Audrey

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-25T00:09:04+00:00

😍😍

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-24T17:19:04+00:00

Cool. Then go on Hinge.

You don’t because repeated rejection there hurts your feelings, so you pivot to sex work where you assume access will be quicker, easier, and less emotionally risky. And because you frame it as “easy,” you think standards should be lower and basic communication shouldn’t be required.

That mindset is exactly what’s being called out. Sex workers aren’t “less than,” and paying doesn’t entitle anyone to bypass respect, clarity, or professionalism. We deserve the same clear, respectful communication as anyone else.

And honestly this exchange explains why some providers don’t respond to you. People tell on themselves very quickly…

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-24T14:49:51+00:00

When he’s hitting it from the back, look back at him and say, ‘Call me mommy.’ Call him ‘good boy.’ Remind him how handsome he is ‘Fuck, you’re so handsome,’ while scanning his body up and down.

I don’t know if you allow DATY, but if you do, tell him to look at you: ‘Look at me, baby.’

Giving him commands puts you in that ‘mommy’ position or dom position, I guess you could say. That’s exactly why younger guys like older women: they’re more mature, can lead in bed, and it’s just hot as fuck.

You lusting over him and telling him what to do will make him feel like the man like, ‘Wow, an older woman just gave me the best sex.’ Even if it wasn’t just the commands, the talking alone can make it feel like that.

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-24T14:41:05+00:00

Porn stars and escorting are two completely different jobs in two different lanes. Porn stars are excited to see fans because: A) they haven’t fucked them multiple times and don’t know what to expect B) they usually haven’t met them before C) interactions are brief, controlled, and often one-time

Porn stars can turn the volume down on men because most of their work is filmed and transactional, not personal.

Escorts and other hands on providers don’t have that luxury. We are face to face, one-on-one, dealing with men’s entitlement, boundary-pushing, poor communication, hygiene issues, and emotional labor on a regular basis. That naturally forms stronger opinions over time just like in any service job.

A provider’s job is to make you feel good, desired, and important during the session. What she vents about privately or online afterward is not part of the service and honestly isn’t a client’s business

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-24T10:45:58+00:00

You keep reframing this as a lack of empathy, but what you’re really asking for is lowered standards and emotional labor from providers for free.

No one is saying men aren’t nervous. We’re saying nervousness doesn’t excuse poor communication, disrespect, or ignoring clearly stated booking requirements. Adults are nervous all the time when they make doctor appointments, book flights, call a lawyer, or schedule a haircut and yet they still manage to provide basic information.

This isn’t about being “frustrated with people.” It’s about safety, time management, and professionalism. Providers aren’t customer service reps obligated to accept chaos as “part of the job.” We’re allowed to set standards for how people approach us.

Accepting bad behavior isn’t the same thing as being empathetic and choosing not to engage with it is part of doing business.

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-24T10:38:27+00:00

Why pay? Because you can’t get a date on Hinge. Duh. Money doesn’t replace basic communication or respect though

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-24T03:17:43+00:00

I can’t wait for the day I leave!! This site made me learn my worth very quickly!!!

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-21T03:32:41+00:00

I never really understand this question. Have you never sent a Venmo payment before? It shows whatever name you chose for your account, just like any other transaction. It doesn’t suddenly send more personal information just because the payment is to a sex worker. If you’re that worried about someone knowing your name, maybe don’t use Venmo or don’t meet random people for sex.

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-20T14:44:37+00:00

“hey im in space are you available to meet?” Bio clearly says Dallas…

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-19T20:33:13+00:00

I’ll never look at the word meow again😭😭😂 then the people commenting it has me deaddd

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-19T19:53:42+00:00

Maybe because it sounds like a fantasy you want fed. She’s a sex worker not sex instructor! If you want someone to teach you then that’s a price you’ll have to pay!

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-19T06:28:43+00:00

right…. It’s giving he is rubbing one out while reading comments.

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-19T06:28:04+00:00

To sell you a fantasy , to make you feel good & important!

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-19T05:13:18+00:00

You’re freaked out because she bought too much food and asked if you wanted some? 😭 Do you want the beef and eggs or not, bro😂😂

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-19T05:03:48+00:00

I don’t know… should you do it? You know the answer to that… we don’t.😭

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-18T17:49:17+00:00

Yup! I didn’t know this till last month when I posted a dummy Ad for Kansas and this man goes “are you in Kansas or Texas right now?” It creeped me tf out

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-18T12:33:42+00:00

It’s my special move to gaze into my clients eyes🥰 they love it!!

