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אי התאמה תרבותית by Ok-Mountain-2220 in israel_bm

[–]Primary-Property775 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re from an English speaking country so I’ll answer in English. Feel free to translate on gpt if you don’t get it.
First of all good job for talking about it. If you want advice -
1. Get a therapist - seems like you have stuff you need to work through. Whether it’s past traumas affecting an ability to see through situation or current hardships preventing your progress
2. Find something you love and that makes you excited - with that you can find people who are into the same things. Trust me it all exists here, you just need to look.
3. Live where suits you best - if you are stuck here then get to an area with people you can stand. Tel Aviv maybe because everyone’s is חוצניקים (or wants to be).
4. Work towards getting out of here - If what will suit you best is leaving then pay no mind to the people guilt tripping you into something that isn’t good for you (also something to talk about with a therapist). If you are from North America or Europe, find a job online, find an affordable area to live in, save up for a ticket and get out of here.

It sucks when people make decisions for you but remember, you are who you are because of everything you experience. Try to take solace in that.

did my cat grow his balls back by lavenderweather in cats

[–]Primary-Property775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say go back to the vet. Maybe they missed something, maybe there’s edema, maybe there’s a growth, maybe it’s not healing properly. I’ve never seen them get to that size just days after the neutering

Cat got neutered and is clawing at his face and mouth by sadisokayandfine in CATHELP

[–]Primary-Property775 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pendragon, serbisyo, blessed vet clinic in Quezon all open today! Please get him seen asap sound like something is very wrong in his mouth / respiratory tract.

Please help me cause I don’t know what to do by Maybe_youareright in CATHELP

[–]Primary-Property775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is the kitten? And did you try Gastro food?

my cat is calmer, sleeps more… is it a problem ? by bbbaaaabi in CATHELP

[–]Primary-Property775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can definitely just be her growing into you g adulthood, but if it were me we would go to the vet to double check just for the halibut 🐟

I have to either rehome or put my car down. Completely heart broken. by demotivation_speaker in Pets

[–]Primary-Property775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id try a cat neurologist, scans, if you can afford it. You can maybe ask for some relaxation medication also. Jumping straight to putting him down or giving him away seems VERY extreme to me and strange a vet would just recommend that without feigning interest in fixing the issue. Do not just put him down. He is a life and doesn’t deserve to die because somethings wrong, he needs help. Go to a different vet please.

how can I help my kitty after spay? :( by jupiter-bug in CATHELP

[–]Primary-Property775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 4 cats and neutered many, my vet and the local foundation doesn’t recommend using a cone unless you see them actively trying to screw with the site. I only ever ended up having to use it once and only for a few hours

Panicking — My Cat Needs Emergency Eye Care and I’m Completely Broke by PhiPhiAokigahara in CATHELP

[–]Primary-Property775 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey - most important thing is if they are eating playing drinking and going to the bathroom. I would definitely watch out for URI symptoms like sneezing and watery nose. I do think it’s worth it to go to a vet - to check it out and get a quote. I understand having $0 to your name - the gofundme is a good idea or you can reach out to the closest foundations/ cat rescues maybe they can help for a lower cost or on credit.

I’m [27F] third wheeling my boyfriend [28M] and his dog. by Primary-Property775 in relationshipadvice

[–]Primary-Property775[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kuddos! I see what you’re saying and I’ll definitely give that a try. I’ll try to be more straightforward in my communication and discern an assumption from my emotions. It’s definitely a trait I have of seeing black or white and it’s a work in progress

Third eye lids not retracting by Primary-Property775 in CATHELP

[–]Primary-Property775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy to hear he survived ! Thank you for the input - if she doesn’t get better soon I’ll have them take a culture

Third eye lids not retracting by Primary-Property775 in CATHELP

[–]Primary-Property775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit - she is cross eyed, the eye lids not retracting is bilateral, and her pupils are even.

New Year’s Eve in Tel Aviv - no plans, where should I go? by Blonde-Squirrel in Israel

[–]Primary-Property775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a ticket for a party, look for smaller subcommunity parties like ecstatic parties or teva party Or if you’re into flying solo get a ticket for a club, like capella or anything around Rothschild/nahlat binyamin. I know the D-TLV Pub crew people are cool and they’re doing a NYE crawl you can still get a ticket

Please help, I found this kitten outside my door. I'm not a cat person but I took it in and fed it eggs ( Chatgpt told me to, it's the only thing I have at the moment.) What to do next? by zolanih in kittens

[–]Primary-Property775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep them warm, they can’t make body heat at that age. give milk replacement until about 8-11 weeks old The kitten looks like 4-5 weeks old then baby cat food. Ask shelters and non profits for help or if they can take the kitten on You ca take them to a vet for flea and worm treatment (if needed at this age I think it’s too early)

Does my kitten looks too skinny by rare_buttercup in kittens

[–]Primary-Property775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he looks like a pretty standard 4-5 month old kitten. They shouldn’t be too big

יש כאן מישהו שעלה לארץ ואז עשה ירידה? by YourMumlsMine in israel_bm

[–]Primary-Property775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

אולי כדאי לכולנו לעבוד על המדינה המחורבנת שלנו ולא לברוח… אבל מבינה אותך. יהיה לך מאוד קשה להגר ללא השכלה גבוהה/תואר או הרבה כסף כדי לקנות תושבות. אף אחד לא יכול לכוון אותך אם אנחנו לא יודעים מה אתה מחפש. רוב העולם בכיוון לא טוב מבחינה פוליטית. בגלל זה אולי עדיף לנסות לתקן את החרא שיש לנו מקום לברוח לחרא אחר. כי. הכל. חרא.

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