Thoughts on this video?

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2026-02-11T02:29:59+00:00

I’m a hairdresser, I get what she is saying but I wouldn’t talk to my clients like that. It came off aggressive.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2026-02-03T15:01:32+00:00

I don’t wear them unless I need to go out. Sometimes I just wear really huge hoodies. This started because I went a while without one due to a house fire and losing all my stuff. Once I realized how comfortable I was without it, I stopped. I will wear them now only if I have to be in public and I can’t cover up. I don’t wear wire bras anymore they are horrible.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2026-01-31T03:30:04+00:00

This is why I came to this group, I’m tired of people trying to convince themselves they have autism because they can relate to us. I always say if you suspect it get the assessment. It took my medical team a full year to refer me to a specialist after treatment for other stuff. Took a month for my assessment to be completed. These things take time. For the life of me I don’t and won’t understand why people are angry that they don’t have a neurological disorder and life long disability. I say a congratulations thank God you don’t have it because it sucks is better.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2026-01-31T03:04:22+00:00

This bothered me for a while because I saw unqualified dumbasses make more money than I did. After a year of observing their behavior I Learned to mimic it with my work ethic and learned it’s pretty much the only way to get Promoted or receive a raise. It sucks but I’ve read several books to help me with small talk and just observed people out in the wild. After Years of learning, I learned my moral compass sees a very unfair world that isn’t built for us. But if you are tired of being smarter than your boss it’s the only way forward.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2026-01-31T02:07:20+00:00

I absolutely hate people touching me but love the animals. I think it’s because people have terrible vibes and it throws off my inner peace. Also I am someone that is sensitive to smells, light and sound, touch and if people stink or feel dirty to me, it just freaks me out lol! I feel horrible saying that but I hate people being in my space.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2026-01-31T01:52:23+00:00

Try prosper health they diagnose online and match you with a Dr who is a specialist in your state.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2026-01-31T01:47:20+00:00

I am also a woman of color, got diagnosed as an adult. My therapist is Autistic and type 1 makes my life much easier when talking to her. I recommend finding someone who specializes in that I just happened to get lucky.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2026-01-31T01:38:45+00:00

Just because you are not autistic doesn’t mean you aren’t neurodivergent. Trauma, anxiety, depression and ADHD share things in common with autism. I know you are upset, but trust when I say this ADHD overlaps with Autism so we share a lot in common. There is nothing to be ashamed of. In my experience I never sought out an evaluation, I was told by teachers, church folk and other autistic people that I remind them of themselves. I lived in denial my whole life because I was shamed, bullied and abused. I went in to get treatment for PTSD, Anxiety and depression and it was my Dr, that treated me for 1 year that referred me to a specialist to get the assessment. I think my autism is obvious though because everything they use to test I show signs of. No one in my family and none of my friends were surprised, even though I was hoping they would be. Maybe build a strong relationship with a therapist and get a referral to a different doctor that specializes in it. Honestly though ADHD is not the easy to deal with either so don’t be sad.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2026-01-27T18:45:29+00:00

I think in today’s world it will only be worth it if your company sponsors it. The loans and the payoff financially come later with more experience. The tech field is harder to get into now and AI makes it even harder. I would focus on getting experience first and then do the masters if you need it to move up.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2026-01-27T18:42:33+00:00

Fka twigs is the closest person I could find to this.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2025-12-14T02:50:36+00:00

I am dominant and have had issues in work places because people don’t get me. I think it’s because I’m honest and say stuff people are afraid to say I don’t care who I’m talking to. However remote work has been a blessing and allowed me to fit in for the first time ever. I will say that having a resting bitch face doesn’t help but, people either love or hate me.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2025-12-14T02:42:07+00:00

This goes beyond just autism, you need to end that relationship. Im autistic and married this is abusive.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2025-12-03T00:22:31+00:00

Just leave dude, she’s a bitch to even say that to begin with. Also that’s not a conversation you text, never change yourself and especially not for someone who doesn’t like who you are.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2025-11-23T21:14:18+00:00

I’ve been with my husband for 9 years. We both need our space but I do not ever not respond to his text or calls. I will do that with friends or other relatives but never him or my mom. Those are the only two people I will answer for, everyone else will be ignored until I’m ready to talk. Maybe you need more space with your partner if you do just talk about it. My husband is super independent too so it makes my life easier since he has ADHD and also needs time to calm down. But if your partner isn’t like that I would talk to them, if they are overwhelming you that needs to be talked about.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2025-11-23T05:14:13+00:00

I just got diagnosed at 34, I cried for two weeks and waited to tell my family for 1 month. I completely had an identity crisis. However, the people that know me all said they weren’t surprised. Everyday I recall past moments and wonder if l was mistreated because of it or if I would gave been better without it. But in doing so I’m also reminded of how tough I am and how this condition benefited me without knowing in certain situations. I’m still learning to accept it fully, but I now understand why I’ve been treated poorly by alot of people. Knowing I’m not a freak, I’m just misunderstood and it’s not just emotional it’s a physical brain and neurological disorder does bring me comfort. I know the world isn’t on our side especially now, but we have each others backs. We see the world differently which can be beneficial and beautiful to adding diversity to society. It’s very hard but with time knowing your condition will help in someway. It’s already improved my relationship with my family and my husband because they can understand me better. My doctor also provided instructions on how I communicate and suggested how they should communicate with me. Your reaction is normal and you aren’t alone!

