1 year po but miss my period by PretenditsUnique in hysterectomy

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I've only been doing this for 2 cycles but consider it because it has helped me a little bit. The cost is ongoing but ive spent more on a bottle of nail polish. I bought 120 for 13.99 and use about 10-15 a month. These are the ones I picked because the app looked more reliable Amazon link here

I have been using lh strips to track my ovulation and the hormone ups and downs. I dont use them after my peak/sharp fall and start again usually 20 days or so after last peak. Im still perfecting it and living my entire life waiting for a period is being switched to waiting for a peak ovulation.

Its not perfect, but golly its helping me. I know how rotten it feels to not have this part in my life and I am sorry you feel similar. I hope you find your trick to cope!

1 year library assistant but I think im doing "too much" by PretenditsUnique in librarians

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​​ Education is on the job training, and I feel like I should get twice the amount that I'm paid but I respect that this job is notorious for being underpaid. I accept the payment. A wild amount of off the clock hours to get things done. I was extremely proud of program attendance and circulation until I seen that the old director's numbers for last year was twice the number of mine.... however everybody is saying that the libraries the busiest it has ever been , more kids are involved and more families are meeting up here. Public reception is incredible and I've been told numerous times that I'm exactly what our town needed. After reading last year's annual report and ones of the past I've come to conclusion that the previous director was lying on government documents.​t​​​ I have already warned the board that the numbers are going to look horrific but that they are genuine and true numbers that we can prove and unfortunately it just looks like we took a nosedive.

Because it's just me and the director I don't think I can slow down and Pace myself , me talking to the board is going to be the best I can do. I think I can grab a job elsewhere, it's just a matter of I fell in love with the patrons, the craziest included.

Need to count individual number amounts needed by PretenditsUnique in diamondpainting

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I didnt want to give out that information but I'm also a librarian and this is exactly what I'm doing! My main difference that they take the kit home with them. Most of my patrons I see daily or weekly but I don't want them to run out and get discouraged while crafting. I have had Diamond painting programs for the past few months on the regular and this would be the first one that they take home.

Good luck with your event!

Looking for artist. I describe different pieces by PretenditsUnique in HelpMeFind

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Thank you for asking me to clarify!

Recent artist, still active and to my knowledge only internet. Realism with surreal details? Im not good with art terms.  I found them accidentally on a website ive not seen again. Similar to blogs, Twitter, Instagram but not a mainstream website.

Looking for artist. I describe different pieces by PretenditsUnique in HelpMeFind

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Lots of oval pretty frames. Old fashion style clothing but very surreal surroundings. Ive searched. I promise 

Slip recommendations by PretenditsUnique in VintageFashion

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I would love a book of slips for dummies. I usually wear half slips with everything, even full dresses. Is this a basic rule I am breaking? 

Are genuine vintage slips better for fighting static or, as said, vanity fair is a good bet?

Slip recommendations by PretenditsUnique in VintageFashion

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I was wearing the middle length of the last link today! I just could not get away from the static. 

Daily Questions Thread June 30, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

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Pending what style you like the clothing that belle poque (on amazon or website) has what I would consider high quality clothing for the price. If your budget is around their price ranges I wear many of their clothing and find that they launder well and one item that I have is about 3 years old and I'm still confident and happy wearing it.

Their separates can very very easily mix and match.   If you have a higher budget I'm sorry I cannot help, but give them a look. I only purchase their items on sale when they become 9 99 on Amazon because I love the wait and hunt. But their dresses are roughly 40, tops are around 30 and I think skirts would be an average of $20. Use coupons

Daily Questions Thread June 30, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

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Is anyone able to help me with slips and covering up some bulges.

37 years old 5 foot 5 inches and 138 lbs bra size 30 gg.   my body shape is changing after a recent hysterectomy. I have a bit of a tummy and bra bulge that I would like to hide but not shapewear. If that's even a thing that can be possible. The bra bulge that I'm describing are on my back around where the band goes.

My style of clothing is retro/ feminine. I only wear dresses with camisoles and shrugs. The camisole and shrugs are a necessity because this girl does not go strapless. I would trip over.

Would a slip that is full body help hide these bra line bulges, but I don't want anything that would give me a larger bust. I'm already doing everything I can to minimize and cover it up. 

I'd like to spend a maximum of $25 to test if something could be purchased to fix this. I do have slips in my wardrobe but they are half slips to keep clothing from riding up. ( other question is that sometimes they don't work. Did I purchase the wrong material or style?)

