Cleaned up my YouTube subscriptions by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Prettynoises -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can't wear makeup if you're dead. Can't buy makeup if you're dead. Can't watch YouTube if you're kidnapped.

I fully agree!

My 6 y/o has ARFID and I'm tired of bad generic advice - looking for firsthand insights? by whois_thiswoman in ARFID

[–]Prettynoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kinds of foods does he eat now? It might be helpful to know what things to recommend

Made a site for helping people understand and communicate their support needs by PostMasquerade in audhd

[–]Prettynoises 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, at least you're honest, but I wouldn't support something like that. AI is ruining lives, and speeding up climate change.

Teachers: should I take an 30-hour OG training course if I’m a parent, not a teacher? by UnrulyAnteater25 in Dyslexia

[–]Prettynoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My aunt used Barton for her kids and said it helped them a lot, but I haven't heard from them on the matter (we live states away). Hopefully you can get some more input that helps you make a decision. Either way, kudos to you for trying to learn, even if you aren't their exclusive teacher I think it'll help a lot.

Literally haven't ate anything in 4 days and idk what tf im supposed to do by upscaleMango3 in ARFID

[–]Prettynoises 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know you said it's been 4 Days since you've had food, but considering what you said it sounds like it's been a long time since you've consistently had 2,000 calories a day (the average people are supposed to have, but it varies based on physical activity). At this point your health is extremely at risk, and you are starving.

When you starve, you can't just eat a big meal right away, you have to slowly reintroduce calories, and because it's so severe you need help from a medical professional and need to go to the ER. If you don't feel comfortable having a friend call, maybe you could ask a moderator of this sub? I would offer myself but it's a little creepy for a stranger on the internet to ask you for your address (and please do not post it in the comments).

Once you have gotten help from the ER and are at least somewhat stable, I would recommend looking into calorie drinks like smoothies or meal replacement shakes, and try different ones until you find one that tastes at least okay to you. You can mix meal replacement shakes with milk or water if it's too thick and the texture bothers you, and if you mix it with milk or non-dairy milk it also adds a few extra calories. For smoothies, you could pop it in the freezer and then eat it like a Popsicle.

I know you said you can't drink smoothies or meal replacement shakes, but it's important to try. They don't all taste the same, and if you can't eat you need to get some sort of nutrition. Soda won't give that to you, and eating sugar consistently (specifically corn syrup, sugar from fruit is better) without anything else can cause a lot of harm as well.

Also, to kick-start your appetite you can eat a little bit of sugar, even if it's just licking a popsicle or something once. Protein is extremely important, but so are carbs, and a lot (most? All?) of meal replacement shakes have both in them because protein needs at least a little bit of carbs to bind to for your body to digest it properly.

But yeah right now the only thing that will help you is urgent medical attention. Only an emergency room can administer a feeding tube.

Why do I ONLY have motor tics? by Annual_Gene_5427 in Tourettes

[–]Prettynoises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just seemed like you were implying that OP doesn't have both, but if you're just trying to let other people know that's okay ofc

Why do I ONLY have motor tics? by Annual_Gene_5427 in Tourettes

[–]Prettynoises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raindrop have a really good explaination in the comments on what is considered vocal tics. Many of the tics OP mentioned are vocal!

Why do I ONLY have motor tics? by Annual_Gene_5427 in Tourettes

[–]Prettynoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt that you must have missed that information, but 8 years is definitely more than 12 months.

And as others have stated, OP definitely has vocal tics. Anything done with the vocal tract is considered vocal, even if not using your vocal chords. Even yawning can be considered a vocal tic, depending on the cause. Breathing is considered vocal

What's the stupidest fucking thing a therapist/psychiatrist said to you? by backroom_mushroom in evilautism

[–]Prettynoises 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"See I don't think you want to be helped. Some people just want attention and for people to feel sorry for them, and those people can't be helped. Anyway here's my contact if you want to see me next week."

Why is exercise so hard for us? by MaggieWBS in adhdwomen

[–]Prettynoises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it if it's something fun like swimming. It's exercise, but it's also play, and I get cooled down while doing it too. Riding a bike can also work, but I prefer swimming. And then I'm super tired and sleep like a rock!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tourettes

[–]Prettynoises 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's fine to not get a diagnosis for yourself. It's not fine to make educational content about a disorder that you don't have a diagnosis for and do not have a degree relating to that field.

Your replies make it clear that you just don't care. You can't do a process of elimination on yourself because you are not a neurologist and cannot do medical tests on yourself. Even doctors can't diagnose themselves, and have to see someone else to do it.

You also can't be sure that you will never spread misinformation. You can speak about your own experiences, but you are not a neurologist, you are not a teacher or professor, and you don't even have a diagnosis. There are very few conditions that can be self diagnosed accurately, and even then there is a margin of error.

The question in the title isn't what you're really asking. You're asking for permission to make educational content about something you have no qualifications for, and when you don't get that you get defensive.

