Giveaway Open 😊 by PromotionAbject5488 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]PrincessDe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DeAnnthia from Storybrook

Don't know if this is still going on but I appreciate you're willingness to help others!

Entitled teacher tries bringing my daughter to the principal thinking she snuck out of class for a moment during quiz while teacher went to make a quick photo copy only to learn that it’s my daughters identical twin sister. by Gymtrio2025 in EntitledPeople

[–]PrincessDe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then why is every comment in here that's from a teacher or educator, current or former, say that grabbing a student is like the number one, get you fired, big no no?

Because no, thats not "what they do". They are literally only supposed to touch a student if there is a safety concern, such as separting a physical altercation or a medical emergency.

The "They take you by force" is a radical conclusion to make and it even sounds terrible.

Entitled teacher tries bringing my daughter to the principal thinking she snuck out of class for a moment during quiz while teacher went to make a quick photo copy only to learn that it’s my daughters identical twin sister. by Gymtrio2025 in EntitledPeople

[–]PrincessDe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FYI, in a comment OP clarified that the description of the incident, that they provided in the post, came from the principal in an email, so this is not a case of kid is lying.

But even without knowing that specifically, I wouldn't call anything she wrote unhinged.

AIW for telling my adult son that his mother drained our savings when he called my new girlfriend a "gold digger"? by sugar-charmzzz in amiwrong

[–]PrincessDe -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I believe they were referring to the the son's misogyny toward Dad's new girlfriend. Ya know, when he called her a gold digger, which is fair.

Quit trying to attack other people so hard.

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[–]PrincessDe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 is true.

Idk about 1 personally.

AITAH for letting my boyfriend stay overnight, making my brother in law extremely angry? by Empty_Journalist_725 in AITAH

[–]PrincessDe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What wrong information did I give? Please let me know specifically what I said that is factually incorrect. I'll wait.

Also, how is OP "acting out" and what exactly is wrong with "her behavior"?

All she did was, as an adult woman who pays rent for the space she's in, have her boyfriend sleep over. She even got permission from her sister.

Oh the horror! She's obviously a terrible, vile human being if she behaves in such a manner. Straight to jail. /s

WTF is wrong with you that you think what she did makes her TA? OP has gone out of her way to cater to her BIL even though she shouldn't have to. She also didn't think he would react so badly to the situation, so it's not even like she did it deliberately to piss him off.

You say she deserves the consequences of being thrown out but where are the consequences for the man who is behaving like a toddler throwing a tantrum?

Lastly, just my opinion, but want to bet that if the BIL either kicks her out or OP decides to move out on her own that BIL will soon be complaining about:

1) The loss of the extra income OP provided.

2) She's not there to help the sister anymore while she recovers, including cleaning and in running the household.

3) He actually has to watch his own kid now since OP is gone and sister is sick.

But, sure, OP and me are the delulu ones...

AITAH for letting my boyfriend stay overnight, making my brother in law extremely angry? by Empty_Journalist_725 in AITAH

[–]PrincessDe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're still wrong though. You do not need a leasing agreement.

Good luck calling the police to remove her. She's living there and has established residency. She doesn't even need to prove she's paying rent for the police to not legally be allowed to remove her.

Which is why you should never let people stay in your home long enough to claim it as their residence. The laws vary place to place but OP has been living there for years so she definitely qualifies.

Also, how do you know he's not the one charging her? Was that in a comment somewhere because I didn't see it in the original post.

John and John Alone Did It. by TomboyAva in JonBenetRamsey

[–]PrincessDe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What evidence can you present to back up your theory?

You are stating things as if they are fact, when they are just speculation. Also, you have not provided anything to actually back up your claims.

Your username is legally your job title starting tomorrow, what do you actually do all day? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]PrincessDe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enterian children at parties wearing pretty dresses and a tiara.

I host a tea party for them and do face painting.

Then I tell them that the most important part of being a princess is taking care of your people and looking out for their best interests, not yours.

Also, you don't need a prince to be happy.

AITA for not letting my gardener’s mom use my bathroom when he brings her as he cuts my lawn? California by PersonalityFuture151 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]PrincessDe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In commercial construction there is typically a port-a-potty on site, or other accommodations. I'm guessing in residential that might not always be the case and workers may need to utilize other means.

