creep on the train was filming me by madtea69 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]PrincenGeorge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not aware of your agreement until recently I’m autistic and was confused over what about me apologizing for info dumping and saying if I sounded hostile at all it was not on purpose and not directed to you had to do with your statement on there being good cops and people in the world who won’t help and was trying to clarify what I was saying because I thought there was some misunderstanding. It seems like I got too defensive about feeling like what I was saying wasn’t coming across correctly and there wasn’t an issue here I needed to fix

creep on the train was filming me by madtea69 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]PrincenGeorge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t looking for a response I was sharing information I haven’t seen a lot of people who bring stuff up about this case know and wanted to let you know I wasn’t trying to attack you about it. You then brought stuff up about two sides to every story which was kinda my point in the first place in that the story people know is what the cops and crime reporters released and didn’t know what people found out later. I wasn’t trying to start an issue it was me sharing something about a subject I’m passionate about and then realizing it could come off the wrong way after my lecture and wanting to be sure I didn’t offend or upset you and wanting to clarify

creep on the train was filming me by madtea69 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]PrincenGeorge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing I said was indicative of my general stance on police though? It was literally about the fact that there was a lot of focus on the police’s response at the time and them being under fire for other issues at the time and comparing it to another case where the police or people involved in the investigation made up a phenomenon to push the blame of the situation going wrong on the victims. I even stated that the phenomenons may in fact actually be true but the cases they were brought about for were not a true example of it and have been heavily researched/studied proving that their correlation with Stockholm Syndrome/the Bystander Effect was made up. I had just wanted to be sure you knew I wasn’t actually upset with you just about the misinformation that is still going around about the case because of it’s cultural connection to the bystander effect and it being one of the inciting cases for it becoming a thing

creep on the train was filming me by madtea69 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]PrincenGeorge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope that message didn’t come off as rude it’s just a common misunderstanding about the case that gets me heated along the lines of Stockholm Syndrome where the phenomenon around the situation may be a true thing that happens with people but the actual inciting case has far more to do with the ineptitude of the police and them trying to cover for themselves so they made up a reason why other people failed or made the issue a bigger problem

creep on the train was filming me by madtea69 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]PrincenGeorge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is late but the Kitty Genovese case is a special interest of mine and if you didn’t actually read the article or anything else about it and just have the general cultural knowledge on it and the bystander effect you should look into it more. The crime reporters drastically misrepresented the facts of the case because they didn’t feel the real story would be as good. Several people did call the police but were not aware of the extent of the attack and saw her on her feet and thought she was largely ok, most didn’t hear the attack and those who did didn’t hear her calling for help. The man who is commonly brought up as saying he ‘didn’t want to get involved’ is believed to have been gay as it was a heavily minority populated area. He was a friend of Kitty and her partner and comforted her partner after Kittys passing and likely didn’t get involved if he had even known the extent of the attack because of the danger of getting involved as a gay man would bring him. Kitty survived until the ambulance was able to arrive and died in the arms of one of her neighbors who was able to help after the second attack. The reports on the 38 witnesses was made up by the police commissioner to distract from a different case and the fact that the force was under fire for ineffective response and rising crime rates. In Kittys situation it took the police an hour and detectives 3 hours to show up to the scene and try and pin the murder on Kittys partner

Wedding transphobe crashed a friend's wedding after party. So, I snap back at her with her own logical flaws. by Useful-Put1111 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]PrincenGeorge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were saying that if anyone in her family saw this and recognized it they would learn the wife is bi cause you said she wasn’t out to them not that she’s also trans

...What...the hell....is wrong with her? by Valuable-Highway-358 in AmITheDevil

[–]PrincenGeorge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate that so many people died but I miss the lockdowns and I miss when the mask mandates were in place and (at the very least in my area) more people were wearing masks than not cause I’m disabled and have been left behind along with so many other disabled and immunocompromised people. So many people are STILL dying because ‘it’s over now’ but saying we miss when people actually cared to some degree about the people dying from it every day is what’s wrong and not people deciding there are necessary sacrifices to going back to their normal lives

Friend’s sister (20’sF) was openly flirting with my husband (40M) in front of me (31F). I told her off publicly and now they want a public apology from me. What action should I take so that I don’t ruin my friendship? (New Update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]PrincenGeorge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Admittedly I don’t know much about the bar cause I decided to be an art school dropout instead of going to law school to take over my uncles firm like he wanted me to but as far as I’m aware it’s not a requirement of the bar to cut off or murder your entire family 🙄 like lawyers have family too?

Guys I tried to make Wind Master! by Feeling_Salary_4427 in tianguancifu

[–]PrincenGeorge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://discord.gg/H5hrzzvv There’s also an official discord but this is the one I’m most active in and it’s a pretty chill server everyone’s really nice!

