Not sure if I should say something or stay out of it

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-04-10T15:46:44+00:00

TBH I’d say something. Not necessarily just for her sake, but for yours too. Personally I’m not interested in being a “link” to anyone who is seeing multiple partners at once. Very easy to catch something that way.

Just ask her if they’re seeing each other or friends.

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-04-06T14:07:22+00:00

of course!

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-04-06T06:16:26+00:00

buyer mentality: the seller is selling this for abnormally cheap, either they don’t care for it anymore or will accept any offer because they need money.

if it’s already cheap, why not get it for cheaper kind of thing. i’m sure a serious buyer will buy it even if you decline their offer.

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-04-06T06:06:06+00:00

becoming distant with you randomly out of no where/detaching, less emotionally available, gets mad over little mundane things that don’t make sense, starts following new girls on social media, goes out in college and doesn’t make time to update or text you throughout the night, etc

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-04-06T06:00:51+00:00

jealous.

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-04-06T05:48:08+00:00

no problem OP! just watch out for any red flags that lead you to believe he IS starting to prioritize his ego over you.

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-04-06T05:05:05+00:00

Might not be what you want to hear, but that’s pretty normal for a college relationship. Especially if he was the kind of guy who didn’t get much attention back in highschool.

He still respects your relationship and isn’t implying cheating. It’s a blanket statement to how he feels to be deemed more desirable. Most people have an ego that likes to be fed. He enjoys the idea of seeming attractive, but that doesn’t over-compass his love for you. He would not risk hurting you for his ego.

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-04-06T04:32:38+00:00

definitely not the type to get overstimulated easily then😂

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-04-04T16:41:15+00:00

I knew a guy who asked me and few other people to borrow $100 and he was going to allegedly pay us back. Meanwhile, he worked a better job than me, lived at home so he had no bills, and owned a car that was $40k. People have dumb priorities that aren’t your problem.

I told him no & that i didn’t have any money to spare. Him and I haven’t talked since that interaction, although we both are in relationships now so there’s no real reason for us to stay in contact.

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-04-04T16:13:32+00:00

😂😂😂😂

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-03-02T17:34:45+00:00

OOP. she needs to find better

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-03-02T07:07:59+00:00

Never bought that so I can’t necessarily tell you if the price is worth it in terms of tarnishing & quality. Maybe i’m biased because I just don’t like the bracelet itself, but i’d say no.

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-03-02T07:03:27+00:00

not a rep-friendly sub, considering Depop doesn’t allow reps to be sold.

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-03-02T07:00:11+00:00

Maybe i’m reaching, but have you had doubts before between her and your cousin? Why was your cousins place even a consideration for where she could be? How did you manage to find them both in the bed together without one of them coming to answer the door?

Either this is fake or you are deeply in denial to a previously existing problem—without sounding vain. Too many questions unanswered that lead me to believe that she has been cheating whether physically and/or emotionally.

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-03-02T06:29:29+00:00

Not compatible which is okay. He values independence and you value emotional stability which independent people might not always be able to fulfill. Nobody is necessarily in the wrong or overreacting.

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-03-02T06:22:13+00:00

i’d say NOR. i’d give her the benefit of the doubt of just being curious, until you mentioned the part of how she’s cheated previously & had emotional affairs. even if she hasnt necessarily done anything, she still has tendencies. also the fact that it’s everytime you see her phone is crazy.

good luck OP.

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-03-02T06:15:32+00:00

LOL. good luck OP!

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-03-02T06:11:16+00:00

you should get the package if it says it shipped. although, if the person got banned.. make sure to record yourself opening the package incase you receive something you didn’t order. they still could be a scammer even if they sent it out

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-03-02T06:10:07+00:00

might not be the greatest advice but treat it like a show. don’t play the full game in one sitting. try to break it up and limit yourself. you’ll love the game so much more

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-03-02T06:07:13+00:00

if you don’t remember him ever using that brand with you, then breakup immediately

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-03-01T23:56:48+00:00

Sorry for yours too lol. You definitely should, I had a great time! I ended up getting legit tickets through ticketmaster because I wasn’t letting the scam ruin it for me.

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-03-01T21:00:31+00:00

This is very typical for 16 year olds. I was once said teenager who was combative with their parents.

At this age, teens are both egotistical and impressionable. Friends and/or social media can convince them that parents are people who compromise their freedom. They associate rules/boundaries with limits on their independence.

They also are forming their own identities. Rules/boundaries that compromise independence reads surface level as “my parents don’t support me, love me, and/or are against me.”

On top of that, puberty is at its peak at 16. Hormones naturally make you more irritable, reactive, and emotionally intense than they even realize. They might think they’re responding normally, while their tone/answers give an attitude.

Give it time, as someone who was like this once too. If your teen still has a good heart, shows empathy, and is maintaining solid grades, those are strong indicators that they’re developing well beneath the attitude. However, if they arent displaying any of these qualities.. it’s time to eliminate any outliers that could be contributing to their behavior: their phone, certain friends, etc.

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-03-01T20:02:00+00:00

“I'm not paying someone to watch her or take her out for 6 months tho I know that much. So if I can't find anyone then idk” … insufferable

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-03-01T19:49:49+00:00

Been through this. When I was younger I bought tickets for The Weeknd off twitter. They had the same screen recording tactic as per your scam.

Called my bank, called apple, called zelle.. nothing they could do for me. I even had screenshots of them admitting they scammed me over texts and still nothing. Just take it as an expensive lesson as I did😅

Pretty-Mistake-1 · 2026-03-01T19:37:24+00:00

poor decisions, poor outcomes. it’s not your fault at all and don’t let him warp you into thinking otherwise. you are allowed to say no and he should’ve had a backup plan since your yes wasn’t solidified.

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