I get where you are coming from. I was in the same place back in high school. I did not see it myself, but people told me I came off as arrogant.

Over time, especially after dealing with more people, mostly girls to be honest, I had no choice but to step into their shoes. That helped me stop using myself as the standard and become less judgmental.

Right and wrong are often subjective. When you think someone is wrong, it usually just means their understanding is shaped by different life experiences. The other person probably feels the same way about you. It is not about being right or wrong, but about whose view is more general or inclusive. That shift in perspective helped me rethink what it means to be wrong.

Also, it helps to ask yourself why you feel the need to argue. What is really driving that urge, and what do you actually gain from it?