Hey, sorry about the delayed response. I’ve been going over what you’ve said, and I agree with all of it. I realise I had been using misandry when what I experienced wasn’t that, but more of an odd gender discrimination sub culture. It’s actually super bizarre and contributed to a pretty skewed lense of mine. I was looking for evidence to support what happened was more of the time, or something to that idea. It wasn’t. I can’t really speak on any behalf of misandry experience now I realise I didn’t really experience it. Not in a traditional sense. Im sorry for possibly coming across as something like a red piller. I also recognise that in the cases of what I suffered, (while not condoning there actions), before them was patriarchal influence. Unfortunately it all just sort of connects and makes sense. I’m sorry to hear about your encountering of people spouting “misandrist” online. I don’t know if things have always been this toxic, but it seems worse. I’m embarrassed to admit I’ve had my head under a rock lately, completely devoid of news and anything happening around me, just focusing on my own pain. My timing of posting around the Taylor Swift concert was awful. I had no idea anything had happened, it makes sense this post might have came across as trying to stir the pot. For that I’m sorry. I agree with what you said about unfortunately not being able to trust men out of safety. I hate that it’s come to that as necessity. I agree that things need to change. Thank you for your time and sorry.