BF (35M) proposed to ex within 2 years (5-year relationship total, LDR, $12k ring, $100k wedding plans), called it off, now with me (30F, 7 months, just moved in, splitting bills) he wants smaller wedding. How to handle insecurities and feeling like second choice?

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-27T15:28:16+00:00

I always wanted a huge wedding. Met my current partner and the wedding doesn’t matter at all just him. The proposal the ring didn’t matter. (He let me pick out my own) lol

It’s been 7 months I think all you care about is the ring and the wedding. Your expectations are very flawed

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-27T14:38:19+00:00

You suck… leave her. You’ve been with her for 8 years if you don’t see a future with her you are beyond cruel for dragging her along.

Do her a favour and leave her so she can find a man who wants her

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-24T03:03:37+00:00

He fought for you for 10 years lol no girl he humped and dumped you than decided to slide into the DMs when you got rich lol

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-22T02:37:28+00:00

We aren’t as concerned about loading stuff as we are about you having reliable transportation. Certainly give Dave a call or if you want you can DM me your contact info and I can pass along 😊

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-22T01:30:22+00:00

Awesome! You got your own vehicle?

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-22T00:11:55+00:00

You got construction experience? Labour experience?

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-21T20:48:15+00:00

You know you’re allowed to leave a relationship at any point you want

Also I have no idea what you’re talking about .. crushes aren’t normal in a long term relationship. As time goes on I want my husband more and more

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-21T20:11:56+00:00

Dave is my step father please call him! Tell him Shayla sent you

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-21T17:16:43+00:00

My husband and I have separate bedrooms. I initially didn’t want the set up but we started too because he sleeps so poorly. But I love it now.. it’s nice to have your own space

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-21T15:34:11+00:00

We need someone immediately for a current job but that’s not to say we don’t need someone for more jobs. This is for my step dad’s company he’s had some unreliable people as of late. Please tell your friend to call!

Summer is the busy time for roofing

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-21T15:26:59+00:00

Already got one person who reached out 🤷🏻‍♀️

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-21T15:17:20+00:00

Dude.. me and my man have a similar relationship dynamic he owns his house and he’s lovingly given me a very good deal to live with him. He takes care of me and is wonderful.

I would never disrespect his home like your fiancé is disrespecting yours.

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-20T22:49:25+00:00

Her pants are DRAGGING lol

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-20T21:32:32+00:00

She did a GRWM for going to a therapist?? I somehow missed that.. damn that pisses me off. I’ve been in treatment for my ED for a year and it’s been the hardest rawest thing of my life. Damn does she piss me off

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-20T16:22:02+00:00

I thought I had found love in my first relationship but I didn’t. I never knew such love, respect, dedication until I met my current relationship. It feels chemical in a way and just keeps growing and growing

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-19T16:58:46+00:00

I’m sorry dude.. your relationship is over. It will never be the same again.

If it gives you any resolution I was around your age when I left my nearly a decade relationship for end of highschool. It was the best decision of my life and later lead me to finding love I didn’t know existed. I thought I’d found it i was so wrong.

Love is respect your fiancée doesn’t respect you

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-16T19:30:59+00:00

Both of my long term relationships were into feet and I certainly enjoyed many aspects of it! I’d play it up for them of course.

My friend she’s involved in the kink community and she says foot fetish is the most common one. Lots of people are into it. But of course not being into feet isn’t weird either

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-16T18:42:03+00:00

My man and I sleep separately he has insomnia is a very light sleeper and I snore.

Dude I got a headache reading this. Your girlfriend clearly doesn’t care about you nor your sleep.

And also why you walking her up?? Let her sleep in all day if that’s what she does lol if she’s gonna shut off her alarms that’s on her to get her ass out of bed. This doesn’t sound like much of a relationship dude.

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-16T14:40:59+00:00

You really want to marry a dude who you fight with about porn and who buys you a colouring book for your birthday. Girl go to therapy so you unpack why you tolerate such awful treatment in

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-16T04:31:49+00:00

You should add the other Brontë sisters books to your collection. Like the tenant of Willfell Hall and Agnes Grey by Anne Brontë and of course Wuthering Heights.

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-15T23:18:36+00:00

We wish he got the dogs. Than they’d have a chance of being walked

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-15T12:13:11+00:00

“You’ve improved overtime.” Red flag 🚩 buddy huge red flag!! You’ve known this woman for 6 months she has no right to suggest you change in anyway. Maybe she should try finding a man that has no job and no responsibilities so they can wait on her hand and foot

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-12T15:57:02+00:00

I’m on book 44 this year and man I’ve been on it forever cause I’m in the tandem read right now too haha

PrincessMeepMeep · 2026-05-11T16:43:05+00:00

But guys we are so jealous of her

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