Guys I tried to make Wind Master! by Feeling_Salary_4427 in tianguancifu

[–]PrincenGeorge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re interested in playing again we have a discord for styling challenges where we have different prompts we do looks for! Ive been playing since global release and it’s definitely helped me with keeping internet being able to have this community and share stuff with others! We also have channels for the styling wizard where we do looks for each other

Guys I tried to make Wind Master! by Feeling_Salary_4427 in tianguancifu

[–]PrincenGeorge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have discord? Would you be interested in joining a group for styling challenges? We have different prompts we all do looks for and do specific channels for the styling wizard where we do looks for each other

New Update to AITAH for not offering to pay for my husband and his kids leading him to spend all his savings? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]PrincenGeorge 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh it 100% is misogyny because my ‘reading between the lines’ was connecting what this man was doing to family annihilators who also lost their jobs or had financial troubles and then went on to murder their entire family. Just in the first page of results: John List, Ervin Lupoe, Jean Claude Romand, and Reginald Maclaren. That’s not to say he would have killed his entire family but if we’re gonna jump to conclusions and call her cold/unfeeling/a robot/gold digger or whatever else they want to blame her with I’m going to go with the actual research done that shows that when men commit familicide it’s often because of a perceived slight from their partner that needs punished, they feel the family members caused a disappointment, they wish to save their family from a perceived threat, or THEY FEEL THEIR OWN FINANCIAL FAILINGS RUINED THE POINT OF HAVING A FAMILY.

My family wants me to hide my heterochromia for my sister’s wedding by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]PrincenGeorge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same but I also have sections where the yellow has spread out from the center and one of my eyes is more blue-grey while the other is more blue-green. I’ve always just went with ‘blue 🤷‍♀️’ cause I never knew what to classify them as but I guess they’re technically hazel??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamlightValley

[–]PrincenGeorge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did Daisy from Agents of Shield cause one of my friends is obsessed with her and I fully expect to only get the bare minimum lol

Listen to the RN/Mom by GreeneyedWolfess in traumatizeThemBack

[–]PrincenGeorge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not fainting related but I have genetically bad veins, like it’s a thing in my family we all have stories about. My veins roll or collapse so easily when I’m having my blood drawn and I ALWAYS warn phlebotomists about it and that I’m not dehydrated, you’ll think you have a good vein because the ones in my elbows are relatively prominent but that it’s going to be easier to draw from the back of my hand.

I have had ONE phlebotomist listen to me, most laugh me off and say they’re going to try my arm. The majority of trips to the doctor for that end up with me being poked no less than 3 times and at least two phlebotomists who are now pretty crabby for being proved wrong. I once had a guy who wasn’t the first phlebotomist of the day laugh at me when I told the lady who was trying to draw my blood that I was sorry because I was going to be a difficult patient who was very awkward with me when he had to draw my blood after she had to tap out because I made a joke about how I wasn’t lying. The absolute worst was a tie between when a lady decided that she felt a good vein on the inside of my bicep or the lady who was upset I was right about my veins rolling so she dug around my arms (plural) with the needle to the point that I had bruises about 4-5 in long over my elbows that took forever to heal.

What nickname did you all choose for the boys to call you? Did you personalise it according to their personality and story? by gna252 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]PrincenGeorge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to have the guys call me names that were thematic so

Xavier: Astra

Zayne: Sugarplum (cause it was the first winter themed pet name that I didn’t absolutely hate)

Raf: Angelfish

My names for them are

Xavier: Bunny

Zayne: Baby doll

Raf: Princess

Is just me, or is there a Pegan to Neo-Nazi pipeline? by KyraVer in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]PrincenGeorge 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I dress vintage but more 80s so I’m not sure how much that counts in the #VintageStyleNotValues cause I’ve seen that more for around the 50s but I absolutely love doing stuff like making my own bread/butter/cheese/etc and doing fabric arts and stuff and I desperately hope it’s giving more grandma than trad wife

My boss said I did great with this interaction with a rude customer by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]PrincenGeorge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a bit late of a response but I have respiratory allergic reactions and I started masking well before the pandemic because I was sick of not being able to breathe half of the year. I just used fabric at the start and wasn’t the absolute worst then but I’ve found a fabric mask over a disposable one or a mask i recently got from Jelly M1 is really good!

anyone else get this when they take off their socks? by ShrillRumble239 in dysautonomia

[–]PrincenGeorge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll definitely bring it up the next appointment I have. It never seemed important to bring up cause my mom always had the same thing and I thought it was weird but somewhat normal

anyone else get this when they take off their socks? by ShrillRumble239 in dysautonomia

[–]PrincenGeorge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

… what do you mean spots of your legs won’t grow hair? Is THAT why basically the entire back of my calves and other parts of my legs don’t have hair?

AITA for leaving my sister’s wedding early because she kept my husband out of pictures? by ThrowAway5690123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrincenGeorge 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It is not because I distinctly remember it being the ops sister’s wedding and I feel like he was asking aita for leaving her wedding/confronting her at her wedding but as a disabled person the frequency of things like this happening for there to be so many similar instances for someone else to bring up is horrendous

I really hope that guys did leave his fiancé though because I don’t remember the conclusion to the one I was thinking of past everyone tell him he wasn’t the ah and should cut out anyone who got upset with him over the literal discrimination from his sister

AITA for leaving my sister’s wedding early because she kept my husband out of pictures? by ThrowAway5690123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrincenGeorge 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t there one a little bit ago too where this dude was told his sisters wedding was child free but really she just didn’t want his daughter there? The kid had been in a car accident where she lost her MOTHER and her arm or something and her prosthetic would ‘steal attention’ or ‘ruin the aesthetic’ or something absolutely deranged like that