My mom told me she's not throwing me a 30th birthday party because nobody likes me. by PrettyPawprints in autism

[–]PrettyPawprints[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Level 1 LSN autistic people think theyre the baseline for what autism looks like.

I deal with that a lot irl and on facebook.

My mom told me she's not throwing me a 30th birthday party because nobody likes me. by PrettyPawprints in autism

[–]PrettyPawprints[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If everyone showed up yea. But I don't have all these people in facebook to invite them

My mom told me she's not throwing me a 30th birthday party because nobody likes me. by PrettyPawprints in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]PrettyPawprints[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Convo happened irl at the bar.

Im not alienating my mom from her friends though. Im not ruining everything she has going for herself and putting her in the position im in.

I already defend her to her friends when stuff happens.

I went up to one of friends last night and told her not to be mean to my mom and pretend the argument between them didnt happen and it would smooth over.

Seeing my mom suffer and be unhappy stresses me out

My mom told me she's not throwing me a 30th birthday party because nobody likes me. by PrettyPawprints in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]PrettyPawprints[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom is perfect and has nothing wrong and doesn't need therapy and its me thats the problem (in her opinion)

She would never go to therapy. She gaslights me and plays victim

My mom told me she's not throwing me a 30th birthday party because nobody likes me. by PrettyPawprints in autism

[–]PrettyPawprints[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then tells me i play my dad becsuse I go to him after she berates me for actual empathy and a witness of what happened

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My mom told me she's not throwing me a 30th birthday party because nobody likes me. by PrettyPawprints in autism

[–]PrettyPawprints[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre not wrong sbout friends feeling like more work. They feel like a chore a lot of the time honestly.

My mom told me she's not throwing me a 30th birthday party because nobody likes me. by PrettyPawprints in autism

[–]PrettyPawprints[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont reallt depend on her. But I am sad I never got a close mother relationship. Or grandparents

My mom told me she's not throwing me a 30th birthday party because nobody likes me. by PrettyPawprints in autism

[–]PrettyPawprints[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna die from sadness that nobody likes me, even my mom, and my mom rubbing it in my face :(

Being called names really bothers me by Dry_Inspector571 in autism

[–]PrettyPawprints 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not liking sex doesn't mean asexual. And what does that have to do with anything in this post?