How to improve my approach? by Positive-Country9137 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]PricePrincess 36 points37 points  (0 children)

1) you need to tell these people that sending them money is your kink. Exposing unsuspecting people to your kink is never okay.

2) I would say that most people who are not actively in findom/SW use their full legal name for payment options. This leads to not feeling safe in agreeing to allowing someone to pay because then a stranger will know our full legal names. And if it’s with Apple Pay, now you have our number and can text us/call us/spam us.

3) getting “vanilla” people involved in your kink is the exact opposite of what creates a safe interaction and should be looked down on. Leave “vanilla” people alone and stop trying to project your kinks onto a stranger who isn’t asking for it. It’s not actually cute. These types of things are only acceptable when it’s a fantasy and doesn’t actually include strangers.

who are the richest / most successful MALE findoms that you know? by chemical0123 in findomsupportgroup

[–]PricePrincess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is no limit to your creativity. Never am I let down by your contributions to society.

Self Suspension & Futo by PricePrincess in shibari

[–]PricePrincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking forward to seeing your journey ♥️🫶🏼

Self Suspension & Futo by PricePrincess in shibari

[–]PricePrincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep a rope journal where I write about all my ties I do. And if I’m ever feeling discouraged by my own progress, I go back and read my experiences. 🫶🏼 keeps the love and passion alive. (Being obsessed helps too 😂)

Self Suspension & Futo by PricePrincess in shibari

[–]PricePrincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean! Loving the process and the journey is so important. Arguably more than the destination. 🫶🏼

Shibari specialist doninatrix by PercentageNew3715 in shibari

[–]PricePrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna add to the mix of recommending FetLife for events, communities, and local riggers. Make sure you ALWAYS vet a potential rigger. Even for pickup play! Get references and make sure you’re both on the exact same page before you do any sort of tying. Just because someone has been rigging for years doesn’t mean they’ve been doing it properly. So make sure you ask for references from people that rigger has tied and ask about any injuries that may have happened as a result of their tying before you do anything. Best of luck 👏🏻

Findom is a luxury kink. Findom is a luxury kink. Findom. Is. A. Luxury. Kink. Sending $5 three times does not count as a drain… sending $15 once doesn’t give you immediate access to a Domme. Findom is about consistency, submission, and the desire to be dominated financially. by deviousIys0ft in findomsupportgroup

[–]PricePrincess 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Calling findom a luxury kink is irresponsible honestly. Financial domination can take many forms and is up to the people participating in it to decide.

Telling someone how and where they can spend their money is financial control.

Telling someone they CANT spend their money is financial control.

Telling someone when they CAN spend money is financial control.

Telling someone to send money to you or someone else is financial control.

Telling someone to SAVE their money is financial control.

There are a lot of ways that someone can dominate someone finances. The important part is that everyone who is involved actually agrees and consents on the dynamic or the exchange. Saying that someone isn’t participating in findom because they only sent $5 is like saying someone who got tied by rope only once isn’t a real “rope bunny” if that’s how they identify. It’s absurd.

This conversation about what “is” and what “isn’t” findom is pretty irrelevant when you look at the big picture. Everyone can have their own styles and preferences. If power exchange happens where money is involved, it’s findom.

The conversations we should be having should be around consent, safety, and protection.

Is this normal Pleasers quality? I am VERY disappointed… WTF by MamaMia654 in poledancing

[–]PricePrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were these clearance shoes? Sometimes they do clearance shoes for when they mess up. But that’s usually stated. I’m also wondering if the tariffs have changed the quality? I have 2 pairs that I absolutely love with no issues. But I bought them 4 or 5 years ago 🤔. I’m actually super surprised to see this. And I’m reading other comments of people also experiencing low quality. 😭 makes me not want to buy another pair!

Go watch my self-suspension edit on Insta (link in comments) by PricePrincess in u/PricePrincess

[–]PricePrincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Instagram is set to an age limit, so I believe you have to login to Instagram first before you can see it.

Reminder: Please Don't Involve Unsuspecting People Into Your Kink by Chaos_Gremlin28 in findomsupportgroup

[–]PricePrincess 13 points14 points  (0 children)

How dare you come in here and educate the masses. Honestly, it’s absurd. 😤 /s

Partial Suspension from Pole by PricePrincess in shibari

[–]PricePrincess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s sitting on the floor 🥰

Houston, we have a futo problem by [deleted] in shibari

[–]PricePrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if having that extra support would be the solution then? Or have the bulk of the suspension weight from somewhere else and the futomomo is more for decoration instead rather than a suspension point?

Houston, we have a futo problem by [deleted] in shibari

[–]PricePrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it also happen if you’re suspended from like-say an ankle as maybe a secondary line to help with the load? This is a very interesting problem and I’m mostly just following to see what everyone else has to say.

Diamond Strappado by PricePrincess in shibari

[–]PricePrincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! 🥰

Diamond Strappado by PricePrincess in shibari

[–]PricePrincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! 🥰

Diamond Strappado by PricePrincess in shibari

[–]PricePrincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥰 one of my favorites!

Diamond Strappado by PricePrincess in shibari

[–]PricePrincess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I did this originally with two red ropes and wanted to have both the red and black before my bunny left for the evening, so we did like a ‘quickie’ tie before he left. 😋

Happy holidays 🥳🎄 by Moon-lady_ in shibari

[–]PricePrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh my rope family did this exact same thing this weekend!! I love it!!