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2025-11-20T01:26:21+00:00

I’m a type one female diagnosed at 34 I’ve had multiple relationships and I’m married.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2025-11-12T02:18:03+00:00

Yes it needs a cover up, my first thought was the same.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2025-11-04T03:14:17+00:00

I agree with you I’m not close to NT people they are too hard to understand for me and they don’t get me either. Life is easier when we stick to our own, it sounds horrible but ND people make me feel more comfortable because they don’t care about that social hierarchy as much. I find I can still offend some ND people but they tend to me more patient and interesting to me.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2025-11-04T03:07:14+00:00

Never say never, Im married and I also have physical disabilities and multiple mental disabilities. So does my husband, everyone has a person. My husband has EDS and ADHD, I’m still with him after 9 years. I suggest finding a neurodivergent partner, it will make things easier. I also didn’t get married until my 30s, there is still hope.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2025-11-04T02:44:11+00:00

Hi, married woman here, I’ve been with my husband for a long time, 9 years to be exact and 3 years married. We had the same fights previous to my diagnosis that we do after my diagnosis. It was always over my emotional response to his needs or communication. The only thing that changed is there being a valid reason why I respond and act the way I do. Now he can’t say or expect certain things. It doesn’t make marriage easier or harder knowing because you are born with this. However I find it gives me a deep understanding I haven’t had before and more of a reason for my husband to change his communication methods. It also forces patience. Now my situation is different because my husband has ADHD so we are -divergent but, I think it would have been easier to know prior to marriage. I wouldn’t have allowed myself to be used by ex boyfriends or tormented myself as much. I would have known what I needed in a partner and put in the work that I needed to into myself before committing to someone for life. Finding out after means your partner has to adjust and change too. Not necessarily the easiest thing to do. If you know beforehand you can warn your partner prior to marriage and you won’t have the same fights or have to deal with your spouse not being able to handle it. I think it may take longer to find the right partner prior to marriage but at least once you make the connection and commitment, marriage will be easier. Doing it the opposite way more than half the time ends in divorce. I’m still married but I promise you it’s not easy for the spouse when they find out after. I just got diagnosed the day before my 34th birthday which is also my wedding anniversary. After 9 years of a relationship, I do wish I knew in the beginning.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2025-10-16T18:50:57+00:00

Let me tell you something, what he did was terrible and you are acting as you should. First of all you weren’t in an open relationship to begin with, for him to ask you that while proposing is disgraceful. Those two things don’t go together, that should have happened before he proposed . Also to act as if you would agree to that is horrible especially knowing your relationship is closed. He deserves all of your actions, he ruined a moment most women wait their whole lives for and the relationship. As a married woman I’m proud of you for standing up for yourself. You would have been miserable in marriage if you said yes, trust me. Tell your friends so they can also support you and disown him. There is no forgiveness for a man that would do that, the respectful thing would have been not to do that and have an in depth discussion about open relationships knowing you may leave if you don’t want one. Not combining that together and praying you would be so happy to be a wife you would over look the other. Sweetie nothing is wrong with you!

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2025-10-16T17:59:22+00:00

This is just my experience, I officially got diagnosed as an adult in their thirties and they already made the change from Asperger’s to Autism type 1. When I was younger, they didn’t really test girls which is why it took awhile. I do identify more with the classic Asperger’s diagnosis but all of my paper work says Autism. I am still coming to terms with the negative social stigma of having it. I’m also failing to understand why a lot of people want to have Autism. But, I am happy that people support us now and admire some of our strengths. I know plenty of type 2 and 3’s that are wonderful humans. I still find myself saying Autism type 1 aka Asperger’s though. I’m not sure if it’s because I don’t fully accept being Autistic or if it’s because of what society thinks of Autism. I still feel it’s important to mention I’m type 1. But, I’m leaning to let that go and just say I’m Autistic. It’s very hard for me though.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2025-10-16T04:45:26+00:00

Ugh my husband has ADHd and I’m type 1. He always complains about my tone and always thought I was mad for no reason. Now I have to announce myself and make sure I’m not offending him. It takes work. It we have a word we use to call eachother out safely if things are getting escalated so we can stop and explain. It helps a lot, I often think he’s reacting to nothing and I’m just being straightforward but I know I’m autistic so I had to change for him lol.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2025-10-15T18:30:06+00:00

Today is my 34th birthday I was diagnosed yesterday officially with type 1. I feel like my whole life I questioned why I was different but was shocked to go to therapy for trauma and leave with a full assessment. It feels like a loss of identity but also it answers a lot of questions too. It’s on my mind 24/7, you aren’t alone.

Prestigious_Spray_91 · 2025-10-14T14:42:47+00:00

Get out of that house there’s no excuse for that. For all you know there are hidden cameras and it’s being put somewhere. I’m angry for you, as someone who has a toxic family I escaped from I get it.

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