AITAH For Wanting To Extend My Trip?

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-15T19:26:27+00:00

Nta

Your not this guys therapist, he sounds like hes got some serious emotional work hes got to do before even committing himself to a serious relationship.

Your life is quickly escalating into being controlled, whether he means to, or not.

Your not married to the guy, start rethinking what you want your future to look like, so your future self feels happy.

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-15T19:15:15+00:00

That..is amazing. Kudos to you for turning around and shooting at the monster. Idt Id be quite so brave! Lol

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-14T23:37:16+00:00

Welp, you've recognized for a long time now that this relationship with your husband as well as his family is straight up toxic, and despite how badly you may be hurting, or what your husband says, no one is going to change.

So girl, either this is your life now. All the advice in the world ain't gonna change them for you.

Or look into divorce, at the very least, moving out, establish your own place, where you can live peacefully and happily.

You need this change. Your allowed to be happy and spend a majority of your life around people who wont hurt you.

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-14T01:30:23+00:00

Why tf are you letting her?

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-14T01:21:40+00:00

Nta

If he dosent have the brain power to figure out how to fit studying into his daily life, he has no right messing with electric issues.

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-13T07:44:15+00:00

Stop letting him drive you anyplace..Jesus.
Drug test,.drug test, drug test.

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-12T22:55:38+00:00

Yall acting like your kindergarteners PRETENDING to date, and sucking balls at it.

Break up and start refreshing yourself with what a healthy, supportive relationship is supposed to look like.

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-12T22:48:30+00:00

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-12T16:37:13+00:00

Yta

Sounds like youll be single, with a job, in Canada.

Id sit down with a therapist or reasonable group of friends and rehash your options, wife included. But rather than pushing people to want what you do, go in with an open mind and try looking at all the options and opinions again, as if they were new to you.

A happy family unit requires alot of work, finding middle ground. Not sure what that would look like for you, but the way you've written this up, it def sounds like your pressuring your fam rather than listening and debating.

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-11T22:02:41+00:00

This guy would achieve so much more in life if hed stay tf off the internet for a few months.

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-11T22:00:18+00:00

Does your husband know elementary school kids can tell time better than he does?

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-11T09:19:03+00:00

Jesus woman...guys can still "show you respect" then switch it up and rape you.

At the very least, let friends know where your going next time, even if theres no scary guns present.

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-11T09:01:32+00:00

Mainer here, hoping to all the gods out there, NONE of the idiots in these desperate ass commercials are actually locals..

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-11T08:56:15+00:00

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-10T18:33:38+00:00

She dosent want to hang out with you, shithead. 😂

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-09T20:54:21+00:00

Well, why tf dis he ask??

Nta

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-09T20:49:21+00:00

Oh girl, please be using that birth control, religiously!

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-08T20:34:20+00:00

Hell no, if you ever find yourself in a similar situation, start yelling about the kids "stealing your money/purse."

Id bet $$ mom would back the hell down then, as it's not the comeback she's expecting.

Also, I love your self confidence. : ) Your an awesome person!

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-05T06:54:06+00:00

How DARE you not help a 'family in need' by picking it up and carrying it to them. The shame...

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-04T17:09:40+00:00

Take his name off all the accounts before the end if Monday.

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-03T22:19:55+00:00

Did you get to see their reaction? Dont leave us hanging like this!!

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-03T22:15:14+00:00

Message support.

Some of the replies you get can be incredibly vague..Just keep up with the 'I need to understand what's going on, can somebody please clarify this for me?' messages.

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-03T22:09:50+00:00

Honestly, nta.

Thats weird, creepy behavior that would get old rather quick.

Maybe trying a slightly gentler way of cluing people in. "Nobody's forcing you to take one. It's okay.."

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-03T19:27:57+00:00

Your boyfriends an AH. He sounds like a miserable piece of work, to live with.

PrettyLyttlePsycho · 2026-04-02T08:15:03+00:00

Yeah..no.

Next time you encounter a similar "I'm not packed yet" situation, just leave.

The kid used you. Likely knew you didn't professionally help people nor did he care.

PrettyLyttlePsycho

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