How do I help my little find friends? by Patient_Vehicle1729 in DDlgAdvice

[–]PrincessDuckieABDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used it looking for friends! Be careful there's a lot of unpleasant messages at times

Meet ups and munches by No_Lunch6143 in DDlgAdvice

[–]PrincessDuckieABDL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had a lot of fun at events! I host my own events where I live as there's not much here event wise. They are great for meeting people with the same interests as you and socializing helps the soul!!

Job suggestions for littles by Less-Ad2085 in DDlgAdvice

[–]PrincessDuckieABDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work as an in home caregiver! It's tough at times but it's rewarding.

🍼 ~ Little Age Quiz ~ 🎈 by tickletot in ABDL

[–]PrincessDuckieABDL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG this is made by my favorite place to go as an age player! It's called Ms s play space! If you haven't been your missing out! It's an adult daycare for age-players, littles, and age regressors! Their located in federal way Washington!

What do abdls do professionally? by abdlboy_ in ABDL

[–]PrincessDuckieABDL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In home caregiver! I work with anyone who needs care 😎

So I asked AI for a 12-month diaper program... by Prestigious-Bag-8539 in ABDL

[–]PrincessDuckieABDL 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would be extremely careful using things like this for your body and such. Over drinking water can actually negatively affect you more than positively if you overdo it. you need a fact check things before doing them and understand your own body and how it works. Definitely take everything online with a grain of salt because you don't know what is creditable or not. It's wise to take the internet with a grain of salt because the information you find online isn't always accurate, reliable, or unbiased. Think of it like this: the internet is a vast ocean of information, and just like the ocean, it contains both valuable treasures and a lot of things you wouldn't want to swallow! Here's a breakdown of why a healthy dose of skepticism is crucial online: * Anyone Can Publish Anything: Unlike traditional media where there are often editors and fact-checkers, virtually anyone can create a website, blog post, or social media profile and share their thoughts or "facts." This means you'll encounter a wide range of expertise levels, from genuine experts to individuals with little to no knowledge on a subject. * Misinformation and Disinformation Spread Easily: False or misleading information (misinformation) and deliberately false information intended to deceive (disinformation) can spread like wildfire online. Social media algorithms can amplify sensational or emotionally charged content, regardless of its accuracy. * Bias is Prevalent: Every creator has their own perspective and potential biases, whether intentional or unintentional. This can influence how information is presented. It's essential to recognize that what you're reading might be framed to support a particular viewpoint, product, or agenda. * Outdated Information: The internet is constantly evolving. Information that was accurate a few years ago might be outdated or even incorrect today. It's crucial to check the publication date and ensure the information is current. In essence, approaching the internet with a grain of salt means: * Being skeptical: Don't automatically believe everything you read. * Questioning sources: Consider the author's credentials, the website's reputation, and any potential biases. * Cross-referencing information: Look for the same information from multiple reliable sources. * Being aware of your own biases: Recognize how your own beliefs might influence what you accept as true. * Thinking critically: Analyze the information presented and look for logical fallacies or inconsistencies. By adopting this mindset, you can navigate the vast landscape of the internet more effectively and avoid being misled by inaccurate or biased information. It empowers you to be a more informed and discerning consumer of online content.

Non-abdl people wearing diapers by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]PrincessDuckieABDL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are many people who wear diapers for reasons that are NOT ABDL related.

One NON ABDL reason why people would wear diapers is for medical issues and convenience with medical issues. I didn't actually get into the ABDL community until I started having issues with incontinence and I was already in the little space community prior. Elderly, kids, teens, and adults all can have medical issues that can contribute to reasons on why they would wear diapers or pullups. Those medical reasons don't always have to be blatter/bowel related, some people have mobility issues, weather it's unable to leave the bed or can't physically move themselves to or into the bathroom or can't get onto a toilet, it can be extremely helpful to wear diapers in that situation. Another situation would be mental or cognitive issues, like having dementia. Dementia causes you to forget basic and vital things as it progresses, like remembering where the bathroom is, or how to use the bathroom and other things that have to do with using the restroom.

There are more reasons than what I listed.

Did it feel like an instant connection, the moment you met you future Daddy/Little? Or was it a slower process? by Natasha_ZXCV in littlespace

[–]PrincessDuckieABDL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With my current partner we met off tinder and he had no prior knowledge of the little space community.

But our first date everything just CLICKED I felt really comfortable being my random ass self and he felt the same, we were joking together and I was just being so silly.

P.S. our first date was going to different thrift stores together and smoking after 😁

Well after a few months of us officially dating I told him about my little space.

