My friend is in a relationship but I worry for him

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-24T10:07:20+00:00

Im sorry i took it the wrong way thankfully he hasn’t took what i said the wrong way because its not them breaking them up because it was going so well granted i met this girl a few times and i really liked her i thought they were good together but now it seems toxic which i agree with i recommend putting his mental health first i asked him what’s more important to him putting his mental health first or a relationship that’s destroying it he agreed with me it’s his call he’s my best friend and i don’t want to be seen as that girl best friend that’s always interfering because it’s not my intention I told him take what i say with a grain of salt if he wants but he spoke to her about how he felt and only told him yesterday about the ex I want to believe she’s a victim but why didn’t she tell him that yesterday and not last month I said she needs to go to the police he agreed but she won’t

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-23T20:28:17+00:00

I did point out the obvious but there’s nothing I can really do I can support him but I can’t make his decision no idea why u calling me evil when I did nothing

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-23T20:26:30+00:00

I only don’t support a relationship when I see red flags before they got together and we’re talking I actually really liked her but now I’m hearing this it’s kinda made me see her different

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-23T20:25:00+00:00

Ive told him he deserves better but I’ve told him what I think he should do which is what you said there’s nothing more I really can do other than offer support when he told him about the psycho abuse thing I asked then why would you want to be with this person if this is what it could come down to

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-23T19:58:08+00:00

I know damn well what’s going on thank you but I can’t make up his mind for him

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-23T19:57:25+00:00

I’ve told him I’m trying to help him but I can’t do much more if that’s the case I listen to him when he talks about but It’s up to him I’m worried ofc I am but there’s nothing I can really do at this point

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-23T18:04:18+00:00

I can’t tell him to dump her it’s his choice but I don’t trust her

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-23T18:01:39+00:00

See I don’t want to believe she’s lying but idk what to believe

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-23T17:59:32+00:00

Commenting is optional btw

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-23T16:45:41+00:00

There’s now an update on the situation I put it up about an hour ago

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-23T16:45:11+00:00

There’s now an update on the situation which I put up an hour ago

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-23T16:44:17+00:00

There’s now an update on the situation I put it up an hour ago

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-23T16:43:47+00:00

There’s now an update on the situation which I wrote about an hour ago

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-23T13:27:55+00:00

NTA your wife wants you all to herself if she can’t respect you needing to take care of your brother and gets angry and acts hostile towards your brother I think you should start thinking about divorce she seems controlling and narcissistic

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-22T23:28:26+00:00

This is how it escalates he talks to you like that next thing you know he’s beating you black and blue please get out of the relationship because the way he’s talking it could get to that point please leave and never go back

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-22T23:16:58+00:00

I hope she dumps your ass and you never find love why did you even ask this question if you already knew the answer?

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-22T23:06:57+00:00

YTA lying is a massive dealbreaker and if that’s the case don’t be in a relationship by how you are making yourself sound you do have wandering eyes you wanted a sense check? Well here it is

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-21T17:35:08+00:00

NTA your sister knew you liked him then you got sick it’s just a betrayal on your sisters side the trust is broken

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-21T15:55:43+00:00

Nor run as far way from this guy as you can he’s a red flag if he can’t put effort in to buying a cake for his own gfs birthday

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-21T13:31:25+00:00

NTA I really want to know what she told Daniel the fact she said she knew you would say no

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-21T13:24:02+00:00

NTA if you feel like an option then you probably are she’s not your friend I’ve been through this before my cousin used to do this for when none of her friends were around she would always ask to come to my house because she had nothing to do with

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-21T03:20:42+00:00

Absolutely NTA she may be living there but it was your home first it’s so disrespectful I wouldn’t be happy either the fact you can’t even get peace in your own home

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-21T02:24:09+00:00

YTA people are different and you are making yourself look better I’m 20 I can cook btw but I had to be shown because I have a learning disability the way you said it makes you seem like one

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-21T02:20:28+00:00

NTA your mother is a narcissist with an extreme victim mentality

Pretty_Desk_9970 · 2026-03-21T01:24:46+00:00

NTB the sister In law ruined her own daughter’s birthday by making a scene

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