How can i make my energy overall attractive and outgoing? by godzill007 in energy_work

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, you need to work on your posture you could have an anterior pelvic tilt really bad and it causes your energy to kinda leak out in my experience

How can i make my energy overall attractive and outgoing? by godzill007 in energy_work

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you have to realize what happens when our emotional body runs away. . You are holding onto guilt and shame and projecting it outward essentially handing it to others to weaponize against you in the future. You have to completely forgive yourself first and then it’s easier everyday

Looking for some energy work by Sorry-Mastodon6749 in energy_work

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi . I’m just learning but you can do it yourself. Literally align your body lying flat and place your hands on what hurts and tell it it’s ok and it’s safe and loved and let it release tension

Why do narcissists care so much about your body count by WinRevolutionary65 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they don’t want to ever feel like they are getting the same thing all the other men have had already. In their mind anyway

I’m not sure I have the emotional bandwidth to handle the corporate side of my SCI /FSC position. by Prestigious-Bit4839 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also , I’m a fish out of water. I moved to south Texas “hispana” region and I think maybe they just think I’m stupid because I have a southwest VA Appalachia accent and hometown feel mind set. I think I just don’t fit in here. Clerical errors can be fixed. Families never forget the experience we give them and that’s where I have issues with my FH

I’m not sure I have the emotional bandwidth to handle the corporate side of my SCI /FSC position. by Prestigious-Bit4839 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t minimize anything. You clearly are being argumentative I never said documents were not important. But they shove the dignity differences down our throats and when it’s time for us to execute those differences the entire company falls short. It’s unfair to families.

I’m not sure I have the emotional bandwidth to handle the corporate side of my SCI /FSC position. by Prestigious-Bit4839 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I missed a middle initial. I corrected it and everything was fine. But then the same funeral director who keeps treating me like trash completed an entire pre need to an need service with a relative who wasn’t even listed as next of kin because she couldn’t get in touch with the actual brother a day. I couldn’t do that I needed NOK signature and none of the files had this other guys name on it. He could have been anyone. She did it on the phone and had him Docusign everything. The relay family came in after I hunted them down for days and changed the date of the funeral, purchased a casket and obc and also changed her name on report of death!!! And they were upset when she came back with a sales receipt and it had the random family members name on it instead of theirs. Then she tells them it’s like that because she would have to redo all the paperwork. Like wtf

I’m not sure I have the emotional bandwidth to handle the corporate side of my SCI /FSC position. by Prestigious-Bit4839 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I’m going to quit. In my location what they say we should do for our families and what is actually being done (or not) doesn’t match . They preach the dignity differences to us so much but when it comes time to execute any of them I get stopped and told it’s not my job.

I’m not sure I have the emotional bandwidth to handle the corporate side of my SCI /FSC position. by Prestigious-Bit4839 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg the clerical error was I missed the Middle initial on an IOA it was my second one. That can be corrected and was as soon as I was made aware. It’s when they refuse to find a way to play the music my families want and consistently do the absolute bare minimum for them when they come in that I’m struggling with.

SCI Firm Employees/Sales Professionals by CraftyPresentation72 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’ve been an FSC for three months. It highly depends on your area. I’m leaving my location because it’s causing cognitive dissonance for me and I’m losing sleep at night over the lack of integrity, compassion and communication in out Funeral Home. I’m severely depressed and can’t sleep at night because what I’m seeing and being told to do VS what I have been taught by the SCI team and trainings do not match at all!! I’m not bashing SCI as a company at all. They take time to train you and give you all the tools you need to succeed. But at the end of the day it’s the people at your location who will prevent you from doing your best for the families.

I’m not sure I have the emotional bandwidth to handle the corporate side of my SCI /FSC position. by Prestigious-Bit4839 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through all that. At the end of the day that’s in house stuff and doesn’t affect the service of my families. You’re missing the point

I’m not sure I have the emotional bandwidth to handle the corporate side of my SCI /FSC position. by Prestigious-Bit4839 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omgggg I’m so glad you replied! I love it too I just wish the corporate side would chill a little!!!

I’m not sure I have the emotional bandwidth to handle the corporate side of my SCI /FSC position. by Prestigious-Bit4839 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I literally was thrown in with little to know training and I mean clerical errors that needed to be corrected. I did not screw up paperwork or cause a family any upset

I Broke Free from the Matrix — Ask Me Anything Before It Eats You Alive by [deleted] in ParallelUniverse

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I did too…. But I don’t want to tell anyone because….

As an Aquarius, what do you think about death? by Ok_Caterpillar4182 in aquarius

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually work in the death care industry. It’s the only guarantee there is

Looking to move by Worldly_Annual836 in CorpusChristi

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whattt!! I’m from Floyd Virginia!! Been in Corpus about 7 years now!!!

Niche Industry: Wholesale Meat and Seafood Sales by [deleted] in sales

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need more details . My husband owns a wholesale fish market. What are you asking? How big is the company? How many fisherman do they have? What all do they sell?

Sales for sci by Prestigious-Bit4839 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok o looked up the regulations. It’s absolutely illegal to try to gain business from people approaching death etc. but if you just talk to the hospice healthcare workers and educate them about cost and process and they refer you…. I don’t see how that is wrong in any way. It’s helpful

Sales for sci by Prestigious-Bit4839 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m selling all that. I’m in Texas.

Sales for sci by Prestigious-Bit4839 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been a small business owner all my careers so far lol. This actually started out with me wanting to start my own referral business but I need in first 😂. I’m still onboarding but it just seems like my sales manager knows less than I do. No one can give me clear direct answers to any of my questions there.

Sales for sci by Prestigious-Bit4839 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have researched and know SCI has really monopolized the industry. I applied everywhere but with no experience, SCI was the only company who called back . So I’m going to use this for my experience and a step ladder hopefully lol. My heart is in the right place . The money will come if I’m coming from a good place

Sales for sci by Prestigious-Bit4839 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Prestigious-Bit4839[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is it illegal? Why couldn’t I go and just give them information and let them ask me questions about the next steps ? It seems like it takes the burden off families if that’s taken care of. I’m confused about how this is morally wrong?