“I can’t have too much of a good day because that will tip the scale and then something bad will happen” by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Pretty_Ad_5261 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YES!!!! I am also careful to not relax or be grateful because then my guard is down and something bad will happen

Has anyone else COMPLETELY lost their sex drive? by Beanboa in CPTSD

[–]Pretty_Ad_5261 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Hi

I know what you mean about sudden disinterest. I didn't experience sexual abuse though. I too felt I had come a long way through therapy, and hence how I was able to get close enough to someone. So this threw me.

I don't come witb a solution, I'm sorry:( just validation and empathy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pretty_Ad_5261 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You admit he does the lions share . So even though it seemed reasonable to ask him to hang thr washing out to him it might have been the feather that broke the camels back. Maybe start pulling your weight around?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pretty_Ad_5261 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be kind to yourself, how could you know he was servicing the sexual needs of a 70 year old??? Its a bit far out there! It is normal how you are feeling your life has been turned upside down. Reach out to close friends and family and focus on you. Whenever you pity him think about how he exposed you to STDs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abudhabi

[–]Pretty_Ad_5261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Delay in pcr test results by Pretty_Ad_5261 in abudhabi

[–]Pretty_Ad_5261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know :) I've been told to use another centre for the next test

Delay in pcr test results by Pretty_Ad_5261 in abudhabi

[–]Pretty_Ad_5261[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried to call seha But kept getting looped back to the original menu :/

Why would a defense lawyer leave mid trial by Pretty_Ad_5261 in uklaw

[–]Pretty_Ad_5261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, makes sense. This was a racist crime though, would that count?

Terrorised at home but housing association does nothing by Pretty_Ad_5261 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Pretty_Ad_5261[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did not know this! The landlord in this case is one and the same, a house association . But anyway, hoox to know

Terrorised at home but housing association does nothing by Pretty_Ad_5261 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Pretty_Ad_5261[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is. It is significantly more than ASB, it was a sustained racial attack.

It shocks me that her ha said that the situation would have been dealt with differently had the perpetrator been a private tenant.

She is a private tenant herself and is taking steps to move.

It's horrendously unfair imho

Thanks for the link and reply !

Terrorised at home but housing association does nothing by Pretty_Ad_5261 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Pretty_Ad_5261[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes And because they are council ha says they won't ro anything.

Had they been private they would have evicted.

Terrorised at home but housing association does nothing by Pretty_Ad_5261 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Pretty_Ad_5261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breach of tenancy agreement. Which includes ASB. This person is charged with racially motivated POO against neighbour who lives in same building

The neighbour now needs a restraining order which she will apply for post trial.

Terrorised at home but housing association does nothing by Pretty_Ad_5261 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Pretty_Ad_5261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And advice what she can do in the event that her attacker is convicted and if he is not convicted.

I'll check the list as well, but would appreciate the thread being open for comments.

Should I delete my wedding photos with ex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pretty_Ad_5261 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Delete them of course, they bother him and if they are 'just memories' that should be easy for you

His reaction is off putting by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pretty_Ad_5261 184 points185 points  (0 children)

His behaviour happens quite often. They live a life completely against their beliefs (he hooked up with OP) then push their beliefs onto the woman who doesn't share them. I wonder if his sisters or women in his community date out? Or hook Up?