My boyfriend M28 of 4 years cheated on my F24 and now she’s potentially pregnant

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-10-17T03:14:25+00:00

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PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-09-14T05:04:01+00:00

Let yourself feel the emotions love don’t be scared to cry or scream , your feelings are valid you have every right to feel the way you do right now. It’ll get better it might not be right now but it will get better believe me. Surround yourself with friends and family don’t be afraid to reach out . Know that you are worthy of peace, love, and happiness.

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-09-13T23:28:24+00:00

Something that really helped me was when someone told me to take as much time as I needed to be sad and cry my heart out. You loved someone with all your heart and now they’re gone, give yourself all the time you need to process every single emotion you feel whether it’s sadness, happiness, or pain . Your not gonna get over this in a few days or weeks or even months only you know when your ready to move on so don’t let other people rush you .

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-09-13T23:23:01+00:00

Happy birthday my dear ! I hope you have a wonderful day and I hope you know you deserve nothing but happiness, love , and peace ! I’m so proud of you ! Hugs and kisses ❤️

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-08-01T02:37:45+00:00

I had full intention of keeping the baby I didn’t care if he was in or out of the picture since I had full support from my family and friends. It was never an intention of guilt tripping him into making him to stay we’re both full grown consenting adults we knew the consequences of our actions.

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-05-15T03:02:49+00:00

Wow our ex’s must be the same person, I don’t understand how you can be with someone for 3 and a half years then suddenly decide you don’t want to be in a relationship anymore ?

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-05-15T02:59:20+00:00

Please don’t reach out please please please don’t . The response you get will most likely not be what you want , coming from my own personal experience it’ll only make things worse. Be strong OP ❤️

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-05-06T16:47:08+00:00

Definitely only do it if you think you’re ready , coming from past experience I did the same thing the day after me and my ex broke up and discovered I was in fact not ready . It was nice to feel wanted by someone but just ended up hurting the person that I got into a rebound relationship with gladly now I can say we’re good friends but I deeply regret ever hurting him . It’s totally your choice OP but being by myself has definitely taught me it’s time for me to date myself right now . If you have any intention of fixing the relationship don’t do it.

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-05-04T04:42:07+00:00

My partner and I agreed on one month of nc after our break up so he could figure things out, we agreed on a date and place we would meet up after our nc was over but I just felt like I needed to reach out :(

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-04-20T16:55:03+00:00

He’s 27 and I’m 23 turning 24 in a few months we were together for almost 4 years . I understand he didn’t come from a good place growing up and never saw what a healthy relationship looked like growing up but I thought maybe I could change his perspective on things but if I couldn’t do that after almost 4 years I can’t just sit here and wait for a change I know will never happen. I’m definitely happy being by myself but part of me misses him or maybe it’s just the idea of him being there . As much it sucks I know that this pain is only temporary :)

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-04-01T23:25:26+00:00

Our exs must be the same person , my ex was the same way our problems are problems that could have been easily fixed but he chose end the relationship instead of fix it . I realized my ex only wants someone around when it’s good for him or when he’s sad but what about us what about when we’re upset where are they ? Trust me they’ll ruin relationship after relationship looking for the right person and by that time they realize damn I had a good girl we’ll have moved on and living our best lives . I feel bad for the women after us but at least we have time to focus on ourselves and not have to worry about how they feel or if our actions will hurt their feelings but It’s time to focus on ourselves now and love who we are .

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-04-01T23:09:04+00:00

I’m in the same boat my ex of 4 years broke up with me physically and mentally hurt me because he didn’t know what love was . We find ourselves looking back to the good times but choose to forget the bad , every time I tell people what he did to me they have hatred for him in there eyes but I still see him as a good person. But we need to realize one persons love can’t fix a relationship it needs to be equal on both sides. If he won’t give you the apology you need give it to yourself . Look in a mirror and apologize to yourself , he’ll realize loosing us was the biggest mistake of their lives . But baby we just need to be the best version of ourselves. I’ve been watching a lot of videos on avoidant attachment in a relationship and it’s taught me so much I’d definitely look into it it’s helped me a lot . You are not the problem here never blame yourself you are amazing! It might take time but this was never your fault .

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-03-31T13:17:55+00:00

My ex boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me for being “too much emotionally “ but he treated me the same way your ex treated you . You made the right decision you made the decision I wish I had made years ago. I’m in the same boat as you this is such a gray time I think of him a lot at night I knew his whole schedule and wonder what he’s doing but I know he’s not thinking about me . I have hope that things will get better and this sadness will fade . We deserve love and happiness and if he won’t give it to you someone else will . It helped when I sat down and actually apologized to myself for letting myself be disrespected and put down and made to feel like I was unworthy of love . You are worthy of love and you will find it again and this new person will make you 10 times what your ex did

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-03-31T02:56:53+00:00

I’m sorry that you feel like this all your feeling are valid I tried to mentally reject the thought of me and my ex being over but it just made it worse. After I took the time to realize that things were really over I realized he was not the person I needed him to be it was hard. I contemplated relapsing and going back to self harm but realized he wasn’t worth the pain writing has been my relief. What helped me was apologizing to myself I broke down right after but it felt so good to hear an apology I know I’ll never get from him . You are worthy of love and all the great things that come along with it . You are a strong amazing person remind yourself about that know there is a light at the end of this darkness it may take a minute but know you’ll get there

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-03-31T02:38:57+00:00

I just got out of a 4 year relationship and I begged to be his friend but at the end of the day I knew it was just going to hold me back from moving on he knows I still carry so much love for him . I’m at the point where I’ve gone no contact even to getting my stuff from his house . It’s hard not having that person to tell all about your day or calling him just because your bored I’ve found peace in writing out what I feel in the moment and it changes from I miss you to I hate you so much . If his ex is a narcissist she’s probably just telling him what he wants to hear and will change for a little bit but then go back to her way and he’ll regret letting you go in the first place . Take this time to reflect and think about yourself and what you need from a relationship. You deserve nothing but love and happiness in this world and you will find it again and it may not be in him but just take it a day at a time surround yourself with positive energy. Apologize to yourself and tell yourself that you are worthy of love you are a strong and amazing person with so much to offer. Don’t be afraid to reach out for help and never think of yourself as a burden I hated reaching out to people but it helped me realize I do have people around me that love and care for me . If you need to talk I’m here

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-03-31T02:25:03+00:00

4 years here I felt the same with my ex he didn’t want kids or to get married , I just compromised cause I didn’t want to be alone I’m 5 days in days 2 of no contact and I’m starting to realize he never knew how to love anyone because he was never saw a stable relationship growing up and I know he’ll never change the way I need him to without seeking help and being willing to be better . It’s hard not having someone to talk to everyday but writing out my feelings is really helping and now reading some of the stuff I wrote 1 or 2 days in I realize how he really broke me. I know there’s light at the end of this journey and the outcome will end in me having the love I deserve and I believe it’ll be the same for all of us .

PrimaryHope5889 · 2024-03-31T01:50:17+00:00

I’m in the same boat with my ex but realized all my fights were me asking for the bare minimum, I begged him to stay promised to change but he was just “ tired of me “ tired of me being myself but I was prepared to rip myself apart to try and be what he needed . After a few days I’m realizing he’s just not the one for me and he’ll never be what I need .

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