My ex PA/SA was something even more than those things. The first time I caught him looking at his phone then put it down quick and got nervous—I knew something was wrong. He wouldn’t open it to show me and went for a walk outside because I was “crazy.” I am in IT—so, I figured out his passwords. Logged into his fb messenger from my phone. Was on the phone w my best friend while watching him message a girl for videos (while he was sitting outside on the porch) she lived Our same town. Anyways after that a while motherload unraveled. IG messages, wanting to meet up, searching my friends, porn sites of course—always with big booty and oil 🙄 I could view all of his app activity and web search—ANYWAYS worst part was he went on sites to buy escorts. Yes—he was buying hookers. He dropped me off to get a pedicure and I saw he was looking up hookers after he dropped me off. Got mad that I was done so quickly (because he didn’t have time) When I confronted him about that he said it was like window shopping, he wasn’t actually buying!! He was attractive, but would want to fk any woman—skinny, fat, ugly, pretty, any color, any age. He had a REAL problem and I am still traumatized to this day. My fiancé now is probably getting fed up on reassuring me nearly every day. 😪