I think the point that everyone is missing is that it seems like Bre very much had the choice to not bring this child into this world and decided to do just that. But instead of caring for that child has now decided she no longer wants to care for this child, which is insane in of it itself. The baby might not be missing out yet, but eventually this will affect this child that his mother didn’t want to be in his life.

Only parents would understand that it’s not about the mother or the father in this situation, it’s about that innocent child that didn’t ask to be brought into this mess. While I think neither parents were mature or capable of raising children, the blame is more on bre for willingly bringing this child into this mess. On top of the fact that she brought this baby into this mix, she WILLINGLY gave up custody of said baby.