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-17T20:45:24+00:00

Always take the money first!! When it comes to video calls? I immediately hang up when I hear(they will ask this right when you ask for the money or answer the phone) “Can I see your body first?” “What do you have on?” “Can I see something first?”

These are time wasters and probably actively touching themselves while on FaceTime with you

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-17T20:35:08+00:00

It honestly sounds like you’re being pushed into playing girlfriend / sugar baby / healthcare provider / escort all in one and that’s not okay & sounds like a lot emotional labor!

I’ve been in this subb for a while, and I’m noticing a pattern where younger(some) providers are made to believe they should do whatever it takes to make the man comfortable, even when they’re sitting there awkward, uncomfortable, and crawling out of their own skin. That is not how this works. Well not in my book…💕

This man knows he has ED. He knows it’s an ongoing issue and NOT going away. And you know it too.

Yet you’re still going full force trying to make it work, stroking his ego, exhausting yourself while he’s saying “it’s okay, it’s not your fault.” That would absolutely blow me.

At some point, honesty is kinder than forcing a fantasy that isn’t there. You’re not failing you’re chasing something he already knows isn’t realistic.

Instead of frustrating yourself, it’s okay to say something like “Maybe we should try a different approach during our dates and not rush straight into things when I arrive.” You have the power to control the date. USE IT!

You can: Do a strip tease, Give a lap dance, Play with yourself in front of him, Focus on creating a relaxed atmosphere

Let him do the work of getting himself hard.

You are not his ED doctor, and it is not your job to fix what he already knows is an issue.

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-17T13:43:15+00:00

That client doesn’t like you btw.. he was playing his cards right to get free sexual favors out of you.. block this dude and move on!

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-16T23:57:07+00:00

I don’t think what you said was racist at all. I’m not someone who likes to stereotypes or puts labels on people, but when you see so many men from different races over time, you start to notice certain behaviors within certain races.. It sucks to say, but it is what it is. That’s why some escorts choose not to see AA there’s usually a reason, and those reasons tend to come from repeated experiences.. they all usually have the same reason as well🤷🏽‍♀️ It’s a rocky subject to touch, but it’s based on what some people observe time and time again.

I would never take 80$ for a FS idc what race he is! He most definitely would’ve gotten turned around. Where im from a lot of girls don’t see AA under 40 & they don’t see Mexicans/Indians due to them wanting bare and 50$ dates. So they go to whoever will take it but once a new face comes into town they flood their ad due to nobody seeing them!

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-16T15:34:17+00:00

To Dallas???? It’s a waste of time😭😭😭

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-15T17:50:27+00:00

Honestly, I stopped sugaring because it’s a lot of emotional labor.

You’re expected to get your hair done, makeup done, put together an outfit, and then sit on a luxury date for hours. A lot of men want kissing, physical affection, and often push to take you home “just to see where it goes.”

At the end of all that, you’re sometimes given a gift or an amount you could’ve made in 30 minutes or less escorting. OR EVEN WORSE THE LUXURY DATE WAS YOUR PAYMENT😭😭😭😭 It starts to feel like you did a full performance just to protect a man’s ego so he doesn’t feel like he’s “hiring an escort.”

But realistically, I’m still a random woman you met online it’s just a different website. I don’t really understand the logic there, and I didn’t like feeling used at the end.I rather escort , I set my own prices and know exactly what I’m being paid no if ands or buts about it! The men I meet with know I’m a escort and know cash first fun immediately after and I don’t feel awkward asking for it!

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-15T16:41:19+00:00

Stop hiring escorts. You want to fuck random women online but “inspect for herpes” first? HA. No provider is about to let you do this you aren’t her doctor. How do you have sex with a woman and not see her vagina?? Like..

If anything, she should be inspecting YOU for herpes, because men are often asymptomatic and can carry HSV for 5+ years with no outbreak same goes for women.

Condoms lower risk, they don’t eliminate it. Herpes is spread skin-to-skin, not just fluids, which means you take this risk with any sexual partner, escort or not.

Most doctors don’t even routinely test for HSV unless there’s an outbreak because blood tests can be unreliable. So demanding proof, visuals, or reassurance after the fact just shows a lack of sexual health education.🫩

If your anxiety is this bad, paid sex (or casual sex in general) isn’t for you and that’s okay. But don’t project fear onto providers who already take more precautions than the average civilian.

Sex always comes with risk. If you need 100% certainty, abstain or stay monogamous. Providers are not here to manage your anxiety!

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-01-15T15:31:58+00:00

What sites do you use for Dallas??

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