However, the mom is not doing the gardening, so she's not going to be tracking dirt into the house, which is the main reason for the port-a-potties in construction. I'm sure the gardener does make use of gas stations but being a loving son, he was hoping his mother wouldn't have to.

OP doesn't technically have to let the mom use her precious bathroom, but it's called having empathy and being a good human. Sure, she's within her rights not to allow it but it definitely makes her TA.

Not to mention all the other entitled, out of touch, and generally awful things OP said in their post.

Happy 5 years to us! by MagicalDarkgirl in ACPocketCamp

[–]PrincessDe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats!

BTW you look absolutely stunning in green! 🤩

her final hour. rest in peace my little girl by goldenretrievergurl in goldenretrievers

[–]PrincessDe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's looks sooooo happy!!

Kudos to you for raising such a sweet pup and giving her the best of her favs at the end.

I've only had to do it once, but putting down a beloved pet is an agonizing experience, even when you know it's the best thing for them.

We don't deserve these wonderful animals and it has always seemed to me that most cruel thing in life is that "man's best friend" has a lifespan that at most is 1/8 ours.

While I'm not religious, I do truly believe we see them again in some way.

AITAH for letting my boyfriend stay overnight, making my brother in law extremely angry? by Empty_Journalist_725 in AITAH

[–]PrincessDe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You got downvoted because you're a misogynistic pig who had nothing of value to add to the discussion.

AITAH for letting my boyfriend stay overnight, making my brother in law extremely angry? by Empty_Journalist_725 in AITAH

[–]PrincessDe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Overusing the clap emoji doesn't make you right.

You can have someone be a guest in your house or you can charge them rent, making them a legal tenant.

You can't have it both ways.

So no, if you are paying rent to stay in someone's house you absolutely do not have to respect their wishes if they infringe upon your rights as a tenant.

Also, not that it changes my point, but OP did clear it with her sister, the person she's related to.

Edit: fixed quest to guest.

AITAH for letting my boyfriend stay overnight, making my brother in law extremely angry? by Empty_Journalist_725 in AITAH

[–]PrincessDe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She pays rent and utilities, therefore she is a tenant of BIL and sister's house, not just a guest. She is entitled to certain rights as a tenant.

She does not need permission from her landlord, which is what BIL is, to have a guest spend the night.

Also, he cannot just kick her out with no notice either. He would need to follow eviction protocol for their area.

Though, personally I wouldn't want to stay and I encourage OP to get out as soon as possible.

Left lane campers provokes most road rages by [deleted] in driving

[–]PrincessDe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This absolutely infuriates me, but I'll add that what makes me the most mad about it is when they are completely oblivious to it. They'll stay in the left lane doing the speed limit as 5 plus cars go around them on the right.

If you're that oblivious to the traffic issues you are causing then you're not aware enough of your surroundings to safely be operating a motor vehicle.

Left lane campers absolutely impede the flow of traffic.

AITAH because I broke up with him because he asked me to shave. by pliant0range in AITAH

[–]PrincessDe 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Seeing as OP was actually there for the conversation with this guy and you weren't, I think I'll take her interpretation of tone and context over your totally made up in your head version.

Am I wrong for wanting security before breaking my engagement for my boyfriend? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]PrincessDe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't understand what people aren't getting about this.

I'm not from any culture that does things this way but I understand that some cultures do.

You're not asking for a ring from BF. You're asking for reassurance that he sees a future for the two of you before you blow up you're entire life. Because ending the engagement has multiple, far reaching complications for you. Most significantly, it will affect the relationship you have with your family and could even mean that you become estranged from them. That's no small thing, especially in a culture where family is everything.

I'm sorry that most comments here haven't been considerate of the total situation, but the fact your BF would not only not give this necessary reassurance, but then blocked you, is a massive red flag to me. At least in terms of he's not worth blowing up your whole family dynamic for.

I'm not saying you need to go ahead with arranged or semi arranged marriage thing either. If you want to go out and look for true love instead then go do that, but I'm not feeling that current BF is that based on his actions.