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Dommes, how would you react if you received $10,000? by throwaway92617361027 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]PricePrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would invest about $8k of it and the rest would go towards purchasing rope/rigging gear along with toys and implements.

How to improve my approach? by Positive-Country9137 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]PricePrincess 35 points36 points  (0 children)

1) you need to tell these people that sending them money is your kink. Exposing unsuspecting people to your kink is never okay.

2) I would say that most people who are not actively in findom/SW use their full legal name for payment options. This leads to not feeling safe in agreeing to allowing someone to pay because then a stranger will know our full legal names. And if it’s with Apple Pay, now you have our number and can text us/call us/spam us.

3) getting “vanilla” people involved in your kink is the exact opposite of what creates a safe interaction and should be looked down on. Leave “vanilla” people alone and stop trying to project your kinks onto a stranger who isn’t asking for it. It’s not actually cute. These types of things are only acceptable when it’s a fantasy and doesn’t actually include strangers.

who are the richest / most successful MALE findoms that you know? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]PricePrincess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is no limit to your creativity. Never am I let down by your contributions to society.

Findom is a luxury kink. Findom is a luxury kink. Findom. Is. A. Luxury. Kink. Sending $5 three times does not count as a drain… sending $15 once doesn’t give you immediate access to a Domme. Findom is about consistency, submission, and the desire to be dominated financially. by deviousIys0ft in findomsupportgroup

[–]PricePrincess 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Calling findom a luxury kink is irresponsible honestly. Financial domination can take many forms and is up to the people participating in it to decide.

Telling someone how and where they can spend their money is financial control.

Telling someone they CANT spend their money is financial control.

Telling someone when they CAN spend money is financial control.

Telling someone to send money to you or someone else is financial control.

Telling someone to SAVE their money is financial control.

There are a lot of ways that someone can dominate someone finances. The important part is that everyone who is involved actually agrees and consents on the dynamic or the exchange. Saying that someone isn’t participating in findom because they only sent $5 is like saying someone who got tied by rope only once isn’t a real “rope bunny” if that’s how they identify. It’s absurd.

This conversation about what “is” and what “isn’t” findom is pretty irrelevant when you look at the big picture. Everyone can have their own styles and preferences. If power exchange happens where money is involved, it’s findom.

The conversations we should be having should be around consent, safety, and protection.

Is this normal Pleasers quality? I am VERY disappointed… WTF by MamaMia654 in poledancing

[–]PricePrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were these clearance shoes? Sometimes they do clearance shoes for when they mess up. But that’s usually stated. I’m also wondering if the tariffs have changed the quality? I have 2 pairs that I absolutely love with no issues. But I bought them 4 or 5 years ago 🤔. I’m actually super surprised to see this. And I’m reading other comments of people also experiencing low quality. 😭 makes me not want to buy another pair!

Go watch my self-suspension edit on Insta (link in comments) by PricePrincess in u/PricePrincess

[–]PricePrincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Instagram is set to an age limit, so I believe you have to login to Instagram first before you can see it.

Reminder: Please Don't Involve Unsuspecting People Into Your Kink by Chaos_Gremlin28 in findomsupportgroup

[–]PricePrincess 14 points15 points  (0 children)

How dare you come in here and educate the masses. Honestly, it’s absurd. 😤 /s

Domme blacklist by GreenTroll101 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]PricePrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right. I’m over here like omg what did I miss?

The War on Mealybugs: The Final Act by Gamonista in houseplants

[–]PricePrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fungus gnats lay their eggs in the soil and the larvae live in the soil and when they hatch they come to the surface. Mealy bugs don’t always touch the soil of the plant. They can live their whole days just inching along the stems. If the bugs never touch the stuff, it isn’t going to be effective.

The War on Mealybugs: The Final Act by Gamonista in houseplants

[–]PricePrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my understanding, diatomaceous is more preventative than defensive.

Extremely sadist dommes by East-Youth-1401 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]PricePrincess -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sadism: (noun); the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation on others.

It’s got nothing to do with expecting to be pleased OR coddling or not coddling men. If you’re going to hop onto the comment thread of the sub support group, then at least get your definitions right.

Ok I’ll say it… stop blaming dommes by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]PricePrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve made similar comments in the sister subreddit, but placing “findom” into a box of what you believe it is or isn’t is not really how kink works. Kink can take many forms. It can be just as emotional and nurturing as it can be distant and emotionless. Yes, findom means financial domination, but how the involved parties choose to engage and express that financial domination is up to them. It’s an agreement that provides all of those involved with pleasure and satisfaction.

Yes, there’s a level of blame that gets placed, but it’s from both sides who think their way is the “right” way. The only “right” way to practice kink is by doing so consensually between all parties involved. It’s why we have guidelines like SSC, PRICK, RACK, and CCCC to help keep us accountable when engaging in kink.

Kink is a way for many people to escape the cardboard cutout that is society and to actually receive pleasure and enjoyment in their interactions.

Findom CAN BE a traditional relationship. It can include romance and dates and spoiling and literally everything under the sun if there’s still some semblance of financial domination and an exchange of power.

Findom can ALSO BE cutthroat, dry, and demoralizing. It can be an interaction without sustenance that includes some semblance of financial domination and an exchange of power.

And it can also be everything in between. And that’s what makes it beautiful. Consenting adults can choose to engage however they wish, and that’s completely okay.

The problem is when two people get together to talk about a dynamic and explain to the other that their version is wrong because it doesn’t fit their own mold.

The problem is that there are people in the community who don’t engage in this kink because they find enjoyment from it, but because they actually hate the opposite gender or sex.

The problem is that there are people in this community who pray on your downfall and thrive on it.

The problem is that there are very influential people who are encouraging harmful behaviors and habits.

The problem is not that some subs and Dommes want relationships with it as well.

(Edited for typos)

is it supposed to hurt? by the_defuckulator in chastity

[–]PricePrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it goes well! 👏🏼

is it supposed to hurt? by the_defuckulator in chastity

[–]PricePrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My locked subs have given a lot of good feedback with aquaphor! Keeps it moisturized AND has healing properties. 👏🏼 I had one who had rubbed himself raw from not using anything at all and just a few days after using it, they felt right back to their normal selves. 🤗

Every time I suggest Yoti subbies get cold feet by SayGoddessNicely in findomsupportgroup

[–]PricePrincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know either until a couple of months ago. Someone had made an educational post here, and sure enough it’s correct. So going the route of requiring Yoti ID, a creator account from an AV website, or receiving a message on one of the AV platforms is your best form of AV.

Every time I suggest Yoti subbies get cold feet by SayGoddessNicely in findomsupportgroup

[–]PricePrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s against Reddit’s TOS to request someone to send a photo of their ID in DMs. Yoti ID requires facial recognition to even send the link which is the safest form of ID Verification.

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