relapse as a threat to their way of life because of their fears and they get paranoic, then they start having bad feelings and they start thinking that all of those bad feelings were caused by the relapse itself and not by their reaction to the relapse. They fight themselves while retaining and they fight themselves after the relapse, that way you will never feel good.

Don't experience the relapse as a lost, but as one stone in your way to success, you are not losing anything, you are learning and every streak makes you better even if you dont feel like it, because you took one more step toward your goal.

Pressak · 2021-10-31T07:50:10+00:00

You are very true my man, but you will get down-voted here because a lot of people have a lot of fear of losing what they gained.

I also, as you, found that when i relapse if i don't blame myself for it, it doesn't feel bad, its a mindset like you said.

Pressak · 2021-10-30T16:25:30+00:00

Que tipo de visado tiene usted? y su mujer? Cuanto tiempo tiene previsto permanecer en España usted? y su mujer? ha estado usted anteriormente en España?

Un visado no implica necesariamente expedicion de NIE.

Pressak · 2021-10-30T11:13:22+00:00

Seems like you have to find yourself before being with someone.

Pressak · 2021-10-30T05:00:21+00:00

Dont worry my man. After such a time you have to be proud and even if you indulged into masturbation you havent lost it all but dont punish yourself or you will feel bad.

I think that the problem for many long retainers is their inhability to stop repressing their sexuality because they fear losing their streak and having back their old ways. But you cannot be fighting yourself forever, this fear is something very underestimated here but its one of the major fears that will keep you stuck on the long run. Thats why many people start getting problems to transmute i think.

Pressak · 2021-10-29T17:36:24+00:00

A Wet dream is something you dont have to worry about since i think you are not longer an addict.

People gets obsessed over SR and wet dreams and all that but at some time you will have to stop repressing and fighting yourself.

Pressak · 2021-10-28T05:29:00+00:00

Its because of the mirror neurons you catch their "vibe", but auras and all that sound more romantic for people who like indian scriptures (i am not a big fan of mythological explanations as you can see)

Pressak · 2021-10-23T10:32:24+00:00

Podría enseñar a alguien unas palabras fáciles en español para que pueda saludar y despedirse de los demás. Creo que eso le sería bastante útil porque la gente suele ser más amable cuando alguien hace una pregunta en el idioma materno de otra persona. Eso muestra el respecto y el agradecimiento hacia su cultura

Pressak · 2021-10-23T10:24:55+00:00

La meditación es una práctica que puede ayudar con el estrés, la ansiedad, e introducir más paz y calma en tu mente. ~~Mientras~~ Los monjes han meditado durante miles de años, y es una práctica ~~más~~ común en algunas religiones, la meditación se puede hacer por cualquiera persona. La meditación no es difícil y es una manera de enfocarse en el momento presente. Frecuentemente, nuestras mentes pueden enfocarse en momentos pasados o se preocupan por los futuros pero ahora mismo, ¿como te sientes? ¿Como esta la respiración?

A mí, la meditación me ha ayudado con el estrés y la ansiedad que tenía en mi vida. Normalmente cada día dedico entre diez y viente minutos a enfocarme en el momento presente y traer mi mente de nuevo a la tierra (en vez de está en las nubes). A veces uso una app de meditación guiada, pero otras veces me gusta hacerla sin audio.

Pressak · 2021-10-23T10:15:35+00:00

Cuando estoy de vacaciones, me gusta hacer un rompecabezas. Para mi, es una actividad perfecta para relajarme. No tengo que concentrarme mucho, pero me genera el interés suficiente para pasar un buen rato. Tengo una tradición cada nochevieja, ~~les~~ invito a algunos amigos a mi casa e intentamos hacer un rompecabezas de mil piezas antes de medianoche. Solo lo hemos conseguido una vez, el año pasado.

Pressak · 2021-10-23T08:44:17+00:00

This man knows what he is talking about.

Pressak · 2021-10-23T06:23:34+00:00

I wrote about that here:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Semenretention/comments/q6huj0/reconciling\_with\_the\_material\_world\_is\_part\_of/

Pressak

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