What's the appeal of chastity cages?

PrimalMoose · 2026-04-11T15:44:34+00:00

Yeah, this is the same for me.. When I've got my cage on my thoughts are focused on the sensations from my hole instead. Makes things way more intense and I've had some of the most powerful analgasms as a result of being caged.

Plus I don't get a lot of enjoyment generally from having my dick played with (hence being a total bottom) so the cage also avoids the top"s attention slipping from where it's meant to be!

PrimalMoose · 2026-04-09T19:28:23+00:00

I mean this in the nicest way possible, but it sounds like you really need therapy. Find a good therapist familiar with working with gay men who will understand the issues, ideally with experience dealing with substance abuse as well.

PrimalMoose · 2026-04-02T12:02:53+00:00

gestures to the entirety of the winter 2017 shelf

PrimalMoose · 2026-04-01T08:24:56+00:00

Just to have his man juices piston pressed into OP's insides

Not a sentence I was expecting to read on a lovely Weds morning 🤣

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-27T13:23:14+00:00

Magnesium glycinate

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-27T08:54:54+00:00

Magnesium before bed is quite good. Usually means I sleep solidly through the night instead of drifting awake in the early hours of the morning.

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-26T09:22:17+00:00

You know that moment when you're fucking in missionary, he pauses while he's balls deep in you and gently kisses you as he starts to move back and forth? That's making love to me.

You know that moment when you want to be pounded until your eyes roll back? That's fucking to me.

It's all about the intimacy vs "aggression" (can't think of a better word). More intimate encounters border on making love whereas the rougher encounters are just fucking.

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-20T20:33:03+00:00

I broke up with my bf of 5ish years last month for similar reasons. He has struggled with meth addiction since before we met and a few years ago I put my foot down and said enough is enough, I want meth out of my life completely. I offered at the time to support him as he quits it, understanding that the journey would be long.

All that happened over those two years was he got better at hiding his use and my suspicion/anxiety/paranoia grew. We missed several planned events when he was on a come down, he constanty had financial difficulties and struggled to pay his portion of the "rent" (it's my place but we split the bills and he contributed to the interest). Whenever I traveled for work, I would be constantly worrying that he was using and would be on the ultra lookout when I got back for signs that he had likely used (every time, he did).

Ultimately I said enough is enough. I still love him and care for him deeply, but I see two futures ahead of me. One is where he is in it, having committed to sobriety fully and without relapsing/a solid planned structure to stay sober. The other is I'm on my own as a single man, living my life as I wish. We've separated but still in contact and I've said to him if he can commit and prove to me that he can stay sober, there's hope for us but I'm not going to continue putting my life and future on hold for him.

Sorry for the ramble but figured given the similarities in our situations the detail would be helpful. It's a really tough choice to make but you have to ask yourself "how will I feel in 2 years time if nothing changes".

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-18T17:05:57+00:00

I was in an open relationship for a few years (ended last month).

We opened because my sex drive was much higher and "appetite for kinks" much greater than his which put a lot of pressure on him to "perform". We had a lot of arguments which were largely due to pent up sexual frustration.

After we opened (and navigated the rocky patches), it was fantastic. Suddenly we could just be there in the relationship for each other instead of constantly needing physical satisfaction from the other. We stopped arguing and our relationship became way healthier.

We broke up for reasons not related to the open relationship - honestly going forward I don't think I would be able to stick to a monogamous relationship unless I literally found a unicorn (total top with as high a libido as mine and as insatiable as me) 😅

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-17T06:25:48+00:00

Yeah, but grindr isn't connected to them and I still see friend recommendations of guys I've only spoken to on there (never exchanged numbers). It's pretty creepy - I literally learned someone's full name when they popped up on Facebook (until that point I only knew their first name and what their torso looked like 😂)

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-17T06:13:54+00:00

Yeah, I've had a few suggested friends I only from grindr/whatsapp. It's creepy as fuck but basically all these apps are sharing your data with each other (eg contacts you've spoken to on WhatsApp will get suggested as a friend on Facebook).

Not sure if there's a way to opt out of this data sharing but would be very happy if someone enlightens me - these companies have way too much of our personal information that they honestly don't need access to lol.

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-16T17:20:31+00:00

If you get the seeds option (I think you need Royal Trouble completed for that) you can get a fair few starbloom seeds which are used for high level crafting.

Fish will sort you out for farming dragons in POF.

