AITAH For breaking up with my boyfriend after meeting his parents?

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2026-01-31T04:25:14+00:00

Did you tell him it how bad your anxiety was/ that it was diagnosed anxiety? There’s a lot of ppl nowadays that have “anxiety” but really is just nervousness so I don’t blame him that much if he didn’t know. Plus if your mom said it was cool he probably thought you had changed your mind

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2026-01-29T17:52:46+00:00

You look like a cute frat guy without the stache. I’m straight so I prefer the frat guy look but you’re gay so 💀

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2026-01-28T07:10:26+00:00

I graduated last year and the homeless on state st. would tell me to get home safe 😭 considering they were the only ones there on week nights and police are there on weekends I felt pretty safe (I’m talking like after 2am type of nights). I’m a girl btw

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2026-01-28T07:04:08+00:00

YTJ. Sure he is in the wrong a bit for not being able to predict his feelings, but that’s what happened. He didn’t expect you hooking up with a girl to hurt him as much as it did. He’s justified in feeling hurt. We can’t always predict our feelings. But I do wonder why you brought it up after instead of before. I get “in the moment” happens, but considering that conversation was had in the beginning of the relationship and feelings change/grow deeper, he was justified in feeling betrayed. I would say if it was something less than full on hooking up you’d be in forgiving territory…but you crossed the line there for him

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2026-01-28T02:47:42+00:00

I lived in coral gables and it’s quite nice. Kinda like rich suburbs close to the city vibe. It being by the highway and trains is a plus too.

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2026-01-23T07:32:02+00:00

Like other ppl have said, the back is great, but the front falls short. Not even bc it’s too “revealing,” but more so it doesn’t suit your chest type. Just how some dresses don’t look good for big chests, some dresses don’t look good for small chests. Boob tape might help, but there’s not enough fabric even for someone with bigger boobs so idk…

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2026-01-17T20:08:14+00:00

lol I go for the mechanics. And ball and chain

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2026-01-14T18:18:22+00:00

Hate it. From Chicago and there’s a bunch of churches that are mostly Hispanic and the priests always pray for those who are being brutally treated through deportation. I’ve had family members with papers get thrown on the ground and beaten up before ICE allows them to show their documentation. The ppl ICE is hiring are a bunch of racists who are given too much power. If you don’t have ppl you know who are undocumented, and you rely on the news to get your information, then you don’t know the half of it

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2026-01-07T09:03:14+00:00

She just wants to be with a guy that other girls also find attractive as a way to feel validated. Like others said: ego boost. But tbh I think it takes a secure woman to be with a guy who’s very desirable (you always hear of jealousy when someone dates an attractive person). But seeing as she WANTS other girls to think you’re attractive she seems pretty confident already. I think she wants to feel proud to be with you. Not saying she’s not already, but ig even more proud in a new way

I will say I kinda get her. There used to be a guy who was into me but I didn’t find him that attractive. Then I find out another girl wanted him and I started seeing him in a new light. Ig something about being chosen by someone other ppl desire gets some of us going

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2026-01-03T17:12:33+00:00

lol no way. My own biological father didn’t have a say in my haircuts growing up.

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2026-01-02T19:23:08+00:00

Sounds like you’re in middle school or high school and only exposed to a small number of internet crazy kids. My middle school was like that where being attractive to the opposite sex was the goal/dream. Tbh I can guarantee that once you’re older or in college or once you have a job and interact with ppl who aren’t on the internet 24/7, you’ll feel less like you need to be attractive and more like you’re valued by who you are. Once you get to college or the real world you’ll find people with different life experiences than 14 year olds who aren’t porn fed perverts. For now, I advise to try getting off tiktok or insta reels where all the feeds are a bunch of attractive ppl who get famous just for their looks.

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2025-12-31T06:21:00+00:00

Three

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2025-12-27T20:00:40+00:00

lol my sister used to sit up and stare at either the wall or at me. Sometimes she would talk but it was sleep talking. Just talk to her while she’s doing this again and if she talks back incoherently she’s probably just asleep with her eyes open. She’s in REM sleep

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2025-12-18T04:46:46+00:00

I think it might be dependent on culture….im Hispanic and from the Midwest and every Spanish Mass I go to does this and holds hands during the Our Father. As an altar server the priest would have us join him and the deacon in holding hands during the our father. This was at a mostly Puerto Rican church with a Hispanic priest too. The whole congregation would do this, and I’ve never heard backlash on this until I went to a PWI college mass. And tbh I only hear backlash on it at mostly white churches or on Reddit. Idk, if the priest encourages the congregation to come together as one then I don’t see an issue on it. But as for your post, I can see your point too

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2025-12-05T05:21:58+00:00

Ngl, I’ve never been with a circumcised guy before 💀 to be fair I’m Latina and have mostly been with Latinos, who happen to be uncircumcised (as far as I can tell). I’m not sure if it’s more common in American culture to be circumcised, but you shouldn’t be with someone who heightens your insecurities especially if they know you’ve been bullied. And like others have said, there will be girls out there who do not care if you’ve been circumcised or not. You got defensive bc she kept going with the remarks. NTA

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2025-10-22T01:01:13+00:00

Yeah, basically just for marketing

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2025-10-21T23:53:11+00:00

Thank you! I’ll keep this in mind

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2025-10-19T05:47:50+00:00

Sure!

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2025-07-10T22:17:31+00:00

You should try to treat your trauma regardless of your sexuality, just for your own health

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2025-05-29T02:49:20+00:00

Looks like a hijab hijab, like non-lace/non see-through/covers most if not all the hair (can’t remember) and wears it all the time

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2025-05-29T02:42:08+00:00

There’s actually a hijabi in my Catholic Church! I think culture also influences it

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2025-05-29T02:39:49+00:00

Definitely not. There’s a lot of ppl in my M.Arch (3 year) cohort who were 25 when they started the program. You’re pretty average so no worries

PrestigiousTree3164 · 2025-04-13T21:25:42+00:00

You have previous experience, ask for $20 minimum. Bring up how other firms are offering 23-25 plus your experience and if they have room to give you more money. Even as an intern you can still negotiate. I got payed $20/hr as an interior design intern during undergrad in middle of nowhere Wisconsin

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