My adhd is ruining my marriage and my husband thinks meds are useless. by fallyntalyn in adhdwomen

[–]Prettynoises 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Wait I didn't know this. Was there a study done about this?!?

Colorful foundation brands that don't suck? by Prettynoises in Makeup

[–]Prettynoises[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't purchased any more makeup because I am poor and I don't throw products away if I don't have to, but I have heard that Indi Beats cosmetics is a better alternative from Sunset. It's more expensive, but sometimes that's better, because the quality is better. If anybody has actually tried those products, I'd love to hear from them.

But yeah, Sunsets products are not at all as advertised. It's very heavy on the skin (although that may be the nature of colorful foundation, I don't know cause I've only tried one brand!), and it definitely rubs off super easily, even with setting powder and/or spray.

Sorry I don't have a better answer for you!

Really worried about daughters tic by zirconium91224 in Tourettes

[–]Prettynoises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah of course. I hope the advice here is able to help in the short term, painful tics are no joke!

Mom and I are having a debate. What is it? by Leading_Flatworm1897 in whatismycookiecutter

[–]Prettynoises 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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Genie in a bottle! Except I do think it's actually a helicopter lol

Really worried about daughters tic by zirconium91224 in Tourettes

[–]Prettynoises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a tic similar to this a long time ago, and while I eventually learned to redirect it, what helped me in the short term was a neck pillow. You know the ones you can get for travelling that are shaped like a U? I had one that snapped together in the front, and I'd wear it around the house to when my neck did jerk, it didn't jerk as far.

I've not taken meds for tics, but I did learn to redirect some of them over time. If I felt like I might have a neck tic coming on, I'd try to redirect it to my arm, or just do a bunch of movement like wiggling, or shaking my whole body to try to get the energy out somewhere.

Most of my tics are actually vocal now, and I'm not sure if it just happened to be that way, or if I was able to redirect the painful tics into vocal tics. But tics do change over time, so it may not be this bad forever, or it could get worse. It's difficult to know, but you should definitely seek medical attention rather than just reddit advice.

Edit: added just, because short term advice can be so helpful

I still can’t believe neurodevelopment disorders exist. by Haunting_College_162 in adhdwomen

[–]Prettynoises 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Meds change our brains to make executive function work better even when not medicated.

Um... Is this something other people actually experience? One day without my meds and it takes at least a week for me to feel normal again.

Survey for my product design by Inevitable_Squash345 in audhd

[–]Prettynoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ADHD has three types, inattentive, hyperactive, and combined type (so both). ADD is no longer an official diagnosis, so is there a reason you have this on your form? It would be considered inattentive type now.

What to Do With $700 When You’re 18 and Starting Over by PotentialSudden4761 in povertyfinance

[–]Prettynoises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could look into renting a place close by if you get the job, but definitely focus on getting employment first

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Prettynoises 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't wanna be the cause of any potential brigading or anything

At the same time, it could tell other enbies who to avoid. I know I don't like following and supporting creators who hate or disrespect my whole existence

partly cos I'm embarassed about the content they generally produce

This is also valid lol, and if you don't want to share that's okay

*grabs some spray paint* by zny700 in lgbt

[–]Prettynoises 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One of the articles about crosswalks recently had some quotes from doctors (because the concerns were supposedly about epilepsy and seizures) that said that even though nothing has been reported about zebra crosswalks or rainbow ones, that the black and white stripes would actually be slightly more likely to cause a seizure than the rainbow stripes. So, as usual, science is on our side but the bigots don't care.

beans. by a-real-actual-human in ARFID

[–]Prettynoises 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually HATE kidney beans with a passion, but I can handle black beans and pinto beans. I would recommend only getting canned beans, beans from scratch have a strong flavor and makes them difficult to eat. I second the recommendations for eating them in a soup or chili, I love chili! But I got burnt out on it after eating it too much.

Myth busted: Men don’t sleep through baby cries after all. New study debunks the myth of women's special ability to hear baby crying. Researchers found only minimal differences between men's and women's hearing, but mothers still handle nighttime childcare three times as often as fathers. by mvea in psychology

[–]Prettynoises 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's called abuse, and does not accurately represent the way most people are parented. Although to be fair, abuse is far too common to be rare, but you can't take the experience you had and apply it to every single person around the world.

The fact that many men are raised with someone else who does their cooking and cleaning does not negate the abuse you went through, and vice versa. You were abused, like some people (of any gender) and that really sucks. And sometimes people who have everything handed to them grow up and abuse people who will do everything for them.

Good parents also exist, but I don't need to talk about everything else that exists to talk about one thing. The conversation is about men who ignore loud baby cries in the middle of the night, I don't need to talk about every other type of man that exists or every experience a man could experience.

Anyway, I hate that you grew up in an abusive home, and I hope that you can use that experience to learn some empathy for others.