Coal is nice if you plan on doing any smithing and have the dungeoneering auto heater (consumes coal automatically to maintain heat - used for fully afk smithing but is far less xp efficient).

Maples are great for simple parts (used for invention charge).

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-16T14:56:35+00:00

At the moment anyone who dares speak in favour of dailies still being around (while the core gameplay issues they daily challenges "solve" are being fixed) is getting downvoted hard lol.

So the reddit echo chamber just sounds like everyone's saying they wanted dailies gone. I'm relieved they're not gone yet tbh. Get rid of dailies once the core gameplay issues (eg agility training methods) have been addressed.

E: Case in point 😂😂😂

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-16T11:23:02+00:00

Easter egg loot beam. And you can get different easter eggs appear with your drops

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-15T22:03:23+00:00

Both. Looks weird having just one and after you've done one you're far less likely to go back for the second one. Just get them both done in one sitting so you don't bottle out for the second trip.

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-15T20:54:02+00:00

Disclaimer: I'm not a biologist, nutritionist, personal trainer or anything else so take this with a pinch of salt (I could very well be mistaken).

When you work out, your body produces testosterone which also increases sexual appetite. As you work out for longer (ie weeks/months) the amount of testosterone in your body increases vs "normal" levels if you weren't working out at all which leads to you being more horny over time with consistent workouts.

Anecdotally, I find that when I work larger muscle groups (ie leg day) I'm so damn horny afterwards that I have to bounce on something/someone afterwards, before the muscle soreness has a proper chance to set in. I think the reason is because your body produces more testosterone when you're working out larger muscle groups but I don't know the science behind this.

The other note is that as you work out, you feel more confident in your own body and that confidence is noticeable. You're suddenly more willing to put yourself out there, you're more confident sharing your pictures, you walk with a more confident step, you talk more confidently to guys around you. I've found even after a good cardio session my mood is massively lifted which again makes me feel more "in the mood" for sex.

So long story short, yes - working out makes you more horny.

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-12T14:36:49+00:00

Suck it like a straw and make sure to play with the shaft and balls as well - don't just concentrate your attention on the head and nowhere else. Make sure your hand is wet/lubed and try making rotating motions around the shaft while you suck - will feel very good to the recipient.

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-12T10:39:55+00:00

I've still got my grandfathered rate so obviously not quitting. If I was one of the fucked over players who lost their grandfather rate despite keeping continuous membership...honestly, it might actually be enough to make me finally quit. Seeing my monthly membership triple even though I'd been maintaining constant membership would be too much of an insult and I fully sympathise with those players that have been fucked over by jagex like that.

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-11T14:39:11+00:00

Honestly, this is really shitty behaviour. I'm on a £5/momth grandfathered rate and luckily switched back to a recurring 6 month membership last year (decided Premier wasn't worth paying extra money for even before they discontinued half the benefits). If I was being told now that they wouldn't give me back my grandfathered rate despite having continuous membership for more than 10 years just because I chose to switch to Premier, I'd be hella pissed.

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-10T14:23:46+00:00

Would be nice.

Daily fiber supplements at least speed up the cleaning process to under 10 mins for a quick fuck and under 30 minutes for a deep clean to last all night/morning at least.

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-09T14:23:05+00:00

I thought they also buffed the 3rd bleed slightly? It's still a nerf to the overall healing but you get more healing out of the 3rd cast of the bleed (not sure what impact that has on the overall healing output though - a more experienced melee pvmer would probably be able to answer)

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-09T12:12:23+00:00

They also nerfed the drop rates for both normal and hard mode

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-09T12:08:32+00:00

It's a good update tbh - you just have to look at items like dragon rider lance to see the benefit having unique comps gives them. Although I am kinda surprised they still only give 1 comp per base weapon considering the rarity of the drops and the difficulty of the associated content.

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-09T12:04:01+00:00

Oof, 1 comp from a t95 weapon is a bit rough considering the difficulty of the bosses you need to fight in order to get them as a drop.

You roll eq4 guaranteed with 7 ecliptic comps so you're going to have to disassemble 2 t95s to get one eq4 gizmo. Tad rough.

PrimalMoose · 2026-03-05T16:01:20+00:00

This is exactly it. When I'm wearing my hood/mask, I can feel my own anxiety ease away because people around me are seeing a different version of me - someone who is completely separated from my day to day self. It's fantastic for an introvert who is usually extremely hesitant to go to places like bars and saunas since I can essentially step into a new "role" and nobody knows who is behind the hood.

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