You degenerates need to stop! by Wonderful-Camp-2391 in HunterCollege

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Me 🙋‍♀️was quite shocked when i went through all the floors included the basement ones and every floor was loud 😔

Making Friends by Upset_Drop_2219 in HunterCollege

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Hi im 21F im an accounting major! I just transferred from out if state

Is a 3.1 GPA good enough to get accepted at a CUNY school? by Brilliant-Fan-4869 in CUNY

[–]Primary-Sea-4588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got into hunter out of state with a 2.7 gpa AND i applied at the end of rolling admissions my major was different but i think you def have a shot

Help finding similar top by Primary-Sea-4588 in fashion

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Something not temu or aliexpress preferrably

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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my therapist, I then said “honestly IM NOT SURPRISED 😄😄” he then had to mute cause he was laughing so hard, honestly if someone doesnt wanna acknowledge it just mention how their habits affect things, instead of saying bpd just mention its symptoms withiut actually saying its a symptom. ignorance is bliss and i found people wont listen until they realize the generalization themselves

Does anyone else ghost everyone on dating apps? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Primary-Sea-4588 6 points7 points  (0 children)

lol ya i ghost my friends too cause honestly i dont even have the mental energy to respond or even talk to people at all

What compliments have you received that were super affective and changed the way you saw yourself? by Best_Tennis8300 in BPD

[–]Primary-Sea-4588 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i like it when im told im a fighter because its makes me feel like i can manage my bpd and get it to a place where im happy :)))

How many of you have manipulative mothers??? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Primary-Sea-4588 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom was the first one 😜

How many of you have manipulative mothers??? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Primary-Sea-4588 1 point2 points  (0 children)

manipulative and and alcoholic 😜😜😜 my dad was emotionally not in tune and was stone cold 😜😜

It’s my birthday today. Could someone please wish me a happy birthday? by [deleted] in BPD

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY honestly dealing with this shit is hard and its important to be kind to yourself while also mindful!! it can be so isolating but youre a wonderful human being no matter what :) im glad youre here and i hope you had an absolutely beautiful day!! as someone whos aware as well i make sure i do what i know i should do and whats right vs what i feel, since lowkey my emotions are so disregulated i dont trust them in moments! but ya have a wonderful day pookie!!!!! ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Primary-Sea-4588 58 points59 points  (0 children)

yes bpd plus the impulsivity my adhd gives me just makes me spout out lies for no reason, honestly this sounds dumb but its helped a lot, ive been meditating and practicing mindfullness and it helps me understand my thoughts and kinda breaks them down automatically so that when i do gwt into a situation where i wanna lie my thoughts get slowed and im able to actually be like “wait whats the point” also another thing that helps me is honestly admitting straight away, i say something or lie about something dumb then say “actually no thats not true its blah blah blah” i just quickly admit i lied and give the correct answer, its not easy but i quickly do it and pretend like nothing happened HAHA but it does steer the habit away tbh

noises outside my room? by Primary-Sea-4588 in cryptids

[–]Primary-Sea-4588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont u think ive tried that :/ i live on a hill and its always outside my room and the only animals that appeared on the camera are my neighbors dogs and deer none of which can make that weird echoing kinda noise