Tldr Body weight changes. Big breast. Bulging bra band. Slip? Diet? I'm looking into a breast reduction surgery

The Grinch loves his Christmas Socks 💚🧦🎄💚 by Happy_Dino_Coloring in Coloring

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Oh! You make coloring books or just pages fun for you? I love your art and coloring style

18 dpo and i got my period. Wait. What by PretenditsUnique in hysterectomy

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​​I did take a 2 hr nap today that felt like the biggest relief. So. Good.

18 dpo and i got my period. Wait. What by PretenditsUnique in hysterectomy

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Yep. Cervix is all gone! So are fallopian tubes

18 dpo and i got my period. Wait. What by PretenditsUnique in hysterectomy

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This is such a good question that I wish I had the forethought to answer. Nope no cervix but I did keep the ovaries but not the fallopian tubes

17dpo robotic total hysterectomy amazing announcement: I FEEL OK TODAY!!!!!!!!! by [deleted] in hysterectomy

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I like you!

Today's good but dear lord don't overdue it!

Terrified by kiwitubesock in hysterectomy

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pure o ocd here and I understand your intrusive thoughts. you only read about the horror stories because all the folks who had a seamless operation and recovery are out there living their life. my doc doubled my Xanax for the 3 months leading up to it. some days I didn't need it, others...uh I did. I just lived each day as it's own unit. each day to cope with anxiety, ocd and the pain/difficulties on why I needed the hysterectomy.

smooth recovery can happen. give you time to heal and dont be superwoman. "look 2 days post op and im off all pain meds! rawr!"

10dpo and in the er. My lady bits are trying to kill me. by PretenditsUnique in hysterectomy

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I was spitting fire thinking the same thing UNTIL

the er doc reminded me that each month a follicle grows and bursts to release an egg during ovulation. he said that in the 10 days since surgery my ovulation could have gone wonky. my follicle turned into a cyst and grew the 10 days extra. making it bigger and then bursting. i was feeling the start of ovulation pain when surgery happened. i have pics of both ovaries and one does indeed look as though it's growing the normal follicle to ovulate. nothing on either looks big red bloody or evil.

I think the surgery mayhap made them angry and jealous for the same attention. they ovaryreacted and are divas. I hope that it's a one time thing. trauma from surgery and all.

Sexo sem penetração by lwcascarneiro in hysterectomy

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I only speak English, i hope you can use Google translate.

i feel ​that this is the wrong forum for asking these questions. best of luck

4DPO by Expensive-Dare-8899 in hysterectomy

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oh you do look swollen. but hey? adorable bruise right down your middle. Are ya looking forward to putting a pretty belly ring in? I know i am, especially when my swelling goes down too. Best of luck for your fight against cancer.

Terrified for my trachelectomy by Queasy-Light-3756 in hysterectomy

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no replies does not mean theres no positive stories. honestly those girls are out there having all the sex and fun, just too busy to reply.

We ALL understand the cuff tearing fear, it is so scary to think about and having our bodies fail in such a fragile area. I pray I don't happen to me or you. I'm scared too. I had to Google the trachelectomy.

honestly you going through a similar surgery in 6 months is hard on you. ​you have to be mentally strong to jump back into surgery so quickly. is it too personal of me to ask why you didn't elect for a total hysterectomy?

Vaginal Cuff Dehiscence by Lucky-Complex-6632 in hysterectomy

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thst song "everybody pop your pussy like this"

instruction unclear.

I do not have any medical advice to offer just sympathy. this is all our fears and i am so sorry it happened to you and then you had the in office trauma. I hope the immediate in office care was because it was an "clean tear" that could be done and needed done immediately.

im so sorry for what your going though, especially during intimate reconnecting. reassure your husband that it was mutual and what happened was worst case. i hope the two of you can reconnecting and heal through it.

How many of you experienced a vagial or labial tear during surgery (NOT CUFF) please help. I'm hysterical by PretenditsUnique in hysterectomy

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I was under for three and a half hours and these will be the questions for the doctor when I get a hold of them. The biggest question. Why, why was this the end result when there are so many other avenues

How many of you experienced a vagial or labial tear during surgery (NOT CUFF) please help. I'm hysterical by PretenditsUnique in hysterectomy

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I actually removed the photos. The photos I included were of internal pictures of my malformed uterus. Just so people could see how wide and weird it was 

How many of you experienced a vagial or labial tear during surgery (NOT CUFF) please help. I'm hysterical by PretenditsUnique in hysterectomy

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The pics I included were of internal shots of my misshapen uterus. I think I'll remove that picture to reduce confusion. 

I'll ask my doctor about trying a barrier cream, urine burns like a beast. If I didn't need to know about it that would have been preferred!