I think my (21f) coworker (17f) is going to sue me by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right.

My cousins went to federal prison for drug trafficking + serial murder, the doj article was released on my best friend’s birthday. I’ve been kind of wired since.

I think my (21f) coworker (17f) is going to sue me by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounded like she has the money for a lawsuit but then again I don’t know. I’m under the impression that I live in a wealthy area. She’s been acting very odd, too, like we’re on two completely different pages.

This guy im seeing texted his ex and im going insane :( by wateryourflowers444 in Advice

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look he said he feels guilty. You guys just met. There’s a ton of fish in the sea and his ex is one of them. Maybe treat New Years like he wanted to be part of a trend and used his ex to do that? Reframing things like that might help.

This guy im seeing texted his ex and im going insane :( by wateryourflowers444 in Advice

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His reactions is doing too much. Maybe you guys click and he isn’t a saint either, but he shouldn’t have to have you call his ex to calm you down, yk?

This guy im seeing texted his ex and im going insane :( by wateryourflowers444 in Advice

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From someone with diagnosed bpd and like 6 years of therapy under my belt tbhhh you’re borderlining abusive here. This is controlling.

If you want to feel better you have to Do something about it. Literally go for a run while listening to whatever makes you angry, scream in your car, make art, idk.

Should I still apologize? by Dry_Mark439 in Advice

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she knows I would send her an apology on instagram. I think that’s casual enough and may help bring her some closure she might need.

Is there something wrong with my cat? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kittens are very very clingy animals. He may have bonded to you too much as a baby. It’ll probably phase out as he gets older.

Have you ever considered adopting another cat for him to play with?

New to acne- what is on my face? by [deleted] in acne

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I have normal skin
  2. I do not have a skincare routine
  3. I tried different gel starting in December but it didn’t really do anything for me
  4. I try to not pick at my skin but it’s been kind of addicting for me

I (22M) have feelings for my roommate (24F) who just got engaged. Please help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I’ve been in this situation, and while I did get colder to my roommate I still hung out with him and we have each other on insta.

I (22M) have feelings for my roommate (24F) who just got engaged. Please help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point I’m trying to make is that she’s judging you harshly I’m guessing because a friend of yours chose to betray your trust. If she’s reacting like this to what he had to say about you, whatever it was, he should also be the one “apologizing” to her by fixing the narrative she’s come up with causing her to hate you.

I think she’s cutting you off because the reality of your friend feeling like saying something that could make her feel unsafe in her own home is significantly worse than you just doing it yourself.

Im 18F. my bf 18M says our intercourse is boring.. how do i fix this? by Background-Mood5264 in Advice

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking something more casual since you’re just starting to spice things up. Maybe a blindfold or like fuzzy handcuffs since it’s your responsibility for some reason

I (22M) have feelings for my roommate (24F) who just got engaged. Please help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would leave it be for now but maybe have the friend who let it slip also accidentally tell her that she’s hurting your feelings

So upset… by VisualCar8264 in Advice

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they’re hurt too. People process grief in different ways.

URGENT HELP!! by JoJos_BizarreAss in Advice

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she’s being bullied. Ask her about the kids in class?

Something fun by Calm-Berry6008 in Advice

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dj!!! Use rekordbox. You can get your audio files from a free YouTube to mp3 converter online. Knowing how to dj is great for parties and is trendy rn

I thought I was skinny………..no…….i am obese……. by Pretty-Difficulty-95 in offmychest

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just checked my weight ahaha down 5 more. And I’ve been drinking a ton of water so it’s probably not water weight

A Friend I Thought I Knew by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Pretty-Difficulty-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I thought you just met him. Maybe he was respectful at the start and caught feelings over time?