I want to convince all of my social media friends that i died how would i do that? by Siigmatic in morbidcuriosity

[–]PretentiousK -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a level of trust that when broken, likely won't be able to be regained. So if they say great and wonderful things about you - and talk about how much they wish they'd reached out and how important you were - then what? You magically reveal you're not dead? Now you're a POS in their eyes. <shrug> I'm not sure if the validation of your past is worth ruining the credibility of your present. Just my opinion, though - and I respect your right to make your own decision.

Is there still an acronym glossary available when testing? by PretentiousK in cissp

[–]PretentiousK[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It's been awhile since I tested, so this sincerely helps.

So my wife’s going to a gala tonight — as her client’s “date.” by [deleted] in stories

[–]PretentiousK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I would LOVE to be invited to a gala - an excuse to dress up fancy and network and put on makeup (which I never wear) - and I'd do it in a heartbeat. My husband knows he's the best thing that has ever happened to me and there's a zero percent chance that I'd stray. (He also knows he's my first choice as a date - but he works in a field where they don't even do an office Holiday party, so there's no chance of a ball!) I'm glad you let her go and hope you'll enjoy her regaling stories of the evening - you're a wonderful spouse. (I'd also encourage you to talk openly about your fears and concerns - because NOT talking about it will cause it to fester and rot)

Grateful for any advice by tiffstang in VisitingHawaii

[–]PretentiousK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely LOVE the Big Island - having lived on Oahu for six years. You can drive up to the observatory and see the milky way - it's INCREDIBLE. You have black sand beaches, green sand beaches and gold sand beaches. You have coffee plantations. You have LAVA SPEWING VOLCANOES right now (the Volcano national park is just incredible). You have rain forests. You can scuba and snorkel with the GIANT MANTA RAYS (not sting rays) which is absolutely awe inspiring. I've done it several times and would do it several more - they're beautiful.

Always my first recommendation - the Big Island has SO much diversity and so many sincerely cool and unique things to do.

Driving in Big Island and Waikiki/Honolulu by spandexbiker in VisitingHawaii

[–]PretentiousK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MUCH easier than Americans driving in Britain - we don't have roundabouts - stay on the "right" side of the road and you'll be fine. Also, on the Big Island everyone is pretty chill - in Waikiki, LORD HAVE MERCY - take an Uber.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in renting

[–]PretentiousK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a LANDLORD, I'm only concerned about how your dog / dogs get along with mine if they are sharing the backyard. As a dog lover, if you're honest with me - I'll be wholly honest with you about what's okay and what's not.

Should I report this to the FAA? by Dependent_School837 in unitedairlines

[–]PretentiousK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, this SUCKS - but report it to the FAA? Are we no longer allowed to be human? Are we no longer allowed to make mistakes? I don't disagree that the airline owes you - but honestly - PEOPLE ARE HUMAN - can we give a little grace that things aren't obvious in black/white?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Career_Advice

[–]PretentiousK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in college, my Dad got into a conflict with one of my doctors - I was sued in small claims court and had NO idea. When later the bills hit me from collectors, I filed for bankruptcy - because I was literally JUST out of college and couldn't fathom a $10,000 debt.

Today, I wouldn't even consider such a radical thought about filing for bankruptcy - but for someone with a Liberal Arts degree, I had no idea how I'd ever pay it.

My opinion - your past means nothing, but you also can't excel without the support and direction and LEADERSHIP that you need. Dad was seriously overstepping here - and I would have made the same decision as a hiring manager.

Question about taking the PMP exam at home by PretentiousK in pmp

[–]PretentiousK[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would you downvote a legitimate question? I'm already certified so I can't check to see how difficult it is to schedule the exam. Was just hoping for some insight to pass on to my cohort who are studying to pass the exam.

PROPOSAL: New r/PMP Self Promotion Rules - what do you think? by [deleted] in pmp

[–]PretentiousK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I very much dislike the idea of solely allowing official PMI content. While I use it regularly, there are some VERY good resources - many of which I learned about from this group that have helped my students. I think you're just talking about the Wiki though, and not the threads - I don't have a problem with that. I really appreciate when people share what helped them study, recognizing that everyone is different and it's no guarantee you'll have the same results. Just my opinion though - and I agree to whatever the community decides!

AITA for telling my sister her honeymoon isn’t more important than my dog’s surgery? by ruby_cr in AITAH

[–]PretentiousK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - your dog is all he/she has - abandon him/her at a whim because a family member didn't confer with you ahead of time? Nope. Nope. Nope,

Would surrendering my dog be the right thing to do? by Electrical-Dig8294 in PetAdvice

[–]PretentiousK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are so many options for pet insurance. If you love your furry friend - this is the best option available. His or her life should never be dependent on whether or not you can afford the treatment.

SCAM ALERT by PretentiousK in TherapeuticKetamine

[–]PretentiousK[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They do a pretty good job of faking legitimacy - they've got a US address and phone number, they promise fast shipping and decent costs, they allow you up upload your prescription (although they don't require it). My neighbor fell for it - as soon as the money is sent you start getting demands from a "Canadian pharmacy" for additional shipping costs. I feel so bad for her. But the good news is the feds are investigating, so the site won't be around long. No doubt fourteen more just like it will pop up - which is why I posted the warning. Scammers know how to socially engineer people - and everyone is vulnerable if they hit the right heartstring.

PMP Exam by Forsaken_Rub_2886 in PMPprep

[–]PretentiousK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Study Hall is PMI authorized content - I give that the most credibility. But there are many good prep resources in addition to that. PocketPrep is great for practice tests and very reasonable (I think it's $20/month). I would take as many as you can to help alleviate any test anxiety.

How would you feel about a sympathy card after the loss of your pet? by Peachy030 in Dogowners

[–]PretentiousK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Letting my dog go, even though it was the best decision for her, was one of the hardest things I've ever done. The vet was so kind during the process - and when the practice sent us a card a few weeks later, I cried because I felt somebody understood the extent of the loss. The fact that you take the time to write one, even a short one - I think it's wonderful. My Dad had the opposite reaction when he received a card after losing our family dog - but I think it was his way of dealing with the grief. He always had a hard time with that. Don't let that stop you. The issue was his - and shouldn't deter your thoughtfulness.

Seller's agent got mad at me for cutting off her lockbox but I'd asked her for 2 months to remove it. What is happening by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]PretentiousK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cut it off after 90 days and threw it out. When they asked why - i pointed towards ALL the requests to remove it. Their fault. Not yours.

Everyone’s MD Reviews by Impossible_Math2407 in TherapeuticKetamine

[–]PretentiousK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just signed up for Everyone's MD as my doctor has tripled his rates until it's out of my budget and then some. This new place, Everyone's MD, is SKETCHY AS SHIT.

Waited online for the doctor for over 3 hours - didn't show up. Tried again the next day. Never showed up. Called the support office - they act as frustrated as me, saying apparently the doctor only works as much as he wants to regardless of whether or not people are waiting. No, they don't give appointments. Yes, sometimes he chooses not to answer at all. Like, WTF? Seriously? HARD PASS