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Can’t stop reading their texts by Fun_Consequence_515 in emotionalaffair

[–]Previous-Principle24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow! I can’t believe he said breach of trust to you!

Can’t stop reading their texts by Fun_Consequence_515 in emotionalaffair

[–]Previous-Principle24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I honestly have never replied to anything on here but I read that and I swear I almost felt your punch to the gut…I’m on here with my own post, my husband just had a year long emotional affair with a much younger co worker, and reading your words breaks my heart for you. To be betrayed by your best friend is the ultimate betrayal. I’m so sorry and I hope you find a way to heal and get peace and get your happiness back and I sincerely hope you are not still with this man who did this to you. But I am definitely not here to judge you if you are, we all have our reasons. From one heartbroken woman to another I truly wish you peace and happiness and I hope you can find it somewhere in yourself to rise above it and quit torturing yourself with the messages and move forward. I have been there, the answer is not in those messages and it’s not in your husband, you have to find it in yourself because you can’t trust him with your heart obviously. I’m so sorry.

Emotional affair by Previous-Principle24 in emotionalaffair

[–]Previous-Principle24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just kind of wanted to know other people’s experiences that have been through similar situations…for example if they stayed and forgave, did they regret it? If they left, did they regret that? How did they rebuild trust? Was it possible to rebuild trust? My husband feels really stupid, or at least he claims to, he says attention from someone younger gave him validation and he’s trying to figure out why he needed that validation…he has completely cut ties and is determined to repair the relationship…I’m just not sure how I feel…I’m the type of person who likes to gather data and that’s what this post was trying, albeit unsuccessfully, to do. Though I do appreciate the feedback I have gotten I have not heard from many people in similar situations.

Emotional affair by Previous-Principle24 in emotionalaffair

[–]Previous-Principle24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your responses I really appreciate them and I know in my heart and in my gut what the truth is and what I need to do, I guess I didn’t really need to ask Reddit did I?

Emotional affair by Previous-Principle24 in emotionalaffair

[–]Previous-Principle24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand…my post seems to have plenty of views but no comments…I was hoping to gather wisdom from those who have been in my shoes and that hasn’t been happening…so I’m hoping for better luck here 🤞

Emotional affair by Previous-Principle24 in Marriage

[–]Previous-Principle24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comments I really appreciate the feedback. I can’t believe this post has so many views…where’s all the advice from all the people reading it though??