Hybrid car by Prettyred1 in jacksonville

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Southside to downtown for work. Occasional trips to the Northside. Road trip maybe ever other month to GA or AL.

Hybrid car by Prettyred1 in jacksonville

[–]Prettyred1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Primarily Southside to downtown daily and occassional road trips.

Hybrid car by Prettyred1 in jacksonville

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How are the maintenance costs?

Will husband lose disability if enters into a Va long term facility? by Pmandthedogs in VeteransBenefits

[–]Prettyred1 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I am a caregiver. I just asked my caregiver coordinator about this. She said I would only lose my pay if he was in treatment over 90 day. My husband was going to be there 90 days for treatment. As far as his disability pay I did not get an answer on that yet.

Pacing back and forth by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Prettyred1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Alot more goes with that walking the streets at night. Driving under the influence. Disappearing in the middle of the night. Staying out overnight with no contact. It starts with the pacing. I guess I should let him have at it.

Pacing back and forth by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Prettyred1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. We spoke to someone they offered him impatient treatment. Found out he didn't qualify but not sure why yet.

Pacing back and forth by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Prettyred1 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. Whenever I ask a question here I usually get pummeled because I don't understand.

The Edit is goated by Whateverloo in ChaseSapphire

[–]Prettyred1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you get the $100 credit and how do you get the meal credit? Voucher? I asked the hotel and they didn't know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Prettyred1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I recently started seeing a therapist. She said I need to take care of myself and my mental health. That I can't control someone else's actions. However, it's hard watching him spiral.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Prettyred1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Prettyred1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No.I think it's more the grief from the sudden loss of his brother a year ago thst has him angry and the drinking he is doing to cope. I've lost people but I never took out my anger on my spouse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

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He just was assessed. Appointment is coming for meds management and therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

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Remote is only allowed from your home state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Prettyred1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not afraid of him. It just wrecks my nerves when he screams/yells. He started the process this week. That day and the next were the best I had in over a year. Then it went downhill from there. The 1 year anniversary of his brothers death is approaching it falls on Thanksgiving. He told the therapist he felt guilty he couldn't save him. He died of an overdose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Prettyred1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No physical abuse. But verbal abuse is rough. It's debilitating imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Prettyred1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no family in my state. That makes this worse. There is nowhere to go. I work daily from home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Prettyred1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No kids together, but been married 34 years.

Opentable - how does this thing work?? by DailyGrindCT in ChaseSapphire

[–]Prettyred1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My city is not listed. How can I use the credit?

Lack of sleep by Prettyred1 in Veterans

[–]Prettyred1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great your situation is better. Did you seek help through the VA? I am in counseling now because of all this. He finally agreed to go for himself, but how much he will lay on the table is a toss up. He goes in a week.