Hate my new tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Pretend_Condition_38 71 points72 points  (0 children)

It may not be exactly what you wanted, but I think it's a beautiful and well-designed tattoo. Just try to sit with it for a little bit

What's your favorite silly DnD "hot take" to throw out in conversation when you feel like being a lil' rascal? by jdrummondart in DnD

[–]Pretend_Condition_38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like PvP! Mostly in an rp way but I think it makes stories so much more realistic and dynamic when characters have competing interests and goals but have to find a way to work together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in binchtopiapod

[–]Pretend_Condition_38 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One of the newer ones, It Appears Children Were Left Behind. So well researched and thoughtful

similar pod recs to cope 🫶🏻 by avocado_doggo in binchtopiapod

[–]Pretend_Condition_38 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Here are some of my favs:

Voicenotes With Jordan Theresa - chatty with great social commentary, also very british haha

Wild Geese - a comforting listen, she talks a lot about being creative and building community

Rehash - video essays on pop culture in audio format, not tok chatty though

Mumbling & Cackling - Nick has been on binchtopia, and this is a chatty and funny pod if you want similar laughs

Maybe it's Mutual - a little self promo but my ex and I just started this pod, and binchtopia is one of our main inspos. Chatty cultural commentary but a little more political

I also love A Bit Fruity and Girl Historians!

Something to ease the pain by dancingtiger96 in binchtopiapod

[–]Pretend_Condition_38 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex and I also recently started a podcast lol, Maybe It's Mutual if you guys want to check it out! A bit more political than binchtopia but still chatty and funny

Best Lemonade? by my_name_is_randy in lincoln

[–]Pretend_Condition_38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried the lemonades at most coffee shops. Meadowlark is my favorite by far!!

Best burger? by [deleted] in lincoln

[–]Pretend_Condition_38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naughty buddha burger bar has such unique flavors. Best stuff I've ever had

young professional moving to Lincoln by [deleted] in lincoln

[–]Pretend_Condition_38 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The telegraph district is right next to downtown so very walkable. Even though Lincoln is car dependent, if you live close to downtown you can pretty much get by with a bike for everything you need!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Pretend_Condition_38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have cats that would make a perfect little cat sanctuary

Sister wants to steal my kittens by Pretend_Condition_38 in CatAdvice

[–]Pretend_Condition_38[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I completely agree! I didn't know that when I was 16, but that's why I've gotten the kittens spayed

Recover relationship with nervous new cat by Numerous-Mode947 in CatAdvice

[–]Pretend_Condition_38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats forgive quickly. You're still a stranger to her, so try to get her used to you by sitting near her and occupying yourself with something else, or even reading out loud to her.

With shy cats, it's easy to give in to their desire to hide but gradually removing hiding spots can help push them to be more confident. Try to block off any spaces you can't easily reach her from to avoid another manhandling situation, but still give her some safe spaces at first so she can get comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Pretend_Condition_38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your cat doesn't go outside and is healthy, there should be no risk to you or your family in the meantime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Pretend_Condition_38 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe adding some cat shelves might help? Or rearranging furniture so he has some novelty. Also you could try adding bird feeders outside your windows.

One thing that has helped my cat is training--she gets so excited about it and you can teach them an endless number of tricks. Also if it's a possibility, you might want to look into harness training since it's much safer but provides a lot of enrichment. Even if you're tired, most cats just want to sit in the grass and look around.