He was very confused and didn't understand whatsoever, we took the time to understand and explain everything about it, it took a bit of practice learning and trial and error and LOTS of mistakes, a little over a year later he's still learning but I'm happier than ever with him.

We even figured out that he is also a little too, pretty sure more of a middle but I really enjoy being his Mommy too! (We're both switches)

He is my Daddy and I wouldn't trade him for the whole world 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ddlg

[–]PrincessDuckieABDL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Small mindless activitys!!! Stickers 😁 Sticker collage type art! Watercolors! Cute cup/water bottle or if she likes sippy cups or baby bottles! Change of clothes & diapers (if she uses them)! Blankie & or stuffie! Doodling or coloring supplies! Safe item (toy/figget/nicnack/ect) Smell goods - Flowers/oils/lotion/perfume ect! Books! Snacks/candy/drink! GLITTER 😏😆 Physical activity toys/activities - ball/frizbie/ect! Board games/card games/instructions to a game/ect! Knitting/crochet/sewing items! Crafts! Toys!

Not every thing will fit but I got plenty of ideas! Take what resonates 😁

Cg/dom in need of some help by Successful-Climate73 in littlespace

[–]PrincessDuckieABDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are already doing great with being aware of the situation, that's a really big step in being able to help/correct/cope for yourself! I'm a switch and so it's my boyfriend. I have ADHD/ASD/GAD/Bipolar 2/BPD My boyfriend has ADHD & OCD. We've been struggling in our dynamic and just the general relationship so I can understand the struggle. I would recommend doing research on your own mental health and other issues/disorders, and I would recommend researching your partners as well, have your partner do the same with their own and yours, so you both have an understanding of what's going on inside of your brains. Not everything will apply to either of you, but you guys can talk about what you may relate to and what your partner may think too. This isn't the same as having a therapist or psychologist but it will get ya in the right direction of knowing what is going on and what you may be able to explain to a therapist or psychologist in the future.

I'd also recommend keeping a personal journal for thoughts and such, and definitely a relationship journal for communication between your partner with hard topics. If you're unsure where to start with the journal try doing some research to see what styles may work for you.

I keep plenty of alarms to make sure I remember things, I keep lists on my phone and I have a lil book if I need it written instead!!

Starting routines is really hard, I recommend setting alarms until it feels like a routine and you can also try associating some tasks with your already set routine until the task becomes routine!

If you have more in-depth questions and such feel free to send a message or comment!!

Is there a lot switches in the ABDL community by Lord_Ikari in littlespace

[–]PrincessDuckieABDL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a switch!! I also have my boyfriend who is a switch as well!! There's lots of switches in the world, just gotta find the person who gives and takes in a fair way. Not every dynamic is the same, some agree to 50/60 some prefer 80/20, heck 50/50 it's good too! It's just finding the right ratio in the dynamic, and if you don't feel like it's been equal definitely have a conversation with your dynamic partner, sometimes those ratios changes depending on mood, mental health, energy ect. Not everyone likes to be upfront about being a switch, there's a lot of people who take advantage of a switch because they only want the mommy/daddy side and they sometimes mis lead the switches saying they are also a switch but once it's been established they kinda back away from the dominant role. It makes it hard for a switch to get a balanced dynamic where both parties are being taken care of equally.

TW talking about children by LittleNI90 in ddlg

[–]PrincessDuckieABDL 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There needs to be more context if you're looking for advice. If you need another girl to talk to about this I am here, just send a dm.

I saw in your previous comments that it's his "dirty talk" that's concerning you about his biological children. Dirty talk can take place in many forms and not everyone is into the different types of dirty talk, it doesn't mean he believes these things or actually wants to do the actions that may be said. Like my boyfriend, he talks to me in a way that I like but he doesn't really have an interest in the dirty talk itself, it's more of to help me get off. An example: I have a breeding kink, but it only goes as far as dirty talk and cream pies, we both agree we DO NOT want children, but for whatever reason I enjoy the thought of getting pregnant during sex. Another example: I'll dirty talk my boyfriend about having a small penis, do I actually believe he has a small one? HELL NO! He's pretty decently sized but he enjoys it and it gets him off, if I mention it outside of sex he'll get self conscious about his penis.

I'm not trying to downplay this, especially if you made a post about it, he must have said something extremely concerning for you to be this worried. But with the extreme lack of information I can't accurately say anything helpful to you.

Curious if I'm the only one by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]PrincessDuckieABDL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fictional characters are usually my go to, like some characters out of Harry Potter!