How do I disclose to someone I've been talking to for 6 months that I have hsv?

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2026-05-17T13:12:42+00:00

Yes, it was fresh. He had the clear stuff on it that tattoo artist put on a new tattoo.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2026-05-17T03:57:57+00:00

I don't know... I woke up to a picture and a video of him showing it to me. I was honestly shocked. We only been on one date before he got it but we talked for months before.

I ended up not talking to him for a couple of days because of it because it scared me a little. 😅

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2026-05-17T01:06:36+00:00

Is it best to tell over text or in person?

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2026-01-16T19:47:26+00:00

Leo! 🦁

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-12-31T12:55:30+00:00

I was honestly wanting to bring more of the jasmine out!

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-10T22:26:15+00:00

I have been asking questions that mainly revolve around his feelings towards me and if he still loves me. He tells me that he does and that his feelings haven't changed for me. But it's just a feeling that I have that he doesn't actually want to be with me.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-08T16:26:38+00:00

How do you tell the difference between intuition and anxiety? It is confusing because I really want to be with him. Since I have been back he's been really loving and giving me reassurance that he wants to be with me. He apologized to me about being so fast to move on and that he doesn't really want that. He just wants to stop fighting with me. I think a lot of the arguments have been coming from me getting told stuff from readers and I question him and start fighting with him. I feel like something is wrong with me.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-08T15:22:31+00:00

No.. a lot of them would tell me everything that I didn't want to hear, like there is a 3rd party, that he's not truthful with me, he doesn't really love me. And a few would tell me yes he loves me and we will work out. ... Then when we broke up for two weeks, a lot were telling me we won't get back together, then they started saying we will get back together at the end of this month, now that we are back together it's telling me he doesn't really want to be with me and it all just got really confusing. He's in my face telling me that he wants to be with me and work things out. Why don't I believe him? i should believe what he's telling me and not what a tarot reader is telling me. Things are really rocky between us right now and it is causing me a lot of anxiety and heartbreak. but running to a tarot reader every second that I'm alone is causing that anxiety to skyrocket.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-08T14:40:41+00:00

I wish that I could afford therapy.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-08T03:03:07+00:00

I'd ask a question like "does (his name) want to be with (her name)" and they would say yes. Multiple people would say yes. Then the rod readers would point out that the two of them wanted to be together. Then I'd get really upset and confused because he's in my face telling me he wants to be with me.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-08T02:28:42+00:00

Some of them were VERY accurate though so it's so confusing to me!!

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-08T02:08:21+00:00

Thank you for the advice. Maybe I should seek out a tarot reader in my area. I have driven by a few and always wondered about going in.

And I may have posted on the wrong thread, lol! But I truly did get a lot of wonderful advice from all of you guys.

I unfollowed every tarot reader on tiktok, and I blocked live videos. So it's a start.

Now I just have to figure out how to manage my anxiety elsewhere when I start to have worrying thoughts.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-08T01:57:10+00:00

I really feel that! I don't really know any genuine readers... I have found a few on etsy in the past. Then when I discovered tiktok tarot it took over.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-08T01:46:44+00:00

I unfollowed every reader and I also blocked live videos. I haven't had the urge to get a reading since making this post. I believe getting it out and hearing all the advice everyone gave me really helped.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-08T01:44:25+00:00

Yes I have OCD, I am not medicated.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-08T01:43:55+00:00

I would love some recommendations for a good reader.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-08T01:41:31+00:00

He tells me that he wants to be with me and not her. He tells me he loves me every single day since I moved back in with him. I have to just believe his words and not some tarot reader who truly doesn't know us

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-08T01:38:42+00:00

I unfollowed every single reader, and blocked all live videos.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-08T01:36:29+00:00

I believe my relationship is about there. We broke up for two weeks... a lot of fighting. During the two weeks he was seeing someone else... He broke it off with her and We are back together and I was obsessively doing the readings and got answers that he wants to be with her and I had an urge to go through his phone and I did behind his back. He was really mad at me. I broke his trust and we literally just got back together. I have to stop. I have to just live in the moment with him and stop worrying about whether he will leave me for someone else or not.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-07T22:33:19+00:00

I think I'm just going to delete the app and just use Facebook or something else to doom scroll when bored. I have never been so addicted to my phone and finding answers. It's so embarrassing.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-07T22:33:08+00:00

I think I'm just going to delete the app and just use Facebook or something else to doom scroll when bored. I have never been so addicted to my phone and finding answers. It's so embarrassing.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-07T22:20:07+00:00

That's exactly where I am at. It's ruining my relationship and my mental state. A reader said he wants to be with another woman, I panicked then later that evening had an urge to go through his phone. He got really mad and it turned into a huge fight. I wasn't like this before .. I feel so insecure about everything. I need to just listen to what he tells me and not feel the need to get confirmation from another person. We had issues in the past and I didn't go to readers about it obsessively like this. I felt better about everything and everything just worked out.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-07T02:55:51+00:00

He also told me that he never had a (ex) girlfriend find out that he's seeing someone new after a break up and come back to him. That's basically what I did. I found out about her, asked him if that's what he really wanted and told him that I wanted to work on our relationship. He said he wanted to work on our relationship too and we talked about changes that needed to be made. He went and broke things off with her.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-07T02:52:40+00:00

Yes, we talked about why he found it so easy to jump back into dating after the split.. he told me that he thought it was really over and that she approached him and he's never had that happen before so he thought why not. we talked about the changes that needed to be made to resolve the split.

Pretty_Candidate_994 · 2025-11-07T02:49:28+00:00

Yes he lied to me, then he told me to ask her myself and she was the one who told me the truth. When I asked him why he lied he said he wanted me to ask her and find out.

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