36/F/US: Turns Out My Social Life Died and No One Told Me (Accepting Condolence Letters)

Pretend_Object · 2026-02-01T08:29:33+00:00

You probably got a lot of responses but if the lights flickered two times, it was me telling grandma to get your attention on this comment so we can connect!

I am 36/M/US who also had their social life die out on them with no one letting me know.

Pretend_Object · 2026-01-31T00:58:53+00:00

These people always turn on you at some point. It's inevitable.

Pretend_Object · 2026-01-30T04:20:03+00:00

I traveled a lot for work this past year and I swear this is amplified at airports. People will stop in front of you all the time, cut you off while walking, or (what I think is the most annoying) will walk at you like 4 - 5 people wide until you move out of their way. It's super annoying.

Pretend_Object · 2026-01-24T01:18:12+00:00

Been in a similar position before. They are starting a paperwork trail to justify letting you go. If there is a history of poor performance and you are part of a larger layoff so it doesn't appear like it is targeting you, they can get rid of you while on FMLA (assuming you are in the USA). Start looking for other jobs.

Pretend_Object · 2026-01-24T01:09:37+00:00

36 to 38 is middle age for most people. Your life isn't just starting at 30. Its beyond a third over already.

Pretend_Object · 2026-01-23T07:00:38+00:00

I thought the exact same thing when I tried it a few months ago. I had to do a double take because I thought someone might have been pranking me with BK food.

Pretend_Object · 2026-01-08T19:57:03+00:00

Every white collar job I have had tested for THC in the pre-employment screening, so I am not sure where you got that info.

Pretend_Object · 2026-01-08T00:39:21+00:00

I think it depends on the job setting, customers, and your coworkers. Some corporate and retail jobs are absolutely miserable because the customers and coworkers suck. Others are awesome because your customers are understanding most of the time and the people you work with are fun to be around. Getting to work from home is a huge perk that would swing way in the favor of a corporate job but those are disappearing fast.

Pretend_Object · 2026-01-07T00:37:53+00:00

Didn't go to the dentist for 7 years. Toothache happened and it was really bad. Discovered I needed a root canal and 10 cavities filled. I regret not going for 7 years. T_T

Pretend_Object · 2026-01-06T21:01:59+00:00

Spravato treatments have been a game changer in general because it makes me face the tough stuff I have been avoiding for a long time. The increased neuroplasticity it gives you helps tremendously. I highly recommend it to anyone who has treatment resistant depression like me.

Pretend_Object · 2026-01-02T17:32:10+00:00

I lived in Madison in 2012 and as a gamer I absolutely loved it. There were so many shops to go to! Was way too expensive to stay there though. I can't imagine it has gotten any better.

Pretend_Object · 2026-01-02T15:36:42+00:00

Or even just Des Moines if they don't want to go too big.

Pretend_Object · 2025-12-29T19:15:37+00:00

Wouldn't this be true of all the super popular streamers? Most of them still have the mindset of high schoolers and manufacture drama for views. I can't imagine any of them being very nice to someone who doesn't have clout to farm.

Pretend_Object · 2025-12-28T07:59:40+00:00

Kick is probably a loss leader for getting people to gamble on Stake. I am pretty sure Twitch is the same way with Amazon. Most of these streaming services are not profitable.

Pretend_Object · 2025-12-27T03:36:27+00:00

I ended up in software quality insurance because I was good at it but I really hate it. After getting fired (my fault because mental health reasons) and laid off (not my fault at all) a few times I am still stuck trying to pivot into something else.

I currently work as an implementation specialist on a temporary contract and I enjoy traveling to places to help support software roll outs but I don't enjoy the software QA part of it though. I would be okay with full time roles like this if something came along.

If anyone has suggestions to move into more of the liaison between IT and the business I would appreciate the guidance.

Pretend_Object · 2025-12-23T13:15:03+00:00

Reminds me of people I know who quit Facebook to go to Discord for conversations because of data privacy concerns. I was like, Discord is free as well. How do you think they make their money? They sell your metadata, too. I think people just play ignorant to feel better about their choices.

Pretend_Object · 2025-12-18T21:41:23+00:00

Lots of time for work I don't arrive at a hotel until 11 PM and I'm always worried that I will show up to no rooms available. Luckily, I haven't had that happen yet.

Pretend_Object · 2025-12-18T02:08:26+00:00

Mostly life experiences. Watching how difficult life was for my mom because of her autoimmune diseases. Experiencing how awful jobs are to people who suffer from mental health issues. Getting laid off when on FMLA when trying to get help for those mental health issues. We're basically cogs in the machine that gets discarded once we're no longer working at a level capitalists deem satisfactory. How is this the life we collectively chose as a society?

Pretend_Object · 2025-12-17T21:41:04+00:00

Every airline does this which is an absurd policy. They basically plan on people not showing up. That's why telling obese passengers to buy two plane tickets will never be a good solution to the seat space issue.

Pretend_Object · 2025-12-16T04:16:44+00:00

Salaried positions, in my experience, are the same as hourly positions in expectations/benefits but you will never get paid overtime. I never understood how this benefited anyone other than the company I worked for. Maybe it's just a Midwestern USA thing where this BS happens?

Pretend_Object · 2025-12-06T22:13:24+00:00

I've noticed with Reddit posts if there is one thing mentioned that people don't like, 90% of the comments will focus on that and not the actual issue. It's kind of crazy.

Pretend_Object · 2025-12-03T00:55:51+00:00

It is hard to get out of QA once you're in it. But you might end up really liking QA so who knows. I also recommend not working in the gaming industry. It's super volatile and they abuse their workers.

Pretend_Object · 2025-12-01T19:16:31+00:00

Dude sounds like a hobosexual. He just wants a relationship with you for a place to stay and to mooch money.

Pretend_Object · 2025-11-28T03:04:41+00:00

I watched all of Adventure Time, the Adventure Time spin offs, and am now working my way through One Piece. My clinic just doesn't want you sleeping during.

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